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Does the Bible really teach that premarital sex is wrong?
Answering Protestants ^ | 4 June 2014 | Matthew Olson

Posted on 06/04/2014 10:18:03 AM PDT by matthewrobertolson

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To: GeronL

Gee! I guess ‘priestly’ pedophilia is okay then?


21 posted on 06/04/2014 10:44:12 AM PDT by dvan (Send Them Home!)
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To: wbarmy
The only Sola Scriptura Protestant who would find it murky, would be one who was looking for an excuse to do what they had decided to do anyway.

That would be true of MANY humans who try to justify bad behavior, either theirs so someone else's. The worst their behavior, it seems, the harder they try for SOME kind of justification.

22 posted on 06/04/2014 10:44:37 AM PDT by cloudmountain
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To: matthewrobertolson

**Does the Bible really teach that premarital sex is wrong?**

Yes


23 posted on 06/04/2014 10:44:55 AM PDT by Salvation ("With God all things are possible." Matthew 19:26)
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To: skeeter

“As a protestant, I’ve never once heard anyone use scripture to justify premarital sex.”

I have. Masturbation is a form of premarital sex. Years ago a Protestant friend passed along Protestant book about sex. It was filled with errors - all because of sola scriptura. The author clearly did not understand sexuality in a truly Christian way.


24 posted on 06/04/2014 10:46:27 AM PDT by vladimir998
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To: dvan

lol


25 posted on 06/04/2014 10:46:33 AM PDT by GeronL (Vote for Conservatives not for Republicans)
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To: SeekAndFind

I have no problem with your reasoned addition to the discussion. My problem is with the original post. Rather than genuinely discussing whether the Bible teaches - name the topic - the author quickly steers toward an anti-Protestant viewpoint. I find this type of writing to be intellectually deficient and dishonest. The author should state his premise - Protestant believe in scriptural sufficiency allows them find wiggle room in justifying sinful actions. Once honestly stated, those (including me) who find the premise to be wrong, offensive and plainly ill-reasoned can join in the hunt and watch the fur fly!


26 posted on 06/04/2014 10:46:51 AM PDT by HonorInPa
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To: matthewrobertolson

“But Protestants don’t have that luxury.”

I would argue that isn’t a luxury but a hindrance. No man has the right to tell another man what God has said. God speaks for Himself.


27 posted on 06/04/2014 10:47:01 AM PDT by CodeToad (Arm Up! They Are!)
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To: dvan

This is talking about marriage. Why are you trying to change the subject?


28 posted on 06/04/2014 10:47:28 AM PDT by Salvation ("With God all things are possible." Matthew 19:26)
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To: GeronL
It takes a hateful “Catholic” to write something like that.

Who knows why some people are so hateful. It shows such lack of control, such a mean spirit and an arrogance (pride) that is the FIRST of the seven deadly sins.

"Hateful" comes from a most unhappy person, don't you think? Maybe their unhappiness is assuaged a bit by demeaning others.
That never works of course. One wonders if that person will EVER learn.

29 posted on 06/04/2014 10:48:57 AM PDT by cloudmountain
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To: PaForBush

Whether you are protestant or catholic, you believe one thing in common -— SCRIPTURE IS GOD’s WORD.

So, the response I gave is simply a response that both protestants AND catholics should support.

They both believe that St. Paul is Christ’s apostle, and this is what he taught.


30 posted on 06/04/2014 10:51:38 AM PDT by SeekAndFind
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To: DManA
Jesus says:

Matthew 19:9
I tell you that anyone who divorces his wife, except for porneia, and marries another woman commits adultery.

What does porneia mean in this sentence? Don't say "adultery," because there's another word for that: moichos

So does it mean they are not bindingly married if the woman committed fornication (lost her virginity) before the marriage? Or does it mean that the marriage might for some other reason not be a fully binding marriage?

Just curious how you'd approach that.

31 posted on 06/04/2014 10:52:20 AM PDT by Mrs. Don-o (Department of Redundancy Department.)
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To: matthewrobertolson
Starting to read YHvH's WORD at last.

Read about where He asks you to worship Him on Shabbat.

Read about where the Queen of heaven is idolatry.

Read about where there is no one between you and Yah'shua.

shalom b'SHEM Yah'shua HaMashiach

32 posted on 06/04/2014 10:53:00 AM PDT by Uri’el-2012 (Psalm 119:174 I long for Your salvation, YHvH, Your teaching is my delight.)
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To: matthewrobertolson

Matthew,

Romans 16:17 applies to what you have posted here and other similar things that you and others have posted:

“I urge you, brothers and sisters, to watch out for those who cause divisions and put obstacles in your way that are contrary to the teaching you have learned. Keep away from them.”

Picking fights with Christ followers is a clear departure from Christ’s teaching. Do as you wish; but you are the one making the choice to disobey.


33 posted on 06/04/2014 10:54:11 AM PDT by HereInTheHeartland (Obama lied; our healthcare died.)
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To: SeekAndFind

Good brother in Christ - we’re singing from the same of the hymnal!


34 posted on 06/04/2014 10:56:37 AM PDT by HonorInPa
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To: SeekAndFind

This is ridiculous.

Not only is the idea of anyone using the doctrine of Sola Scriptura to justify fornication ludicrous, it demonstrates that the author does not understand what Sola Scripture even means.

Great job, author, of tearing down your family in Christ.


35 posted on 06/04/2014 10:56:40 AM PDT by Terabitten (I'd rather have one Walker than fourteen runners.)
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To: vladimir998
I have. Masturbation

Where is masturbation discussed in YHvH's WORD ?
shalom b'SHEM Yah'shua HaMashiach
36 posted on 06/04/2014 10:57:06 AM PDT by Uri’el-2012 (Psalm 119:174 I long for Your salvation, YHvH, Your teaching is my delight.)
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To: Terabitten

RE: Great job, author, of tearing down your family in Christ.

I hope you are referring to me, because if my Post #2 means anything, it is to show that SCRIPTURE TEACHES AGAINST sex outside of marriage (be it pre-marital or extra-marital).


37 posted on 06/04/2014 10:59:30 AM PDT by SeekAndFind
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To: Terabitten

Correction: I hope you are NOT referring to me.


38 posted on 06/04/2014 11:01:16 AM PDT by SeekAndFind
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To: matthewrobertolson
Marriage

Marriage

Mark 10:2-12:  Jesus said to the Pharisees, "God made them male and female.  For this reason, a man shall leave his father and mother, and the two shall become as one flesh. Therefore what God has joined together, no man must separate..."

Romans 7:1-3: Do you not know, brethren -- for I am speaking to those who know the law -- that the law is binding on a person only during his life?  Thus a married woman is bound by law to her husband as long as he lives; but if her husband dies she is discharged from the law concerning the husband.  Accordingly, she will be called an adulteress if she lives with another man while her husband is alive. But if her husband dies she is free from that law, and if she marries another man she is not an adulteress.

1 Corinthians 7:10-16: To the married I give charge, not I but the Lord, that the wife should not separate from her husband  (but if she does, let her remain single or else be reconciled to her husband) -- and that the husband should not divorce his wife.  To the rest I say, not the Lord, that if any brother has a wife who is an unbeliever, and she consents to live with him, he should not divorce her.  If any woman has a husband who is an unbeliever, and he consents to live with her, she should not divorce him.  For the unbelieving husband is consecrated through his wife, and the unbelieving wife is consecrated through her husband. Otherwise, your children would be unclean, but as it is they are holy.  But if the unbelieving partner desires to separate, let it be so; in such a case the brother or sister is not bound. For God has called us to peace.  Wife, how do you know whether you will save your husband? Husband, how do you know whether you will save your wife? 

(**NOTE -- Here we see the power of one person's faith in Christ sanctifying the rest of the family, including infants.  Why?  Because the family is one in Christ, even if only one member is a believer.)

Ephesians 5:22-33: Wives, be subject to your husbands, as to the Lord.  For the husband is the head of the wife as Christ is the head of the church, his body, and is himself its Savior.  As the church is subject to Christ, so let wives also be subject in everything to their husbands.  Husbands, love your wives, as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her,  that he might sanctify her, having cleansed her by the washing of water with the word, that he might present the church to himself in splendor, without spot or wrinkle or any such thing, that she might be holy and without blemish.  Even so husbands should love their wives as their own bodies. He who loves his wife loves himself.  For no man ever hates his own flesh, but nourishes and cherishes it, as Christ does the church,  because we are members of his body.  "For this reason a man shall leave his father and mother and be joined to his wife, and the two shall become one flesh."  This mystery is a profound one, and I am saying that it refers to Christ and the church;  however, let each one of you love his wife as himself, and let the wife see that she respects her husband.

(**NOTE -- Here Paul compares the sacrament of marriage between a man and a wife with the relationship Christ has with His Church - That they are one, and not separate entities.  That is why Jesus said in Luke 10:16 - "He who hears you hears me, and he who rejects you rejects me, and he who rejects me rejects him who sent me."  People who reject the teachings of the Church because of their personal opinions would do well to remember this- they aren't just rejecting what the Pope says;  they are rejecting what Jesus says.)

Hebrews 13:4: Let marriage be held in honor among all, and let the marriage bed be undefiled; for God will judge the immoral and adulterous. 


39 posted on 06/04/2014 11:01:33 AM PDT by Salvation ("With God all things are possible." Matthew 19:26)
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To: vladimir998; matthewrobertolson; SeekAndFind
It seems to me that the main point of this article is to pit Believers against one another - this is despicable.

Years ago a Protestant friend passed along Protestant book...

Why go down this road? My wife has a lady friend who was just ordained as a Catholic Priest. So according to logic of this writer, I can now lump all Catholics into the same bowl as my wife's friend? Of course not.

I have a huge amount of respect, love and admiration for my Catholic brothers & sisters (on the whole) for standing firm against the culture of death and holding high the banner of Christ.

Articles like this are not helpful. Stop preaching hatred and dissension.

40 posted on 06/04/2014 11:02:44 AM PDT by jonno (Having an opinion is not the same as having the answer...)
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