I bet there are more than a few on this board who could share the same thing.
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I do think what you have gone through is more difficult, imo, because you can't grieve and move on.
I've long wondered if those of us on this board who aren't calling what is happening to Terri murder are those of us who have been in either your situation or have had feeding tubes and machines removed from loved ones.
I know we have and I've shared the stories several times on FR. And both times it was without benefit of a living will.