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Maryland couple want ‘free-range’ kids, but not all do
Washington Compost ^ | January 14, 2015 | Donna St. George

Posted on 01/15/2015 5:02:57 AM PST by ConservativeInPA

It was a one-mile walk home from a Silver Spring park on Georgia Avenue on a Saturday afternoon. But what the parents saw as a moment of independence for their 10-year-old son and 6-year-old daughter, they say authorities viewed much differently.

Danielle and Alexander Meitiv say they are being investigated for neglect for the Dec. 20 trek — in a case they say reflects a clash of ideas about how safe the world is and whether parents are free to make their own choices about raising their children.

“We wouldn’t have let them do it if we didn’t think they were ready for it,” Danielle said.

She said her son and daughter have previously paired up for walks around the block, to a nearby 7-Eleven and to a library about three-quarters of a mile away. “They have proven they are responsible,” she said. “They’ve developed these skills.”

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TOPICS: Constitution/Conservatism; Culture/Society; Government; News/Current Events; US: Maryland
KEYWORDS: alexandermeitiv; childhood; childprotectivesvcs; children; cps; crime; daniellemeitiv; freakstate; freerangechildren; freerangekids; homeschool; maryland; meitevfamily; nannystate; parenting; parents; psychology; safety; silverspring
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To: Ditter

Years ago prior to my service in WWII I had various afterschool and even prior to school jobs in Phoenix AZ. One particular off school job was with a local linen supply company. I would sweep out the working areas and the offices and then wait, doing school work, for deliverers to come in with daily receipts. There were several deliverers and each would tally their receipts including cash before stashing such in a huge safe. I was left alone with the open safe until the last driver had checked in. I would then lock the office and safe and walk about 2 miles (my recollection) to home. During the couple of years I did this I was never in fear of my life or welfare. After my service in WWII I went back to Phoenix and no longer felt comfortable walking around as I did before wartime service. Times had changed life.


81 posted on 01/15/2015 7:53:04 AM PST by noinfringers2
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From the time I was in Kindergarten in the mid 70’s on in Los Angeles, I was on my own. I would wander with friends but mostly alone. The older I got, the further I would go, and the older I got the later could stay. When I was small, I explored the parks, and construction sites, universities, and surprisingly natural places like small creeks, I loved exploring the drainage tunnels, and catching frogs and crawfish. As I got older before I was old enough to drive, I would ride my bike all the way to the beach and body surf all day. Once I bought my first car, however...weekly trips to ensenada, glamis, mammoth, climbed Mt Whitney, I even went to san fran, and even Seattle and vancouver once....and this was while I was in high school. I am so glad there was no such thing as helicopter parents when I was small


82 posted on 01/15/2015 8:02:56 AM PST by dsrtsage (One half of all people have below average IQ. In the US the number is 54%i)
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To: Raycpa
In 1959 I walked 1 mile each day to kindergarten alone.

I walked alone to a Saturday music lesson through the woods from 1956-60 in the Silver Spring area, when I was a small girl. Not anymore. Now, it's Sanctuaryville, you have to order in Spanish at the McDonald's drive-thru, and the traffic is hideously slow because of the illegals.

83 posted on 01/15/2015 8:26:45 AM PST by Albion Wilde (It is better to offend a human being than to offend God.)
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To: jurroppi1
I remember doing all of this as a child too. Unfortunately for me I almost became a statistic when as a 12 year old boy I was assaulted by a group of 21 year old men...

There's a lot of truth to the old saying, "a conservative is a liberal who's been mugged." I know my several muggings/home invasions in adulthood changed my point of view — from fiscal conservative to fiscal/social conservative.


I don’t blame my parents for being protective after that incident - I’m pretty sure that was a normal response.... there is a risk/reward choice all parents have to make about this, which is dynamic and based on several factors.

Even though my brother and I were allowed to roam around freely in the neighborhood, the woods and park and creek and up to the shopping center, when my brother applied for an errand-boy job at a small shop run by one man, my father went with him to the interview. Guess ol' Dad knew about perverts preying on children even then.

84 posted on 01/15/2015 8:35:08 AM PST by Albion Wilde (It is better to offend a human being than to offend God.)
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To: defconw
the big difference back then was that just about everyone's mom was at home in those days... there were lots of moms and seniors...keeping in eye out. Also, one neighborhood I lived in had at least 50 kids between the age of 5-16ish that were always outside, so safety in numbers was huge.

Hit the nail on the head. Someone was always watching. Another kid could run and summon help.

When it snowed in our hilly neighborhood, easily 25 kids came out for snowman making, snowball fights and to sled down the streets (and trudge back up).

85 posted on 01/15/2015 8:39:17 AM PST by Albion Wilde (It is better to offend a human being than to offend God.)
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To: baltimorepoet
The true core value of Liberalism is self-hate, hence the embrace of “The Other”, not despite, but BECAUSE the Other is someone who may rob, rape, convert or kill you.

Feminism gone wild: fatherless girls always go for the thrills and the bad boys, and spurn the nice guys who could provide a steady life. Writ large...

86 posted on 01/15/2015 8:42:36 AM PST by Albion Wilde (It is better to offend a human being than to offend God.)
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To: Half Vast Conspiracy; OpusatFR
"Dumb idea for the parents to do this in Silver Spring..."

You're entitled to your opinion. They are are entitled to their's. No?


You haven't been to Silver Spring lately, have you?

87 posted on 01/15/2015 8:47:17 AM PST by Albion Wilde (It is better to offend a human being than to offend God.)
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To: Bigg Red
One of the most idiotic things is the stupid helmets for bikes and such. The sight of a kid wearing a helmet and riding on a little bike with training wheels makes me want to smack his parents.

Me, too.

88 posted on 01/15/2015 8:51:59 AM PST by Albion Wilde (It is better to offend a human being than to offend God.)
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To: 556x45

We are soft because we allow our government to control us.


89 posted on 01/15/2015 8:54:18 AM PST by ConservativeInPA (#JuSuisCharlesMartel)
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To: the OlLine Rebel
What about the “obesity epidemic”? What about “saving gasoline”? Insane! Absurd!

Your tax dollars at work.

90 posted on 01/15/2015 9:00:12 AM PST by Albion Wilde (It is better to offend a human being than to offend God.)
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To: Albion Wilde
You haven't been to Silver Spring lately, have you?

Not in 4 years or so. Parents had the right to raise their children as they saw fit back then. Has something changed?

91 posted on 01/15/2015 9:01:13 AM PST by Half Vast Conspiracy (I'm done being even remotely civil.)
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To: gusty
I am not familiar with Silver Spring. However, I used Google Earth to do a little scouting, and it is not a bad area. It is a typical suburban town, red brick federal and tudor style homes. I believe I drove through the town a couple of years ago when my daughter attended an event at American University. My impression was it was a pretty upscale place.

Darling, that was the nice part of town. There are other parts. Many "other" parts.

92 posted on 01/15/2015 9:02:29 AM PST by Albion Wilde (It is better to offend a human being than to offend God.)
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To: WashingtonSource
Free range kids? Are they raising them to be sold to the wicked witch for dinner?


93 posted on 01/15/2015 9:07:42 AM PST by Albion Wilde (It is better to offend a human being than to offend God.)
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To: Tolerance Sucks Rocks

Thanks for the ping!


94 posted on 01/15/2015 9:07:45 AM PST by Alamo-Girl
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To: Timber Rattler

Last week I drove through Silver Spring for the first time in years. I couldn’t believe the place was seemingly overrun by illegal aliens.


95 posted on 01/15/2015 9:12:41 AM PST by VeniVidiVici ( Better a conservative teabagger than a liberal teabagee)
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To: noinfringers2
Years ago prior to my service in WWII I had various afterschool and even prior to school jobs in Phoenix AZ....

Thank you for your service, noinfringers2!

96 posted on 01/15/2015 9:12:49 AM PST by Albion Wilde (It is better to offend a human being than to offend God.)
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To: ConservativeInPA

3 years ago we were at the Palazzo in Vegas. Part of Venetian

Huge place

We let our 8 and 10 years old boys have free time on the floor

They had phone so we could check in and vice versa

About an hour later house detectives stopped them and called us and asked if it was ok

We said yes

They said they would highlight them on security camera labyrinth and warned them about fire alarms etc

Pretty cool place

My boys have great southern manners and don’t skirt tug

I walked to school over a mile through woods at 7

People aren’t worse....more media


97 posted on 01/15/2015 9:13:45 AM PST by wardaddy (glenn beck is a nauseous politically correct conservative on LSD)
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To: Half Vast Conspiracy

Most of Maryland has become a Sanctuary for illegals. When they first came here in droves, they looked for work and drove very slowly so as not to be deported. Lately, let’s say since Obama took office, they have become “entitled” — and can’t be traced if they do a crime, because they are undocumented. This fact is not lost on them.


98 posted on 01/15/2015 9:17:28 AM PST by Albion Wilde (It is better to offend a human being than to offend God.)
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To: OpusatFR
Sure, but who pays for their judgment when the kids disappear?

Since the parents are married and the children are pass the toddler stage the chances of them disappearing is statistical a fraction of a percent.

Much more likely that they will be hurt or killed riding their bikes, which is less likely then their being hurt or killed riding in the family car.

99 posted on 01/15/2015 9:17:29 AM PST by Harmless Teddy Bear (Proud Infidel, Gun Nut, Religious Fanatic and Freedom Fiend)
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To: Albion Wilde

Sure have, and hang out in Arlington about five miles from the Pentagon, high end and very “safe.”

I’m not letting a six year old walk for a mile through Clarendon with ten year old by themselves either.


100 posted on 01/15/2015 9:20:50 AM PST by OpusatFR
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