[NeoCaveman]

many of these are cases of men who don't want these women in the picture.

Should not such women take a look at themselves and figure out why they are not attracting men?

I mean isn't this just the inverse of the whiny "nice guy" who sits home alone because he won't do whatever it takes to change into something more desirable to women?

[HitmanLV]

Should not such women take a look at themselves and figure out why they are not attracting men?

Yes, of course.

I mean isn't this just the inverse of the whiny "nice guy" who sits home alone because he won't do whatever it takes to change into something more desirable to women?

It's very similar, except that these women tend to not convince themselves how nice they are. They tend to convince themselves what a prized catch they are. Just like many of the the 'nice guys,' sometimes - but not always - this is delusional.