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Cleavage: What's Appropriate, What's Not
ABCNews ^ | May 29, 2007 | staff reporter

Posted on 05/30/2007 1:26:52 PM PDT by Daffynition

The weather's getting warmer and necklines are dipping lower -- sometimes, too low.

From the beach to the mall to the office, women seem to be showing off their cleavage more than ever before. Why? According to Elisabeth Squires, author of "Boobs: A Guide to Your Girls," American breasts are getting bigger while shirts are getting smaller.

"We are seeing more cleavage these days for a few reasons. First, the fashion of the day is tight and skinny. At the same time, women are bigger than they were even 15 years ago. Bra fitters tell me that an E cup is the new C cup," Squires said on "Good Morning America."

"We have to remember that while more women are showing more cleavage, you really have to use your breast power responsibly," Squires said.

What's Appropriate When

What looks sexy for a night out on the town may not be appropriate in the workplace. In fact, Squires said cleavage should never make an appearance in the office.

"It's way too big of a distraction for men and women," she said. "If cleavage isn't in your job description, don't put it in."

But that doesn't mean breasts should stay hidden. According to Squires, the appearance of breasts can help women in the workplace.

"A recent study showed men photos of women in a workplace with large breasts showing cleavage, medium breasts and small breasts. When asked about who looked most professional and personable, the men chose the women with medium-sized breasts," she said.

"You don't have to be flat-chested to be taken seriously," she added. "You just have to be proportionate. For women who are small busted, that may mean a little padding. For well-endowed women, that may mean a minimizer."

Squires suggested that women also keep things respectable at family events, like a kids' soccer game.

"This is not the time to show off your girls," she said. "Your children should not have to compete with your cleavage for attention."

Night is prime time to bring out breasts, but Squires suggested women treat their cleavage as part of their outfit -- not a focal point.

"You can certainly be a bit more daring," she said. "This presumably is adult time, and cleavage is powerful. This is the time to use it. But they should be part of your whole look."

Pregnant women are an exception to the rules. Squires said because pregnancy gives breasts a boost they might not have otherwise, women should show them off.

"During pregnancy you should celebrate your breasts. For some women, that's the only time they have cleavage," she said. "Obviously you don't want to go nuts. But cleavage on a pregnant woman is just different -- live it up a bit."

Squires said women of a certain age can still show off cleavage, as 61-year-old Helen Mirren proved at the Oscars.

"It has to be integrated into your entire look," she said. "If a woman of a certain age squeezes her girls together, she'll get the wrinkled, crepelike look. That's not good. But if you're older and you wear a scoop neck and you have beautiful, what the French call decollete, that's great."

Tips for Every Woman

Squires offered advice all women can heed to make their breasts look better:

Don't be in bra denial. The average woman changes bra sizes at least seven times in her life. Get fitted and accept your number and cup size.

Think outside the bra. A strong back and shoulders -- good carriage -- makes your whole body look better, including your breasts. Don't concentrate so much on your underwiring. Concentrate on the rest of your body.

Be good to your girls. Breasts are unique, and the truth is that men love them all. Be more accepting of your body. Most women think breasts only come in two sizes: too big or too small. It's not true. They're beautiful; be good to them.


TOPICS: Heated Discussion
KEYWORDS: cleavage; decorum; fashion; modesty; moralabsolutes; professionaldress
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To: DCPatriot

Yes. She was the aunt of a childhood friend ... quite “hot” in her day! ;-D


341 posted on 10/03/2007 1:03:07 PM PDT by Daffynition (The quieter you become, the more you are able to hear.)
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To: DCPatriot
From this week's Smoking Gun ... seems as if they categorize their mug shots. Not so very high-brow stuff ... but in some cases funny. 8-l
342 posted on 10/20/2007 9:43:49 AM PDT by Daffynition (The quieter you become, the more you are able to hear.)
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To: Daffynition

What in heavens does anybody have against Mexican women?


343 posted on 10/20/2007 10:34:01 AM PDT by DCPatriot ("It aint what you don't know that kills you. It's what you know that aint so" Theodore Sturgeon))
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To: Daffynition

Just this last one, okay????


344 posted on 10/20/2007 10:35:51 AM PDT by DCPatriot ("It aint what you don't know that kills you. It's what you know that aint so" Theodore Sturgeon))
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To: DCPatriot
Va-va-voom! The hour-glass figure has made a comeback!


345 posted on 10/20/2007 10:39:56 AM PDT by Daffynition (The quieter you become, the more you are able to hear.)
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To: DCPatriot

K ...LOL ;-D


346 posted on 10/20/2007 10:40:23 AM PDT by Daffynition (The quieter you become, the more you are able to hear.)
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To: DCPatriot

Who dat?


347 posted on 10/22/2007 6:20:58 AM PDT by RockinRight (The Council on Illuminated Foreign Masons told me to watch you from my black helicopter.)
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To: Daffynition
Well ‘things’ have certainly changed around here. I am not the flat chested little girl I once was. Waaaaaaa! I want my young body back, A cups and all!
348 posted on 10/22/2007 6:26:58 AM PDT by Ditter
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To: RockinRight
Hey there Brian!

It's Salma Hayek.

349 posted on 10/22/2007 7:27:16 AM PDT by DCPatriot ("It aint what you don't know that kills you. It's what you know that aint so" Theodore Sturgeon))
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To: Daffynition

I love cleavage and whale’s tails.

Thank You God.

(and I’m an old fart)


350 posted on 10/22/2007 7:28:56 AM PDT by wardaddy (Behind the lines in Vichy Nashville)
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To: DCPatriot

Nicely done...


351 posted on 10/22/2007 7:34:49 AM PDT by RockinRight (The Council on Illuminated Foreign Masons told me to watch you from my black helicopter.)
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To: Xenalyte

Wow, have not heard about the CGEB, in a long long time, only Xena, would post link to her/umm/it’s freeper page.


352 posted on 10/22/2007 7:49:30 AM PDT by vin-one (REMEMBER the WTC !!!!!!!!)
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To: wardaddy

You have FReepmail ... there’s something to tell you, I can’t admit in public. 8-P


353 posted on 10/22/2007 2:42:21 PM PDT by Daffynition (The quieter you become, the more you are able to hear.)
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To: Daffynition; DCPatriot

I can’t *figure* out why you guys are so in love with Salma Hayek? There are drool marks all over this thread. LOL~

Had to stop in and say HI!
;-D


354 posted on 10/22/2007 8:53:22 PM PDT by Freedom2specul8 (Please pray for our troops.... http://anyservicemember.navy.mil/)
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To: DCPatriot
· 13,295+ views ........HAHAHA!

Look closely now .............


355 posted on 10/30/2007 1:51:32 PM PDT by Daffynition (The quieter you become, the more you are able to hear.)
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To: Daffynition
ADAM'S APPLE ALERT!!!!!!

...is that it? LOL!

356 posted on 10/30/2007 1:53:37 PM PDT by DCPatriot ("It aint what you don't know that kills you. It's what you know that aint so" Theodore Sturgeon))
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To: Daffynition

Oh hell...it’s got 3 LEGS/feet!


357 posted on 10/30/2007 1:54:46 PM PDT by DCPatriot ("It aint what you don't know that kills you. It's what you know that aint so" Theodore Sturgeon))
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To: DCPatriot
NO!

If I wanted an Adam's apple I'd have posted an Ann Coulter pic! ;-D Look again!

358 posted on 10/30/2007 1:56:50 PM PDT by Daffynition (The quieter you become, the more you are able to hear.)
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To: DCPatriot

Look at her left hand!!!!


359 posted on 10/30/2007 1:57:36 PM PDT by Daffynition (The quieter you become, the more you are able to hear.)
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To: Daffynition
As Joe Pesci would say, 'Okay! Okay! Okay! Okay! I got it!'

6 fingers and 3 feet.

360 posted on 10/30/2007 2:16:58 PM PDT by DCPatriot ("It aint what you don't know that kills you. It's what you know that aint so" Theodore Sturgeon))
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