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THAT DIDN’T TAKE LONG: PRAISING MULTI-SPOUSE MARRIAGE
Catholic Vote ^ | August 6, 2013 | Tom Hoopes

Posted on 08/06/2013 6:23:49 PM PDT by NYer

multipouseThat didn’t take long. Salon magazine this morning is extolling the virtues of multi-spouse marriages.

Same-sex “marriage” proponents have always scoffed at the idea that redefining marriage would open the door for multi-spouse marriages. “My Two Husbands by Angi Becker Stevens, not only argues for “poly-amorous” unions but continues to scoff at the foolish “right wing” people who expected people to go there. Her article is novel only in that it also scoffs at the same-sex marriage definers who argued back that it wouldn’t.

Stevens has been married for 16 years to her husband, and has now taken a boy\friend who she says she plans to marry in a “non-legal” way.

“With every stride forward for marriage equality, I can count on turning on the TV to find conservative talking heads lumping families like mine in with pedophilia and bestiality. But liberals, for the most part, don’t treat us much better. They’re quick to insist that same-sex marriage would never, ever lead to such awful things”.

The author uses her 9-year-old daughter to deflect criticism. Her daughter dutifully and understandably repeats the adult arguments for same-sex marriage and applies them to the

“When my daughter talks about same-sex marriage or polyamorous relationships, she always looks perplexed and says, ‘I don’t understand why anyone is angry about people being in love and not hurting anyone.’ And I long for a world where everyone is able to see it so simply.

And later …

“Whenever I mention the claims that polyamory is bad for children, she rolls her eyes and says, ‘Oh no, kids having more people to love them! How horrible!’”

In the style of such articles, the author doesn’t make a case against monogamous marriage on principle, or for multi-spouse “marriage” on principle. Instead, it presents the facts of a particular situation as a fait accompli and challenges you to argue why it is not so. She felt repressed before and says “I am more fulfilled now and living in a way that feels authentic for me.”

Apply a simple thought experiment, and her argument starts to wither. Imagine the article being written by a man about bringing a “girlfriend” into his life and convincing his wife to tolerate it. Or imagine a Mormon talking about his repressed relationship with God instead of a political activist talking about her repressed human relationships. Salon wouldn’t have published those pieces.

But they did publish this one.

Because “love makes a marriage” now. And to say otherwise means you’re a hater.

For the record: I love these people. I wish them all the best in their personal lives. But I oppose multi-spouse marriage anyway.


TOPICS: Moral Issues; Religion & Culture; Religion & Politics
KEYWORDS: gaymarriage; homosexualagenda; marriage; moralabsolutes; polyandry; polygamy; radicalleft
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To: Hardraade
aliens

valerie jarret is all the proof i need

21 posted on 08/06/2013 6:41:43 PM PDT by bigheadfred (INFIDEL)
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To: NYer

Many of us have said this kind of thing and far far worse are coming now that homosexuals have had such great success getting the MSM, idiot politicians and others on their side. This is only the beginning.


22 posted on 08/06/2013 6:42:18 PM PDT by ThunderSleeps (Stop obarma now! Stop the hussein - insane agenda!)
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To: NYer

>>Train wreck ahead, ping!

Nothin’ like a good ol Tribal civil war to stir the pot-o-ashes.

I think it’s part of the cycle that’s self-evident in Romans 1:25+

The sheeple raise up their religious idols — “and because of this God gave them over”, again.


23 posted on 08/06/2013 6:43:31 PM PDT by TArcher ("TO SECURE THESE RIGHTS, governments are instituted among men" -- Does that still work?)
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To: NYer

we don’t let the naive and inexperienced, and who are learning and have yet to learn, much about morality anddetermining right and wrong, determine what is moral and what isn’t. and children are not Jesus Christ who could rebuke adults doing immoral things, so just so don’t go there.


24 posted on 08/06/2013 6:53:45 PM PDT by Secret Agent Man (Gone Galt; Not averse to Going Bronson.)
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To: NYer

Non-loving-friend-roommate-civil-unions-for-tax-breaks are next. Among dozens of people. No argument against it anymore.


25 posted on 08/06/2013 6:53:48 PM PDT by ReaganGeneration2
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To: GenXteacher
Is that what it will take to eliminate polygamy and homo marriage?"

Probably so.

26 posted on 08/06/2013 6:55:32 PM PDT by Rashputin (Jesus Christ doesn't evacuate His troops, He leads them to victory.)
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To: irish guard

“Young kids are next......NAMBLA..... I can already taste the vomit in my mouth”

Sure, as long as it’s a consensual relationship. There’s nothing wrong with that, right?

And then as surely as they buckled on polyamory, some day they’ll buckle on consent. I mean, isn’t it just plain selfish to withhold your body from someone? You watch! It’ll happen in my lifetime.

This society gets more Orwellian by the minute.


27 posted on 08/06/2013 6:56:45 PM PDT by Cato in PA (Smile, you're on NSA camera!)
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To: NYer

salon.com = crap sandwich website


28 posted on 08/06/2013 6:58:53 PM PDT by GeronL
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To: NYer

what a kook, it is bad enough having to deal with one husband, why would anybody want two


29 posted on 08/06/2013 7:00:38 PM PDT by yldstrk (My heroes have always been cowboys)
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To: yldstrk

remember that all your wives can have other husbands

those STD’s will spread quick


30 posted on 08/06/2013 7:01:50 PM PDT by GeronL
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To: AdmSmith; AnonymousConservative; Berosus; bigheadfred; Bockscar; cardinal4; ColdOne; ...

Thanks NYer.

State Dept. Will Recognize Foreign Same-Sex Marriages — But Not Polygamous Ones
http://www.freerepublic.com/focus/news/3051841/posts


31 posted on 08/06/2013 7:02:07 PM PDT by SunkenCiv (It's no coincidence that some "conservatives" echo the hard left.)
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To: NYer

I love my parents....a lot.

I love my children....a lot.

I loved my grandparents....a lot.

I love my aunts, uncles and cousins....a lot.

Does that mean I’m in some sort of incestuous “polyamorous” relationship with all of them? After all, I guess it’s only love that makes a marriage now.

How repulsive. You know it’s going to be siblings, animals, etc.....next.


32 posted on 08/06/2013 7:04:14 PM PDT by GatorGirl (Who is John Galt?)
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To: NYer

Pope Paul VI was right.


33 posted on 08/06/2013 7:05:37 PM PDT by Slyfox (Without the Right to Life, all other rights are meaningless.)
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To: NYer

I watch that “Sister Wives” show and followed “Big Love” also. Both are about chaos with indoctrinated kids being co-lateral damage in FLDS.

It’s like the men who have fathered 20+ children by many different women. There’s just no way the off-spring get a healthy upbringing and they will then repeat what they know.

I’m sure pedophiles will jump on this bandwagon next and woe to the above who set the precedents.

Raise up a child in the way he should go and when he is old he will not depart from it. All those poor children will now think wrong is right.


34 posted on 08/06/2013 7:06:32 PM PDT by JouleZ (You are the company you keep.)
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To: bigheadfred

aliens

valerie jarret is all the proof i need

She is a reptoid, there is a difference, reptoids come from the innner earth, ie. Hell


35 posted on 08/06/2013 7:07:08 PM PDT by GraceG
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To: GraceG

the hell you say


36 posted on 08/06/2013 7:08:40 PM PDT by bigheadfred (INFIDEL)
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To: JRandomFreeper

Nothing would surprise me these days.


37 posted on 08/06/2013 7:18:59 PM PDT by Venturer ( cowardice posturing as tolerance =political correctness)
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To: kaehurowing

I’ve been telling my wife for years I want to marry our cat. For some reason she just laughs and doesn’t get jealous. But one day it’s going to happen.

I wanna go back in time and marry my 8 year old self, and every scientist who doesn’t invent a time machine for me is a hater.

(actually I plan to use the time machine to deliver a box of “Plan B” to a Ms. Dunham in Hawaii in the early 1960’s. But don;t tell the liberals that.... )


38 posted on 08/06/2013 7:19:46 PM PDT by GraceG
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To: NYer
I've been saying this for year: If there is nothing special about marriage being between one man and one woman; what is so special about the number two?

Once you redefine marriage, it will continue to be redefined --- out of existence.

39 posted on 08/06/2013 7:25:49 PM PDT by LibertarianLiz
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To: GraceG
I wanna go back in time and marry my 8 year old self

now that is plain weird even for you :)

40 posted on 08/06/2013 7:26:24 PM PDT by bigheadfred (INFIDEL)
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