You're a free agent. No one is forcing you to attend. As for my responsibility, I refer you to post #260: "As for my part of that offensive material, I would observe that failing all other recourse, one can always take exception to the “tone” of an argument. It is a last redoubt.
You can't seem to mount an adequate response to my points, but I get the feeling that somehow you want me to take ownership of your failure.
What points? You've disavowed any responsibility for the content of the article or bringing me over here to read it.