I’m guessing it’s just the awkward phrasing. Let’s try again.
Women are looking for any excuse so they don’t have to sleep with a man.
Men are looking for any reason they can find to justify sleeping with a woman.
But it was a stupid thing to say anyway. I don’t know what I was thinking.
Then I got serious about Christ, and shortly after that got married, so I had to revise that way of thinking. Still, it's the way I was wired.