Here in the South it used to be said that sex outside of wedlock was forbidden to a woman - unless it was with the man she intended to marry.
I’m blessed; when we married, I lost interest in any other woman. That was 35 years ago.
Congratulations-the contractor and compadre I work for recently celebrated 41 years-it is his 3d marriage and her 2nd. My guy was my fiancé in college, but we both married someone else-40+ years later, he showed me he is still the fine cowboy-2nd chances are good things...