I did match.com for a while, and found my current GF of 3.5 years.
Before our first date, due to the divorce, my kids, the psycho I was divorcing, etc, I sent a 3-page disclaimer/warning. She STILL went out with me! We still laugh about it.
Good for you!!
My mother always said, “The ones you want, you can’t have. The ones you CAN have, you wouldn’t touch with a 10’ pole!” I hate to say she was mostly right.
But it’s OK. I’ve lived alone so long now that I dread the thought of trying to train someone else to pick up after themselves, or do their own laundry or fix something to eat when they get hungry! LOL!