I was not around to see Toby's comments, and I can only assume that they were very offensive. That said, no one has ever been able to explain to me how the attacking anti's get away with all sorts of stuff, to include taking the Lord's name in vein, then they don't get admonished. I have yet to understand how they get away with it.
I suppose it is not allowed to respond in kind when one feels personally attacked on these threads. I would inquire directly to the mods, but I don't want to end up banned myself....
I have to believe that Toby's comments were no more offensive than those of the anti-smokers here. It's terrible that a person can't make a personal decision in their lives buy chosing to smoke, without suffering through such attacks from the anti-smoking crowd.