[CSM]

So, you would prefer to gore other's ox with the weapon, than try to eliminate the use of the weapon?

[Quix]

I deplore lop-sided discussions where one side feels quite free to use all manner of fierce, harsh, abusive "weapons" and then scream bloody murder when the other side brings out so much as water guns.

I deplore lack of candor and insight on the part of any side presuming to pontificate in shrill, harsh, loud, absolutist terms.

I deplore overt hypocrisy in perspectives, arguments, positions which seem so blatantly obvious yet are so fiercely denied by any side.

I expect that folks who can dish it out ought to be able to take it though such threads seem to chronically demonstrate the opposite.