Posted on 02/20/2017 2:17:13 PM PST by NYer
Critics have sometimes claimed that marriage is not that important to God. But interestingly, the Bible both begins and ends with a marriage. In fact, marriage is the defining metaphor God uses to illustrate His love for the Church, His bride.
The natural place to begin an investigation into what God thinks about marriage (and sex) is in Genesis 1 and 2, where scripture describes Gods creation of the world and everything in it. Here are nine truths about sex and marriage from the first two chapters in Genesis:
1. Sex and marriage are a creation of God. Sex is not the result of a blind, evolutionary process that lacks meaning and merely exists to propagate the species. Rather, God is the one who created sex with a purpose for how it is to be expressed and experienced. The first explicit attribute we learn about God in the Bible is that He is the Creator (Gen 1:1), which implies there is a purpose for what He creates, including sex.
2. People are created as gendered [distinctively male or female] beings. Gender is not accidental to the creation story. Rather, God intentionally made human beings male and female (1:27-28) so they could populate the earth. The creation story emphasizes distinctions between day and night, land and sea, as well as male and female. Gender is fundamental to what it means to be human.
3. The biblical design for marriage is monogamy. The pattern in Genesis 2:24 is that a man leaves his household, which consists of his father and his mother, and then clings to his wife. When God called Adam to name the animals, there was not found a helper fit for him (2:20b). The clear implication is that Adam was looking for one partner. Populating the earth only requires one man and one woman. Although many biblical leaders embraced polygamy, the clear design for marriage is monogamy.
4. The two sexes are equal in value. Even though there is contrast between Adam and Eve (male and female), there is no hint of ontological superiority for the male. Both are equal image bearers of the divine (1:27). While egalitarians and complementarians differ over the roles of men and women in the family and church, both agree that men and women have equal value.
5. Marriage is an exclusive relationship. Genesis 2:24 says a man shall leave his father and mother. The Hebrew term for leave is a strong term that is often translated as abandon or forsake, and is sometimes used to indicate that Israel has forsaken the God of Israel for false gods (e.g. Deut 28:20). Richard Davidson explains: This leaving also implies the exclusiveness of the relationship: husband and wife, and no other interfering party, are bone of each others bones, flesh of each others flesh.[1]
6. Marriage is meant to be permanent. According to Genesis 2:24, man will hold fast to his wife. The language of this same verse, This at last is bone of my bones and flesh of my flesh, expresses a marriage covenant vow. Holding fast and the one-flesh union indicate permanence in the relationship. Jesus affirmed the intended permanence for marriage (See Matt. 19:3-4).
7. Marriage is heterosexual. Both Genesis 1 and 2 indicate that marriage is gendered. The man leaves his father and mother and clings to his wife. While marriage entails much more than gender differences, it entails no less. Paul affirms that marriage is gendered (See Eph. 5:22-33).
8. One of the primary purposes of sex and marriage is procreation. After indicating that males and females are made in Gods image, Genesis indicates that they are to Be fruitful and multiply and fill the earth. Thus, one of the primary purposes of marriage is procreation. Not all couples can have children, for a variety of reasons, but part of the divine design for sex and marriage is procreation.
9. Sex is good and beautiful. Over and over again the author of Genesis 1 makes it clear that creation is good: And God saw everything he had made, and behold, it was very good (1:31). Sex is part of Gods original good creation. Sex is only bad when we abuse Gods intended design. But in the marriage relationship of one man and one woman, sex is meant to be experienced without fear, shame or regret and is both good and beautiful.
FYI ping!
Rule #1 - Don’t let the serpent keep talking to your wife.
Rule #2 - Don’t go along with your wife’s deception. Stand against the deception and stand for the truth and help your wife to do so as well.
#10. Beware wives bearing fruit!
Proverbs 5:18-19
Let your fountain be blessed, and rejoice in the wife of your youth, a lovely deer, a graceful doe. Let her breasts fill you at all times with delight; be intoxicated always in her love.
A truth found out much later in the following centuries and chapters of man. :)
11. After you say “I do”, she will lose interest, and you are SOL.
No such thing as same sex marriage it’s shacking up.
#8 - this is where the Right is getting run over by the Left, with the narrative changing to “love first & all” rather than “procreation first, for & by love”. While love is a driving force to encourage & facilitate procreation, love is not the end unto itself. The Left has commandeered this by making love an end unto itself, enforced with shaming those who point to the utter impossibility of procreation (obvious with literally just 2 bits of information) by promptly pointing to those who cannot, by sorry accident, procreate (need much more information to evaluate this condition, leading to more shaming with the prospect of the government evaluating would-be couples by examining the state of their plumbing); by doing so, they can confidently argue “it’s not about children!” while leaving the Right in misguided guilt about the barren.
#9 - There is much consternation per this point regarding contraception. Thanks to medical advancement, healthy fertile parents face the prospect of procreating well into an age where their ability to provide for offspring later can seriously come into doubt. A man still frisky at 50 may find himself paying college tuition at 70; is it “abusive” to curb conception? some major theologies think so, without much apparent concern for the realities of aging.
Be fruitful and multiply and fill the earth.
Could ‘earth’ also be ‘universe’- or not?
Note “youth”. Marry early (be able to support each other, but don’t demand too much of that either). Too much of our society promotes delaying that without considering that people do, in fact, age.
Of course. Scripture was written by people having little notion of what is actually “out there”, hence certain limitations in expressions.
Another truth - breasts are for husbands. They get loaned out a little while for kids, but.....
He is the same, from beginning to end. Marriage is His creation.
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When does God bless them with all the good He gives to others?
Isaiah 51:16 might say so:
.....that I may plant the heavens, and lay the foundations of the earth, and say unto Zion, Thou art my people.
“The biblical design for marriage is monogamy.”
Really? There is more to Genesis than the first two chapters.
Read on to the 29th as but one example and see how Joseph got down with his two cousins and both of their hand maids. Reminds me of Haight-Ashbury days.
His Uncle Laban was a real jerk as well.
Don’t forget David and Solomon.
There are some helpful resources at:
....if you are christians. If not you are truly SOL.
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