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And it’s better for American women how?

I’m not saying it is. The problem is that our nation has been really feminized to the point of absurdity. Men are not really allowed to be men any more. And the women they marry have the full force of the courts and the government to make him “toe the line”.

i.e. smart men need to think about the risk they are taking with their future when they get married. One guarantee in life is the person you marry is not the same person they will be in 10 or 20 years.

Remember, women get frustrated with men because they don’t change and men get frustrated with women because they do.

And it’s better for American women how? These so called American men are such catches? Please.

The REAL problem is no-fault divorce. Too many people (the gross majority being women) treat marriage as something that they can give up on way too easily.

I have used this analogy for decades:

If you buy a car and believe it is the only car you will ever own, you tend to keep up the maintenance so you don’t find yourself without a car because it’s broken down for the last time.

If you buy a car with the belief that you can always just sell it or trade it in for a new one if you don’t like it, you may not keep up the maintenance.

I think a lot of people are treating marriage as the latter. It hurts both men and women and, especially, children. But the fact is that men seem to be giving up on marriage BEFORE they get married while women are giving up on it AFTER they get married.

The former is the higher course. Only one of them is violating vows.