The 2 times out of 20,000 posts that RA ever used words such as these, and that's all you guys can talk about? Shoot...there are posts with foul language on this thread that are almost as bad, made by the owner of the site and members alike! The second time was only because he hit the post button twice, by accident.
He is a good friend to many here. If he knew someone was struggling, he was there for them. (as he was for me and my kids a couple years ago)