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Why Does Torah Law Allow Polygamy?
Chabad ^ | June 27, 2015 | Rabbi Tzvi Freeman, senior editor

Posted on 07/04/2015 2:11:54 AM PDT by 2ndDivisionVet

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To: Mrs. Don-o

Yes, the family disruption is very damaging at both ends, so to speak: the ones left in the source country and the often ad-hoc relationships in the U.S. On top of that, I know of several families where the man has been deported, leaving a wife and children in the U.S.


41 posted on 07/04/2015 4:57:45 PM PDT by Tax-chick ("And that drummer from that one band whose name I can't remember is also dead."~SamAdams76)
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To: Mrs. Don-o

I was quoting Dallas/Ft Worth to Manila, PI.

Sex ratio stands at 102 males for every 100 females

Of the 92.1 million household population in the Philippines, 50.4 percent were males and 49.6 percent were female. This resulted in a sex ratio of 102 males per 100 females. The sex ratio in 2000 was 101 males per 100 females.

http://web0.psa.gov.ph/content/age-and-sex-structure-philippine-population-facts-2010-census


42 posted on 07/04/2015 5:38:20 PM PDT by 2ndDivisionVet (You can help: https://donate.tedcruz.org/c/FBTX0095/)
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To: 2ndDivisionVet
Good to know. Widespread polygamy and female infanticide, both of which skew the male/female conjugal balance in society, are socially undesirable as they render a whole class of young males permanently unmarriageable.

Fortunately for the Philippines, they have neither widespread polygamy nor female infanticide.

I would not willingly permit either --- not here, not there, not anywhere.

43 posted on 07/04/2015 5:54:17 PM PDT by Mrs. Don-o (When you see a fork in the road, take it. - Yogi Berra)
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To: Mrs. Don-o
My husband and I were asked to help out with the Spanish speaking congregation of our denomination. We did this for 7 years and became good friends with the neighbors.

We saw this problem fairly frequently. Wife #1,kids, and elderly relatives in Mexico and shack-up #2 with American born kids here.

The problem is that with outflow of young and healthy males, the families and towns in Mexico are defenseless.

44 posted on 07/04/2015 5:54:57 PM PDT by wintertime (Stop treating government teachers like they are reincarnated Mother Teresas!)
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To: Tax-chick

Re: Deportation

Yep! We saw that, too.


45 posted on 07/04/2015 5:56:21 PM PDT by wintertime (Stop treating government teachers like they are reincarnated Mother Teresas!)
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To: Mrs. Don-o

Wouldn’t it be up to the consenting adults involved in these potential relationships to make the choices for themselves?


46 posted on 07/04/2015 6:00:14 PM PDT by 2ndDivisionVet (You can help: https://donate.tedcruz.org/c/FBTX0095/)
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To: 2ndDivisionVet
The behaviors we've been speaking of (in my posts anyhow) are the gender-imbalancing behaviors polygamy and female infanticide.

In neither case is "adult consent" the only or the most important consideration.

Female infanticide, prenatal or postnatal,is murder.

Polygamy, though it has a negative impact on culture, is probably not going to be eradicated by its being illegal, but it should remain illegal. There's no reason for society to give an official stamp of approval to a practice with such disruptive effects on behavior and basic societal functioning.

I am not a libertarian, but from a libertarian point of view, there's arguably no reason for the state to be in the marriage-defining business at all. Marriage is an institution which far predates the state, and (up until 15 minutes ago) has always been in the conjugal form, i.e. man/woman, whether polygamous or monogamous. Any "redefinition" of marriage is outside of the competence of the state.

47 posted on 07/04/2015 6:13:18 PM PDT by Mrs. Don-o (When you see a fork in the road, take it. - Yogi Berra)
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To: Mrs. Don-o

Yes, but the state has redefined it already, and not just here.


48 posted on 07/04/2015 6:19:16 PM PDT by 2ndDivisionVet (You can help: https://donate.tedcruz.org/c/FBTX0095/)
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To: wintertime

Whether the wife and children can keep things together depends on whether they have other family in the area.


49 posted on 07/04/2015 6:42:07 PM PDT by Tax-chick ("And that drummer from that one band whose name I can't remember is also dead."~SamAdams76)
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To: 2ndDivisionVet
"Yes, but the state has redefined it already, and not just here."

That (the re-definition of sex AND marriage) is contributing to the collapse of civilization in every place where it has happened.

I'm not just talking about "gay". I'm talking about the combined impact of many factors (such as male unemployment, long-term welfare, juvenile sex experimentation, the average age of marriage approaching the age of menopause, contraception, sterilization, abortion, etc.) which make stable conjugal family-formation and childbearing much more unlikely.

Individual choice? It's more a result of government social engineering, both the intended and unintended outcomes thereof.

Greece as a nation is on the ropes as we speak. Strongly affected by their sui-genocidally (or we could say geno-suicidally) low fertility rate. (Greece is 1.3) This is going to hit every country with family-formation and fertility rates so low that no nation in history has ever been known to recover.

50 posted on 07/04/2015 6:51:11 PM PDT by Mrs. Don-o (When you see a fork in the road, take it. - Yogi Berra)
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To: 2ndDivisionVet; Mrs. Don-o; wintertime

“Consent,” the only moral principle. That’s going to - does - work out very poorly for all but the most powerful.

It means the war of all against all, or what we used to call “barbarism” before it became inappropriate to believe that some cultures were absolutely better than others.

Yes, “Col. Sam Colt made us all the same size,” but can’t we have something better than that?


51 posted on 07/04/2015 6:53:34 PM PDT by Tax-chick ("And that drummer from that one band whose name I can't remember is also dead."~SamAdams76)
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To: ravenwolf; StormPrepper

Interestingly (or maybe not, to you,) the Jewish commentators say that Ketura was Hagar...she waited for him and kept her womb ketura.... “tied” except for Abraham.


52 posted on 07/04/2015 7:15:59 PM PDT by Phinneous (Viva Napoli!)
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To: 2ndDivisionVet
Discuss.

There's nothing to discuss. This is all governed by the Torah which G-d gave Israel at Sinai.

As rare as polygyny has been among Jews for millenia, it is still technically permitted by the Torah and any attempt to deny this or to claim that G-d has since changed this rule is to engage in "adding to or subtracting from" the Torah--forbidden activities.

53 posted on 07/04/2015 7:31:58 PM PDT by Zionist Conspirator (The "end of history" will be Worldwide Judaic Theocracy.)
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To: Zionist Conspirator

Indeed. Not one jot or tittle.


54 posted on 07/04/2015 7:40:22 PM PDT by 2ndDivisionVet (You can help: https://donate.tedcruz.org/c/FBTX0095/)
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To: StormPrepper
God is the final authority. A living breathing God. But I digress.

God does not breathe. He has no need of oxygen to sustain Himself.

In the millennium, after Christ’s return, God will reinstate polygamy -for a time.

Isaiah 4:
1 And in that day seven women shall take hold of one man, saying, We will eat our own bread, and wear our own apparel: only let us be called by thy name, to take away our reproach.

You think that because Isaiah 4 prophecies a future situation where seven woman will beg one man to be his wives that this one proof text means that God will approvingly "reinstate" polygamy for a time?

Polygamy can be righteously practiced if God commands it.

Uh, "but because of the temptation to sexual immorality, each man should have his own wife and each woman her own husband."
1 Corinthians 7:2

Cordially,

55 posted on 07/04/2015 7:58:24 PM PDT by Diamond (He has erected a multitude of new offices, and sent hither swarms of officers to harass our people,)
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To: Diamond
God does not breathe. He has no need of oxygen to sustain Himself.

You don't think God can breathe? And no one said anything about needing oxygen. Can God eat or taste?

You think that because Isaiah 4 prophecies a future situation where seven woman will beg one man to be his wives that this one proof text means that God will approvingly "reinstate" polygamy for a time?

Why in the world do you think Isaiah would waste his time prophesying about a single situation? What's possible significance could it have if that were the case?

After Christ's return there is no evil in the world. And Jesus will personally reign on the earth. Therefore, it has to be concluded that these women are acting in accordance with the will of Christ.

Isaiah's words affirm that the true prophets know the true significance of marriage and that it has eternal consequences.

Even Jesus alluded to it in the parable of the ten virgins. 10 virgins coming to marry the one bride groom at His coming.

Uh, "but because of the temptation to sexual immorality, each man should have his own wife and each woman her own husband."
1 Corinthians 7:2

Those are not the words 1 Cor 7:2.
56 posted on 07/05/2015 1:14:42 AM PDT by StormPrepper
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To: StormPrepper
Those are not the words 1 Cor 7:2.

Huh? ttp://biblehub.com/1_corinthians/7-2

Can God eat or taste?

God does not eat or taste. God is Spirit. The divine nature of God is not altered by the Incarnation of Christ The divine nature is still divine and the human nature is still human.

Why in the world do you think Isaiah would waste his time prophesying about a single situation? What's possible significance could it have if that were the case?

What makes you think Isaiah in verse 1 refers to the millennial reign of Christ? To the contrary, "that day" refers to the calamitous period described at the end of the previous chapter; the chastisement of the daughters of Zion. There is no reason for the chapter separation of the first six verses of Isaiah 4 from the previous chapter.

And that it verse on does not refer to a time after Christ's return when there is no evil in the world is evident from what the women say, "To take away our reproach." Why would their be any reproach when there is no evil in the world?

Isaiah's words affirm that the true prophets know the true significance of marriage and that it has eternal consequences.

Isaiah's words affirm that the true prophets know the true significance of marriage and that it has eternal consequences.

No, some of Isaiah's words ripped out of context might give a false appearance of such, but that's about it.

But certain of the Sadducees, who deny that there is any resurrection, came to Him and asked Him, saying, “Teacher, Moses wrote to us that if someone’s brother die having a wife, and he die childless, that his brother should take his wife, and raise up seed to his brother. There were therefore seven brothers, and the first took a wife, and died childless. And the second took the wife, and he died childless. And the third took her, and likewise the seven also, and they left no children, and died. And last of all the woman died also. In the resurrection therefore, whose wife of them is she? for the seven had her to wife.” And Jesus answering said to them, “The sons of this age marry and are given in marriage; but they who shall be accounted worthy to obtain that age, and the resurrection from the dead, neither marry, nor are given in marriage; for they cannot any more die; for they are equal to the angels, and are the sons of God, being sons of the resurrection.”
Luke 20:27-38

Even Jesus alluded to it in the parable of the ten virgins. 10 virgins coming to marry the one bride groom at His coming.

The 10 young women in the parable be the bridal party, not additional brides.

Cordially,

57 posted on 07/05/2015 5:49:55 AM PDT by Diamond (He has erected a multitude of new offices, and sent hither swarms of officers to harass our people,)
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To: Phinneous

Interestingly (or maybe not, to you,) the Jewish commentators say that Ketura was Hagar...she waited for him and kept her womb ketura.... “tied” except for Abraham.


That is interesting considering how the marriage between Abraham and Hagar seems to be dismissed by so many people and it is also interesting that Ishmael was with Isaac when they buried Abraham.


58 posted on 07/05/2015 7:34:48 AM PDT by ravenwolf (If the Bible don`t say it, don`t preach it to me.)
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To: gattaca

God was reestablishing the importance of the family as society’s fundamental element. Hence, rule number one.”


There had already been polygamy in Israel long before they went into Egypt.

That is where the 12 tribes got started, and before that the Arabs started becoming a nation because of the polygamy of our ancestors.


59 posted on 07/05/2015 7:52:03 AM PDT by ravenwolf (If the Bible don`t say it, don`t preach it to me.)
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To: wastoute

Anyone who interprets their reading of The Bible “allowing” polygamy has a reading for comprehension problem.


The one with the reading problem is up for argument.

Show me where Polygamy is prohibited and I will admit to having a reading problem.


60 posted on 07/05/2015 8:21:24 AM PDT by ravenwolf (If the Bible don`t say it, don`t preach it to me.)
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