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In the Absence of Fathers: A Story of Elephants and Men
These Stone Walls ^ | June 20, 2012 | Fr. Gordon J. MacRae

Posted on 12/26/2014 1:50:04 PM PST by grundle

Are committed fathers an endangered species in our culture? Fr. Gordon MacRae draws a troubling corollary between absent fathers and burgeoning prisons.

Wade Horn, Ph.D., President of the National Fatherhood Initiative, had an intriguing article entitled “Of Elephants and Men” in a recent issue of Fatherhood Today magazine. I found Dr. Horn’s story about young elephants to be simply fascinating, and you will too. It was sent to me by a TSW reader who wanted to know if there is any connection between the absence of fathers and the shocking growth of the American prison population.

Some years ago, officials at the Kruger National Park and game reserve in South Africa were faced with a growing elephant problem. The population of African elephants, once endangered, had grown larger than the park could sustain. So measures had to be taken to thin the ranks. A plan was devised to relocate some of the elephants to other African game reserves. Being enormous creatures, elephants are not easily transported. So a special harness was created to air-lift the elephants and fly them out of the park using helicopters.

The helicopters were up to the task, but, as it turned out, the harness wasn’t. It could handle the juvenile and adult female elephants, but not the huge African bull elephants. A quick solution had to be found, so a decision was made to leave the much larger bulls at Kruger and relocate only some of the female elephants and juvenile males.

The problem was solved. The herd was thinned out, and all was well at Kruger National Park. Sometime later, however, a strange problem surfaced at South Africa’s other game reserve, Pilanesburg National Park, the younger elephants’ new home.

Rangers at Pilanesburg began finding the dead bodies of endangered white rhinoceros. At first, poachers were suspected, but the huge rhinos had not died of gunshot wounds, and their precious horns were left intact. The rhinos appeared to be killed violently, with deep puncture wounds. Not much in the wild can kill a rhino, so rangers set up hidden cameras throughout the park.

The result was shocking. The culprits turned out to be marauding bands of aggressive juvenile male elephants, the very elephants relocated from Kruger National Park a few years earlier. The young males were caught on camera chasing down the rhinos, knocking them over, and stomping and goring them to death with their tusks. The juvenile elephants were terrorizing other animals in the park as well. Such behavior was very rare among elephants. Something had gone terribly wrong.

Marauding Elephants

Some of the park rangers settled on a theory. What had been missing from the relocated herd was the presence of the large dominant bulls that remained at Kruger. In natural circumstances, the adult bulls provide modeling behaviors for younger elephants, keeping them in line.

Juvenile male elephants, Dr. Horn pointed out, experience “musth,” a state of frenzy triggered by mating season and increases in testosterone. Normally, dominant bulls manage and contain the testosterone-induced frenzy in the younger males. Left without elephant modeling, the rangers theorized, the younger elephants were missing the civilizing influence of their elders as nature and pachyderm protocol intended.

To test the theory, the rangers constructed a bigger and stronger harness, then flew in some of the older bulls left behind at Kruger. Within weeks, the bizarre and violent behavior of the juvenile elephants stopped completely. The older bulls let them know that their behaviors were not elephant-like at all. In a short time, the younger elephants were following the older and more dominant bulls around while learning how to be elephants.

MARAUDING IN CENTRAL PARK

In his terrific article, “Of Elephants and Men,” Dr. Wade Horn went on to write of a story very similar to that of the elephants, though it happened not in Africa, but in New York’s Central Park. The story involved young men, not young elephants, but the details were eerily close. Groups of young men were caught on camera sexually harassing and robbing women and victimizing others in the park. Their herd mentality created a sort of frenzy that was both brazen and contagious. In broad daylight, they seemed to compete with each other, even laughing and mugging for the cameras as they assaulted and robbed passersby. It was not, in any sense of the term, the behavior of civilized men.

Appalled by these assaults, citizens demanded a stronger and more aggressive police presence. Dr. Horn asked a more probing question. “Where have all the fathers gone?” Simply increasing the presence of police everywhere a crime is possible might assuage some political pressure, but it does little to identify and solve the real social problem behind the brazen Central Park assaults. It was the very same problem that victimized rhinos in that park in Africa. The majority of the young men hanging around committing those crimes in Central Park grew up in homes without fathers present.

That is not an excuse. It is a social problem that has a direct correlation with their criminal behavior. They were not acting like men because their only experience of modeling the behaviors of men had been taught by their peers and not by their fathers. Those who did have fathers had absent fathers, clearly preoccupied with something other than being role models for their sons. Wherever those fathers were, they were not in Central Park.

Dr. Horn pointed out that simply replacing fathers with more police isn’t a solution. No matter how many police are hired and trained, they will quickly be outnumbered if they assume the task of both investigating crime and preventing crime. They will quickly be outnumbered because presently in our culture, two out of every five young men are raised in fatherless homes, and that disparity is growing faster as traditional family systems break down throughout the Western world.

Real men protect the vulnerable, not assault them. Growing up having learned that most basic tenet of manhood is the job of fathers, not the police. Dr. Horn cited a quote from a young Daniel Patrick Moynihan written some forty years ago:

“From the wild Irish slums of the 19th Century Eastern Seaboard to the riot-torn suburbs of Los Angeles, there is one unmistakable lesson in American history: A community that allows a large number of young men to grow up in broken homes, dominated by women, never acquiring any stable relationship to male authority, never acquiring any rational expectations for the future – that community asks for and gets chaos.”

WHEN PRISONS REPLACE PARENTS

It’s easy in the politically correct standards of today to dismiss such a quote as chauvinistic. But while we’re arguing that point, our society’s young men are being tossed away by the thousands into prison systems that swallow them up. Once in prison, this system is very hard to leave behind. The New Hampshire prison system just released a dismal report two weeks ago. Of 1,095 prisoners released in 2007, over 500 were back in prison by 2010. Clearly, the loss of freedom does not compensate for the loss of fathers in managing the behavior of young men.

There is very little that happens in the punishment model of prison life that teaches a better way to a young man who has broken the law. The proof of that is all around us, but – especially in an election year – getting anyone to take a good hard look inside a prison seems impossible. We live in a disposable culture, and when our youth are a problem, we simply do what we do best. We dispose of them, sometimes forever. Anyone who believes that punishment, and nothing but punishment, is an effective deterrent of criminal behavior in the young is left to explain why our grotesquely expensive prisons have a 50 percent recidivism rate.

As I have written before, the United States has less than five percent of the world’s population, but twenty-five percent of the world’s prisoners. The U.S. has more young men in prison today than all of the leading 35 European countries combined. The ratio of prisoners to citizens in the U.S. is four times what it is in Israel, six times what it is in Canada and China, and thirteen times what it is in Japan. The only governments with higher per capita rates of prisoners are in Third World countries, and even they are only slightly higher.

For a nation struggling with its racial inequities, the prison system is a racial disaster. Currently, young men of African-American and Latino descent comprise 30 percent of our population, but 60 percent of our prison population. But prison isn’t itself an issue that falls conveniently along racial divides.

New Hampshire, where I have spent the last eighteen years in prison, is one of the whitest states in the United States, and yet it is first in the nation not only in its Presidential Primary election, but in prison growth. Between 1980 and 2005, New Hampshire’s state population grew by 34 percent. In that same period, its prison population grew by a staggering 600 percent with no commensurate increase in crime rate.

In an election year, politicizing prisons is just counter-productive and nothing will ever really change. Albert R. Hunt of Bloomberg News had a recent op-ed piece in The New York Times (“A Country of Inmates,” November 20, 2011) in which he decried the election year politics of prisons.

“This issue [of prison growth] almost never comes up with Republican presidential candidates; one of the few exceptions was a debate in September when audiences cheered the notion of executions in Texas.”

This may be so, but it’s the very sort of political blaming that undermines real serious and objective study of our national prison problem. I am not a Republican or a Democrat, but in fairness I should point out that the current Democratic governor of New Hampshire has but one plan for this State’s overcrowded and ever growing prison system: build a bigger prison somewhere. And as far as executions are concerned, the overwhelmingly Republican state Legislature in New Hampshire voted overwhelmingly to overturn the state’s death penalty ten years ago. Governor Jeanne Shaheen (now U.S. Senator Jeanne Shaheen), a Democrat, vetoed the repeal saying that this State “needs a death penalty.”

But for me, the most mindless politics of all are those of groups like Voice of the Faithful, obsessed with the “survivors” of priestly misconduct – both real and feigned – from 30, 40, or 50 years ago. But they have absolutely nothing to say about the thousands of young men dumped annually into prison systems from which they emerge with little hope of ever recovering from what they encounter there. How can anyone claim to protect young people while ignoring that? Perhaps the VOTF people concerned for youth at the hands of priests would do well to read Jeremy’s comment posted awhile back on These Stone Walls.Gordon-MacRae-Falsely-Accused-Priest-Land-of-Nod-East-of-Eden

Eighty percent of the young men I have met in prison grew up in homes without fathers. The problem seems clear. When prisons and police replace fathers, chaos reigns, and promising young lives are sacrificed.

Before we close the door on Father’s Day this year, let’s revisit whether we’re prepared for the chaos of a fatherless America. “Fathers” and “Fatherhood” are concepts with 1,932 direct references in the Old and New Testaments. Without a doubt, fatherhood has long been on the mind of God. Report Post Edit/Delete Message


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1 posted on 12/26/2014 1:50:04 PM PST by grundle
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To: grundle

Meanwhile the left advocates a fatherless society.


2 posted on 12/26/2014 1:53:54 PM PST by MeganC (It took Democrats four hours to deport Elian Gonzalez)
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To: grundle

BookMark


3 posted on 12/26/2014 1:55:47 PM PST by thesearethetimes... (Had I brought Christ with me, the outcome would have been different. Dr.Eric Cunningham)
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To: grundle

Feminism, pornography, and the US Welfare State have transported all the bull males to another place.

Prisons are the consequence to society for resulting juveniles who kill (white) rhinos, not the cause.


4 posted on 12/26/2014 1:57:34 PM PST by PGR88
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To: grundle

Bkmk


5 posted on 12/26/2014 2:04:33 PM PST by combat_boots (The Lion of Judah cometh. Hallelujah. Gloria Patri, Filio et Spiritui Sancto!)
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To: grundle

This is the fruit of feminism.

It was always about achieving this, from the very beginning.

It’s only ever been about hating men, creating terminally narcissistic women, and destroying boys to collapse society into a communist hellhole.

Nobody holds women in more abject contempt than a feminist.

Sadly, the last people to ever figure this out are the hoards of gullible women who have been trained to call the destruction of their lives and families and children “empowerment.”


6 posted on 12/26/2014 2:11:53 PM PST by Talisker (One who commands, must obey.)
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To: Talisker
and destroying boys to collapse society into a communist hellhole.

Where are the men when these boys are being destroyed?

7 posted on 12/26/2014 2:25:02 PM PST by TwelveOfTwenty (See my home page for some of my answers to the left's talking points.)
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To: TwelveOfTwenty
Where are the men when these boys are being destroyed?

Divorced, dumped, stripped of assets, massively indebted by outrageous judgements and blocked by court rulings from access to their own children.

Do some research on the "men's rights" and family court scandals.

8 posted on 12/26/2014 2:34:20 PM PST by Talisker (One who commands, must obey.)
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To: Talisker
Do some research on the "men's rights" and family court scandals.

I have, and here's what I found.

From an MRA, Time for Some Male Bashing of Our Own

9 posted on 12/26/2014 2:43:03 PM PST by TwelveOfTwenty (See my home page for some of my answers to the left's talking points.)
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To: grundle

Q: If no method was devised to transport bull elephants from the one park to the other and the juvenile elephants continued to maraud, what measures would be the next step?


10 posted on 12/26/2014 2:57:47 PM PST by WorkingClassFilth
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To: Talisker
"Nobody holds women in more abject contempt than a feminist."

Except her son.

11 posted on 12/26/2014 2:59:25 PM PST by Mariner (War Criminal #18)
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To: MeganC

Dad was replaced by Uncle Sham and his EBT card.


12 posted on 12/26/2014 3:05:15 PM PST by TurboZamboni (Those who make peaceful revolution impossible will make violent revolution inevitable.-JFK)
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To: grundle

ping


13 posted on 12/26/2014 3:18:03 PM PST by Parmy
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To: TwelveOfTwenty
I have, and here's what I found. From an MRA, Time for Some Male Bashing of Our Own

LOL, so you're a feminist supporter saying it's all the men's fault? And your method is to conflate data between the notoriously out-of- control and massively statistically significant Black baby daddies who utterly abandon their responsibilities, with white middle class working men who pay massive child support after being stripped of everything by a completely lop-sided, feminist controlled court system - all without ever mentioning race or economic demographics?

More to the point, conflating fathers who rejected their children and their children's mother, with father's who were slandered and dumped by their feminist wife's and denied by biased courts from seeing the children they love and desperately want to be with?

And without any references whatsoever to any actual studies, basing your position solely upon unattributed, generalized slanders against fathers!

My God, does slander even get nastier than this?

And, of course, using this outrageously racist slander to ignore the viciously unfair and sexist man and father-hating biased laws used by women for vengence and sadism?

I actually hope you're a female feminist shill invoking your innate depravity to try to protect the vile destruction you support against men. Because if you're not, then you have literally sacrificed your manhood for obedience to communist feminism, by enacting the strategy of a poisonous spider.

Did you get all that? I hope I didn't leave anything out. I do so want to be VERY clear.

14 posted on 12/26/2014 3:18:52 PM PST by Talisker (One who commands, must obey.)
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To: Mariner
Except her son.

Well said, exactly right.

15 posted on 12/26/2014 3:20:01 PM PST by Talisker (One who commands, must obey.)
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To: grundle

Fathers are needed everywhere.


16 posted on 12/26/2014 3:32:39 PM PST by Salvation ("With God all things are possible." Matthew 19:26)
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To: Talisker
Did you actually read the link I posted to you. Like the author, I support men's rights.

And like the author, I'm sick of how men refuse to fight back against the attacks against themselves, their fathers, and their sons. Men won't even defend their own sons against a school system that allows girls to kick them in the nuts for no reason, and this has been the case for decades.

And then, when many of these fathers end up being chewed up and spit out by the openly rigged family court system, they wonder where the equality is. But where were they when other males including their own sons wanted equality.

Are you an MRA? If so, you must be relatively new at it, because after a while you'll have seen what I, the author of that op-ed, and many others see. And you'll be as disgusted with men and their penis dictated servitude as we are.

17 posted on 12/26/2014 3:33:10 PM PST by TwelveOfTwenty (See my home page for some of my answers to the left's talking points.)
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To: grundle

** “Where have all the fathers gone?” Simply increasing the presence of police everywhere a crime is possible might assuage some political pressure, but it does little to identify and solve the real social problem behind the brazen Central Park assaults. It was the very same problem that victimized rhinos in that park in Africa. The majority of the young men hanging around committing those crimes in Central Park grew up in homes without fathers present. **

BTTT!


18 posted on 12/26/2014 3:34:15 PM PST by Salvation ("With God all things are possible." Matthew 19:26)
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To: grundle; nickcarraway; NYer; ELS; Pyro7480; livius; ArrogantBustard; Catholicguy; RobbyS; ...

Ping to article by Fr. Gordon J. MacRae


19 posted on 12/26/2014 3:37:38 PM PST by Salvation ("With God all things are possible." Matthew 19:26)
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To: grundle

**Eighty percent of the young men I have met in prison grew up in homes without fathers. The problem seems clear. When prisons and police replace fathers, chaos reigns, and promising young lives are sacrificed.**

Staggering number.


20 posted on 12/26/2014 3:39:11 PM PST by Salvation ("With God all things are possible." Matthew 19:26)
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