Now, various modern sects don't understand that, since obviously the Eternal Son as well as the entire Holy Trinity pre-existed Mary. For guidance they should read the fathers of the Church and pray. St. John the Damascene is a good start, AN EXACT EXPOSITION OF THE ORTHODOX FAITH, BOOK I.
The views contrary to the Ephesian Canons are anathema not because I in my arrogance declare them such, but because, for over a millenium and a half, which is virtually since as soon as they were formulated, they have been. It is a historical fact. The Christian way to deal with anathemized views, should you have them, is to drop them, and then struggle for explanations, and the explanation will come, God willing.
(*) Interestingly, if Mary is construed to be the mother of the Second person but not mother of God, then that would put her in a singular relation with the Second Person compared to the other Persons. Then she would be a fourth person of God, which is probably far from the neo-nestorians' intention.
She is not a mother only of His human nature but of His whole eternal person.
So are you saying
1) that Mary is as eternal as God, making her a Goddess in her own right orEither way puts you in a state of complete heresy. Only if make some level of distinction between Yeshua's God-nature and Man-nature--while, of course, acknowledging that Yeshua was fully both--do you avoid this trap.
2) that God is not really eternal, but began to exist at Jesus' conception?