Bringing a child into the world w/o a father IS selfish, clearly they care more about themselves than they do the child.
What if the father bolts during pregnancy? The woman carrying the child to term is "selfish"? That's a new one.
That's just it. What they are doing is so selfish. I can only imagine the pain and ridicule that child will go through being raised in that lifestyle. As a society, we should condemn these acts. We don't condemn the children, of course, but when the child is old enough they should get exposure to better morals than they're being raised with. Unfortunately, society being what it is and only getting worse, I don't see how this will happen.