From Beth, Dave and Jug, we have learned self-control, grace, maturity, faith, and how an adult faces unbearable pain and suffering combined with the unfairness and criminality of the actions (and inaction) of evil people. As a man, I cannot imagine the self-restraint Jug and Dave have exercised. For one thing, I would have sent Paul Vander Slut to a plastic surgeon the first time his face was within reach of my fists.
Well, I think their 'restraint' was mostly due to the Aruban authorities who threatened to drop the case if they made any more waves.