LAMEDA -- The owner of a gun that a 3-year-old boy used in the accidental fatal shooting of a family friend is a gang member who may be heading for Mexico, Alameda authorities said today. Police identified the gun owner as Eddy "Jovani" Silva, a friend of the 3-year-old's parents and a cousin of the man who was shot to death Monday at an apartment complex at 1777 Shoreline Drive. They said Silva may be armed and that they want to question him. Silva, who also goes by Eddy Jovani Ramos Silva, may be fleeing for Mexico out of fear...