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Why do Catholics leave, and what can be done about it?
cna ^ | April 19, 2012 | Father Robert Barron

Posted on 04/19/2012 11:58:25 AM PDT by NYer

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To: Cronos
Nah, we don’t want folks who reject Christ’s divinity. Goodbye to them and good riddance..

Not so, my FRiend.

We want them to abandon their unbelief ... we pray that God grant them the grace of repentance and conversion ... we want them to join us in the light of God's Truth.

21 posted on 04/19/2012 12:45:38 PM PDT by ArrogantBustard (Western Civilization is Aborting, Buggering, and Contracepting itself out of existence.)
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To: USS Alaska

>>We are both about 70 years so it won’t be long and we will find out the real truth about God. <<

I think that some people are going to be REALLY surprised about who they meet once they walk through those pearly gates.


22 posted on 04/19/2012 12:48:22 PM PDT by netmilsmom (I am Breitbart)
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To: NYer

Some of left because the Church went squishy. Bad pop music and hand wringing sermons with liberal appeasements. I visit now and again, hoping the Church will snap out of it and return to the unpopular truth. Still waiting.
I’m reading Barron’s book “Catholicism” now, good book and I recommend it to both RC and Protestants who are curious.


23 posted on 04/19/2012 12:49:14 PM PDT by moodyskeptic (Counter counterculturist)
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To: NYer

Ha Ha, he probably thinks you are still sitting in one of the back pews.

Our last priest was an unmitigated disaster, he would forget to mention the Mass intentions and people would come into the office crying because it was a special day for them. He would say something like “Well, it was in the bulletin.” and we would be left trying to salve hurt feelings. I could go on but I’d rather not relive the nightmare.

Our new priest is totally different, he is at the parish hall all day unless he is called away. He even helped us clean beans this morning! He will go to the hospital or take a confession or just meet and talk with anyone who presents themselves and asks for a meeting.

We have a man in town who is dying of cancer that we all know and our priest didn’t even know that he was a fallen away Catholic but he asked if he could go visit him. As it turns out the man called the other priest in town and asked for Last Rites but our priest was ready and willing just to go visit a person that he really knew nothing about including his religion, he just wanted us to ask for permission.


24 posted on 04/19/2012 12:49:46 PM PDT by tiki
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To: NYer

I never left the Church; my bishop told me there was no place in the church for people like me (Conservative, Traditionalist). I have not been invited back by any of the succeeding bishops.


25 posted on 04/19/2012 12:52:02 PM PDT by NTHockey (Rules of engagement #1: Take no prisoners)
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To: netmilsmom

Thank you!

I’ll work myself back one day - probably on my death bed like the great Oscar Wilde (not that I compare myself to him, lol!)


26 posted on 04/19/2012 12:56:36 PM PDT by miss marmelstein
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To: St_Thomas_Aquinas; metmom

Just how me the priesthood in the NT church... Show me the mass..show me the prayers to the physically dead..show me the assumption, show me purgatory, ..the fact is one does not need to be “infallible” to knw man made lies when one sees them.

My church looks more like the NT church than Rome does..


27 posted on 04/19/2012 12:59:18 PM PDT by RnMomof7
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To: NYer

No one has yet posted what I believe is at the root of anyone leaving - no longer believing in the Real Presence. If you believe that then none of the other outer stuff matters.


28 posted on 04/19/2012 12:59:44 PM PDT by MomwithHope (Buy and read Ameritopia by Mark Levin!)
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To: D-fendr
I believe your case is covered under “Church teachings.” The article is about other issues.

LOL

29 posted on 04/19/2012 1:00:02 PM PDT by RnMomof7
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To: MomwithHope

Actually believing that error is what KEEPS some catholics..


30 posted on 04/19/2012 1:01:14 PM PDT by RnMomof7
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To: RnMomof7
"It is very easy to get an ‘annulment” from the church... Most of the people in the pews use or used birth control ...the church is full of gays..including a large part of their priests..

So those issues are non issues.. things like the mass, prayer to saints..a deified Mary,a non biblical priesthood and mass..those are marks of a man made church..not the church of Jesus Christ..so we leave

In other words, you left because the Church did not change to embrace your new found doctrines and dogmas. And because you established that "lining up with Scripture" as you saw and interpreted them was the effective test of fallibility and authority.

Faith is an act of the will and is linked with obedience. I can confidently say that you left the Church, it didn't leave you.

31 posted on 04/19/2012 1:01:29 PM PDT by Natural Law (If you love the Catholic Church raise your hands, if not raise your standards.)
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To: USS Alaska

I know my eternity..do you know yours?


32 posted on 04/19/2012 1:02:40 PM PDT by RnMomof7
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To: netmilsmom
"I think that some people are going to be REALLY surprised about who they meet once they walk through those pearly gates."

Not as surprised as they are going to be when they discover that the Pearly Gates are the servants entrance.

33 posted on 04/19/2012 1:05:46 PM PDT by Natural Law (If you love the Catholic Church raise your hands, if not raise your standards.)
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To: moodyskeptic

I think the first wave of Catholics who kinda gave up on the Church were those who were subjected to “liberal appeasements.” But there seems to be a second wave who don’t like the Church because the “liberal appeasements” don’t go far enough!

Weird, isn’t it?


34 posted on 04/19/2012 1:05:46 PM PDT by miss marmelstein
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To: NYer

A good follow-up question would be, “where did you go?” Did they quit Christianity altogether? Switch to a liberal denomination? Switch to a conservative evangelical denomination?

I’m not Catholic. Never have been. I wouldn’t mourn those who switched to a liberal denomination or quit because of doctrine. Molding doctrine to fit the believers is a lousy idea.

I’d also be less concerned about someone leaving my church because they found another church or another conservative denomination that fits them better. There are a lot of good churches out there ... maybe even a few that the Catholic Church could learn from.

Those that left the faith because of PR or something are recoverable.

SnakeDoc


35 posted on 04/19/2012 1:07:21 PM PDT by SnakeDoctor ("I've shot people I like more for less." -- Raylan Givens)
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To: miss marmelstein

:)


36 posted on 04/19/2012 1:11:03 PM PDT by netmilsmom (I am Breitbart)
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To: RnMomof7

Were you really EVER a Catholic? Fallen away Catholics - or lapsed Catholics - have a great deal of angst and pathos regarding their lost faith. You seem to have only hostility.


37 posted on 04/19/2012 1:11:59 PM PDT by miss marmelstein
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To: RnMomof7; USS Alaska

>>I know my eternity..do you know yours?<<

That poster just volunteered to pray for you, right here, right now.
The least you can do is say thank you. Cause let me tell you, if your interpretation of Christianity is rudeness or inconsideration, you’re doing it very well.


38 posted on 04/19/2012 1:16:38 PM PDT by netmilsmom (I am Breitbart)
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To: MtnMan101
Threaten them with Hell Fire and Damnation like the Baptists do.

Prior to Vatican Council II, this is precisely what they did. Back then, the churches were packed to overflowing - no air conditioning. Another admonition made back then was to NEVER enter a non-Catholic Church. Since VCII, it's all about ecumenism. Is it any wonder catholics are confused.

39 posted on 04/19/2012 1:20:29 PM PDT by NYer (He who hides in his heart the remembrance of wrongs is like a man who feeds a snake on his chest. St)
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To: SnakeDoctor

>>I’d also be less concerned about someone leaving my church because they found another church or another conservative denomination that fits them better. There are a lot of good churches out there ... maybe even a few that the Catholic Church could learn from.<<

There were a few years in The Catholic Church where the libs took over and it was all Sweetness and Light, Happy Catholic, God made the flowers and God made the trees. Those who were in the pews and classes at that time lost out on a lot of instruction.

I have you agree with you. If someone could not find Jesus in a liberal parish and went to a conservative church, I’m not as upset as I probably should be.


40 posted on 04/19/2012 1:20:55 PM PDT by netmilsmom (I am Breitbart)
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