I think the difference in my situation is that I have mutual hobbies with these guys. We have stuff to do together - with our clothes on.
Plus - ALL of their wives know me.
AND I don't hide my friendship with them.
No guilt - no hiding.
Oh definetly know what you mean...I think the Internet Stuff can get a bit more blurry for people when married...
I am going to make copies of this and pass it out to people every time one of them asks me....."Why aren't you married". LOL!