[Texan5]

I think a lot of these sour guys have been so totally trashed they have high heel prints all over their asses and just can’t get past it-so they blame/hate women-my case manager self says they would benefit from some sessions with a good psychotherapist-it might assist them in working through all that so they could eventually get past the bitterness and resentment-but that is just my opinion...

I liked that post, too-my 1st hubby-may he rest in peace-considered his mid-life cheating just “an indiscretion”, and never understood why I was appalled and pissed off enough to end the marriage after so long-but if I’d done such a thing, he’d likely have had me whipped in public and put into the stocks-we were equals until he decided that part of the vows about being faithful were only for me...

[miss marmelstein]

Oh, that’s too bad! But it seems your second husband is a prize. I’m my husband’s second wife. My husband has never, ever spoken ill of his first wife - he considers it low class and common.

There are two threads up at the moment: one of a husband murdering his wife and one about an Indian immigrant arrested for beating his wife (disciplining her as they say here). Then the sour guys wonder why some women divorce! Yeah, usually before the guy reaches for the gun, knife or poison!

Fun talking to you.

[rollo tomasi]

Not angry at women, angry at ex for cheapening vows made before God, creating a family together, and then taking off because she “needed to find herself and is a self-admitted materialists.

The hilarious part is the fact she "loves Jesus and Jesus loves her" because the more she sins, the more she is forgiven" theological clap-trap. Keep in mind she was military and broke up a marriage/family with another officer. She screwed some enlisted guy and married him to avoid a 134 fraternization and adultery.

I think about that every time my nine year old wakes up in the middle of the night crying for mommy and daddy.