I hear you!
All the legal commentators are basically saying to the family "sit down, shut up, let Aruba do it's job."
Problem is Aruba has not done it's job. Think about it. Is this the way a missing person case is handled as a matter of routine? Talk, talk, talk. Blah, blah, blah.
Is this what happens when a child goes missing in Aruba? Hell, when do they DO instead of talk?
(rhetorical question only, we all know that answer.)
They should all sit down and shut up! They all have a different excuse for criminals. It's as if no matter what they are always defending the criminals and saying screw the victim and their families! I'm sure they wouldn't sit down and shut up if it was their family member.