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Can We Be Honest About Women?
The Federalist ^ | 12/12/17 | D.C. McAllister

Posted on 12/13/2017 6:54:00 AM PST by x1stcav

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To: nopardons
some men have less than NO idea how to read "signals" and/or misconstrue what they see or hear.

Why do you suppose that is?

I mean: Shouldn't all of the men in ancient times who consistently "misread the signals," wouldn't take "no" for an answer, and proceeded full speed ahead despite the female's objections have eventually been bred out of the gene pool, leaving only perfect gentleman capable of picking up on the slightest negative nuances and beating a hasty retreat?

No, wait - That doesn't make sense!

Regards,

101 posted on 12/13/2017 11:16:56 AM PST by alexander_busek (Extraordinary claims require extraordinary evidence.)
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To: nopardons
you have it a bit out of sink

No problem: Call a plumber!

Regards,

102 posted on 12/13/2017 11:18:16 AM PST by alexander_busek (Extraordinary claims require extraordinary evidence.)
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To: Phlap

They’re kind of like polar bears. All cute and cuddly to look at, but get too close... they’ll eat you alive.


103 posted on 12/13/2017 11:22:41 AM PST by ichabod1 (Smoke does not mean fire when someone threw a smoke grenade.)
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To: alexander_busek
Same advice. Hint: it ain't a bar. Church, volunteer work, workplace. You still have to be on the lookout, though.

There are no easy answers, but I've been married 44 years to the same women, and I found her singing in the church choir. There was another girl there, though, that I had dated previously that so much was not the one. :)

104 posted on 12/13/2017 11:25:15 AM PST by chesley (What is life but a long dialog with imbeciles? - Pierre Ryckmans)
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To: nopardons

I believe you meant ‘sync’. :-) Thank me.


105 posted on 12/13/2017 11:25:23 AM PST by ichabod1 (Smoke does not mean fire when someone threw a smoke grenade.)
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To: alexander_busek

Every sperm is sacred;
Every sperm is great;
If a sperm is wasted;
God gets quite irate.


106 posted on 12/13/2017 11:26:39 AM PST by ichabod1 (Smoke does not mean fire when someone threw a smoke grenade.)
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To: chesley

I suspect going where the good women go is harder for a busy lawyer, hence the resort to a dating website. I’m in a much different position, married for many years and not looking, but I’ve been young, rich, and single, and actively working not to make my precise financial status obvious (while also making it clear that I had a comfortable, steady income).


107 posted on 12/13/2017 1:46:45 PM PST by Pollster1 ("Governments derive their just powers from the consent of the governed")
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To: Ace's Dad
No offense, Papa Bear, (and I may be limited in my experience) but at 70+ no women my age is that interested in a love life; gardens, yes; pets, yes; grand kids, yes; sex? NO!

If they can get a man without sex, then perhaps they would prefer it. If the only way to keep a man interested in having them around is via sex, then that might change their attitude.

I'm pretty sure that Donald Trump has a sex life with Melania. Anthony Quinn managed to father a couple of kids, one at age 78, and another at 82, with his girlfriend (who was 33 when she had the younger kid).

The mother of Clint Eastwood's youngest daughter was 28 (and he was 63) when she had the kid. He later married her and stayed with her for 18 years.

108 posted on 12/13/2017 2:01:11 PM PST by PapaBear3625 (Big governent is attractive to those who think that THEY will be in control of it.)
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To: x1stcav

I used to know a guy who would say “Damn! Her legs go from the ground all the way up to her ass!”


109 posted on 12/13/2017 2:13:56 PM PST by Terry Mross (Liver spots And blood thinners..)
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To: x1stcav

The girls on the Victoria’s Secret fashion show last night sure acted like they wanted to be ogled. Just a few less threads and they would have been naked. And no doubt they’d go full nude or see-thru if asked. But don’t you dare stare, you old pervert!


110 posted on 12/13/2017 2:16:37 PM PST by Terry Mross (Liver spots And blood thinners..)
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To: alexander_busek

“How do you find the right man when the wrong men swarm?”

That is probably a challenge for intelligent women in the “Unicorns” region of the “Hot Crazy Matrix”. I don’t know if there is an efficient answer.


111 posted on 12/13/2017 2:25:30 PM PST by Pollster1 ("Governments derive their just powers from the consent of the governed")
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To: miss marmelstein
Only on FR can somebody be annoyed that he’s targeted by young, nubile ladies,

It all depends on WHAT the women are targeting him FOR. Dodging entrapment can get tiring after a while.

112 posted on 12/13/2017 2:30:25 PM PST by PapaBear3625 (Big governent is attractive to those who think that THEY will be in control of it.)
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To: Madame Dufarge

And you, Madame Defarge, are one of my favorite fictional heroins/terrorists of all time! :)


113 posted on 12/13/2017 2:35:57 PM PST by Diana in Wisconsin (I don't have 'Hobbies.' I'm developing a robust Post-Apocalyptic skill set.)
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To: Black Agnes; rlmorel

Once in a while I come up with a lucid thought! ;)


114 posted on 12/13/2017 2:37:03 PM PST by Diana in Wisconsin (I don't have 'Hobbies.' I'm developing a robust Post-Apocalyptic skill set.)
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To: Terry Mross
I used to know a guy who would say “Damn! Her legs go from the ground all the way up to her ass!”

So she has no feet? Is her name Peggy?

115 posted on 12/13/2017 2:38:01 PM PST by thesharkboy (Charter member of the Basket of Deplorables)
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To: PapaBear3625

Buzz off. I’m tired of your nonsensical stuff.


116 posted on 12/13/2017 3:00:42 PM PST by miss marmelstein
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To: alexander_busek
You either don't know much history, or have forgotten what you once knew.

First of all, there used to be arranged marriages, for peoples all over the world, so whether one wanted to or not...they got married.

Prostitution was not outlawed and Temple ( in Ancient Greece ) priestess had sexual congress with men, as a sacrament.

Then there is the JUS PRIMAE NOCTIS/DROIT DU SEIGEUR of Medieval times, when the feudal lords got "first dibs" on all of the peasant virgins, especially on their wedding day.

Add to the above, was the "KNIGHTLY RULES OF CONDUCT", where any knight could rape/have his way with any girl of a lower class, but he had to be circumspect with girls and women of his class and above.

Times change, but some men have always been cads and bounders!

Amongst the European aristos ( and also in wealthy American homes ) the male head of the the house and some of the sons, dalliances with maids and governesses used to be ( and in some cases still is! ) pretty common.

OTOH, what I was referring to is that in recent times, in America, old manners, morals, and rules have broken down and so, neither sex seem to pick up on/see correctly "interest" signals.

And what was once NEVER seen as "abuse" or harassment ( a man telling a woman that she looked nice, smelled good, was pretty...whatever ), now is, by some idiot females.

But yes...men SHOULD always take "NO" for an answer and back off/stop whatever they are doing! OTOH,many of today's girls/women don't know how or when to say "NO"!

And then there are the girls/women who now claim "rape" when they initiated something and then are sorry afterwards, make false claims, and/or, like the males in their age contingents, have absolutely NO idea what dating and courting is supposed to be like, so never figure out what the "signals" mean and perhaps haved no idea how ro send them.

117 posted on 12/13/2017 3:48:12 PM PST by nopardons
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To: PapaBear3625
And just HOW do YOU know that that's behind the phone numbers?

You don't !

118 posted on 12/13/2017 3:49:28 PM PST by nopardons
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To: alexander_busek

Sorry for the typo.


119 posted on 12/13/2017 3:51:00 PM PST by nopardons
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To: ichabod1
Thank YOU!

Posted too quickly, didn't check before I hit the send button, and yes, of course I meant sync.

120 posted on 12/13/2017 3:52:08 PM PST by nopardons
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