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Cleavage: What's Appropriate, What's Not
ABCNews ^ | May 29, 2007 | staff reporter

Posted on 05/30/2007 1:26:52 PM PDT by Daffynition

The weather's getting warmer and necklines are dipping lower -- sometimes, too low.

From the beach to the mall to the office, women seem to be showing off their cleavage more than ever before. Why? According to Elisabeth Squires, author of "Boobs: A Guide to Your Girls," American breasts are getting bigger while shirts are getting smaller.

"We are seeing more cleavage these days for a few reasons. First, the fashion of the day is tight and skinny. At the same time, women are bigger than they were even 15 years ago. Bra fitters tell me that an E cup is the new C cup," Squires said on "Good Morning America."

"We have to remember that while more women are showing more cleavage, you really have to use your breast power responsibly," Squires said.

What's Appropriate When

What looks sexy for a night out on the town may not be appropriate in the workplace. In fact, Squires said cleavage should never make an appearance in the office.

"It's way too big of a distraction for men and women," she said. "If cleavage isn't in your job description, don't put it in."

But that doesn't mean breasts should stay hidden. According to Squires, the appearance of breasts can help women in the workplace.

"A recent study showed men photos of women in a workplace with large breasts showing cleavage, medium breasts and small breasts. When asked about who looked most professional and personable, the men chose the women with medium-sized breasts," she said.

"You don't have to be flat-chested to be taken seriously," she added. "You just have to be proportionate. For women who are small busted, that may mean a little padding. For well-endowed women, that may mean a minimizer."

Squires suggested that women also keep things respectable at family events, like a kids' soccer game.

"This is not the time to show off your girls," she said. "Your children should not have to compete with your cleavage for attention."

Night is prime time to bring out breasts, but Squires suggested women treat their cleavage as part of their outfit -- not a focal point.

"You can certainly be a bit more daring," she said. "This presumably is adult time, and cleavage is powerful. This is the time to use it. But they should be part of your whole look."

Pregnant women are an exception to the rules. Squires said because pregnancy gives breasts a boost they might not have otherwise, women should show them off.

"During pregnancy you should celebrate your breasts. For some women, that's the only time they have cleavage," she said. "Obviously you don't want to go nuts. But cleavage on a pregnant woman is just different -- live it up a bit."

Squires said women of a certain age can still show off cleavage, as 61-year-old Helen Mirren proved at the Oscars.

"It has to be integrated into your entire look," she said. "If a woman of a certain age squeezes her girls together, she'll get the wrinkled, crepelike look. That's not good. But if you're older and you wear a scoop neck and you have beautiful, what the French call decollete, that's great."

Tips for Every Woman

Squires offered advice all women can heed to make their breasts look better:

Don't be in bra denial. The average woman changes bra sizes at least seven times in her life. Get fitted and accept your number and cup size.

Think outside the bra. A strong back and shoulders -- good carriage -- makes your whole body look better, including your breasts. Don't concentrate so much on your underwiring. Concentrate on the rest of your body.

Be good to your girls. Breasts are unique, and the truth is that men love them all. Be more accepting of your body. Most women think breasts only come in two sizes: too big or too small. It's not true. They're beautiful; be good to them.


TOPICS: Heated Discussion
KEYWORDS: cleavage; decorum; fashion; modesty; moralabsolutes; professionaldress
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To: Still Thinking; All

ROFL!! This thread has been fun.

PS: ‘Baster’ Could one of our English professors tell me that is right? If the tool is a baster..then the user is basterer. Correct?


241 posted on 06/15/2007 3:31:39 PM PDT by DCPatriot ("It aint what you don't know that kills you. It's what you know that aint so" Theodore Sturgeon))
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To: DCPatriot
I'm delighted to see this thread is still alive! LOL

[Remember me? ...I used to be "rainbow sprinkles" but I got tired of people asking me if I was ghey.


242 posted on 06/15/2007 3:50:22 PM PDT by Daffynition (Label Warning: Formerly known as "rainbow sprinkles")
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To: Daffynition
I can't stop laughing! LOL!

I remember 'rainbow sprinkles'.

Love your monkey jumping on the bed!

243 posted on 06/15/2007 3:57:07 PM PDT by DCPatriot ("It aint what you don't know that kills you. It's what you know that aint so" Theodore Sturgeon))
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To: Daffynition

I see the breast group of men are still sharing their hobby amongst themselves.

Just try to be the breast at everything you do!


244 posted on 06/15/2007 4:00:38 PM PDT by bannie
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To: bannie
I always look to our leadership for guidance.


245 posted on 06/16/2007 6:37:10 AM PDT by Daffynition (Label Warning: Formerly known as "rainbow sprinkles")
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To: DCPatriot

246 posted on 06/16/2007 3:35:21 PM PDT by Daffynition (Label Warning: Formerly known as "rainbow sprinkles")
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To: Daffynition

for later viewing


247 posted on 06/20/2007 1:35:48 PM PDT by GOPRaleigh (I'll be back after these messages...)
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To: GOPRaleigh
Bring some kleenex when you come back.


248 posted on 06/20/2007 1:46:35 PM PDT by Daffynition (Label Warning: Formerly known as "rainbow sprinkles")
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To: dighton

Jayne was bustin’ out all over.


249 posted on 06/20/2007 2:22:40 PM PDT by thulldud ("Para inglés, oprima el dos.")
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To: VRWCmember

milk in my coffee? why yes thank you!


250 posted on 06/21/2007 5:38:04 AM PDT by gdc61
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To: thulldud

251 posted on 06/22/2007 6:02:31 PM PDT by trussell (BOSS spelled backwards is Double SOB)
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To: trussell; DCPatriot
New science found. Men rejoice!


252 posted on 06/24/2007 7:03:59 AM PDT by Daffynition (Label Warning: Formerly known as "rainbow sprinkles")
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To: Daffynition

LOL...Good find. I guess we now know why it’s such a popular “sport” *heehee*


253 posted on 06/24/2007 8:00:47 AM PDT by trussell (BOSS spelled backwards is Double SOB)
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To: Sax

I think that is downright “crepey”.


254 posted on 06/24/2007 8:03:49 AM PDT by reg45
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To: DCPatriot
This represents a severe test for Parker's hypothesis.
255 posted on 06/24/2007 8:12:11 AM PDT by Lonesome in Massachussets (I never consented to live in the Camp of the Saints.)
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To: trussell; backhoe
Keeping this thread updated with other relevent cleavage news ...I feel like backhoe [somehow] ... but this is too bizzaro. Wood 'asked to see Byrne's breasts at morgue'
256 posted on 06/27/2007 5:55:33 AM PDT by Daffynition (Label Warning: Formerly known as "rainbow sprinkles")
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To: Daffynition

I am so pissed off that I found this thread just now, a month too late.


257 posted on 06/27/2007 6:10:24 AM PDT by Hemingway's Ghost (Spirit of '75)
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To: Hemingway's Ghost

This is a timeless issue ... cleavage never goes out of style.


258 posted on 06/27/2007 11:02:21 AM PDT by Daffynition (Label Warning: Formerly known as "rainbow sprinkles")
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To: martin_fierro

...reminds me of my dear pet flying squirrel (Rocko, of course)..... he “bonded” to my GF and any time he was up to some mischief around the house... and tipped something over.... he would bolt from the room at warp nine....scurry up my GF’s side and run up to her neck line and zip in between her well endowed ummmmmmm....you get the idea. He’d camp out there for hours.

Me?
Jealous?

Naaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa


259 posted on 07/16/2007 9:50:10 AM PDT by taxed2death (A few billion here, a few trillion there...we're all friends right?)
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To: DCPatriot

re: post 26?

Is that ex playboy model “Petra...something or other”?

I believe I have a pic of her posing next to a Fast by Ferracci Ducati 750 SS in my shop. Havn’t seen a pic of her surface in years....


260 posted on 07/16/2007 9:52:31 AM PDT by taxed2death (A few billion here, a few trillion there...we're all friends right?)
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