You sound like my kind of hostess. Just call me up and tell me you were thinking about having a party and would have invited me but you changed your mind about the party.
I'll be happy that you thought of me and would have invited me and I'll be even happier that I don't have to go. ha! That's called a win win! LOL!
I'd have loved being kicked out at 11:00 so I could go to bed. Now if I could only get the wife to see it that way.
You and me both. Nothing makes me happier than a canceled party.