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I Almost Never Made To It To This World
Townhall.com ^ | November 7, 2015 | Helen Raleigh

Posted on 11/07/2015 10:52:05 AM PST by Kaslin

I almost never made it to this world due to China's notorious one-child policy. For thousands of years, China didn't have a population policy. Traditional Chinese culture believes that having many children is a blessing from heaven. Even after Communists took over China in 1949, Chairman Mao continued to encourage Chinese women to have as many babies as possible, because more babies meant more future foot-soldiers for Communist China. Under his rule, China's population grew from 660 million in 1961(after the Chinese famine) to 930 million in 1976. When Mao passed away in 1976, he left China in such economic shambles that China's per capita GDP was merely $162, only slightly better than Bangladesh ($142) but worse than Afghanistan ($200).Chinese leaders believed China's economy couldn't support a population of this size. By 1980, China's population grew to 980 million and Chinese leaders decided to implement the one-child policy in order to curb population growth.

Right before China implemented the one-child policy, my mother discovered that she was pregnant with me. She was a doctor so she knew the one-child policy was coming. Since she had already had two children (my brother and sister), colleagues and supervisors pressured her to get an abortion so she could be a good role model for other women. Years later, my mother told me that she seriously contemplated ending her pregnancy. She didn't care about being a good role model for other women. Rather, she was concerned that life in China was so difficult back then, why bring another child into this misery.

Fortunately, my grandma heard of it. Grandma was farmer and she lived in a village for most of her life. She had very little education so, other than her own name, she couldn't read or write anything. She couldn't be more ordinary, and yet, she had an extraordinary grasp of common sense. In order to save my life, she travelled all the way from the village to the city where my parents lived, first by a donkey cart, then a bus, then a train. She told my mother, no matter how hard life is, a child is a blessing from heaven; a new life brings new hope. My mother decided to keep me.

I owe the gift of life not only to my parents, but also to my grandma. After my grandma passed away in 2003, we finally discovered she was a devoted Christian and had been an active member of an underground church for years. She kept it a secret from most of us because she didn't want us to get into trouble with the government.

From the time the one-child policy was implemented in 1980 till now, only God knows how many babies were forcibly aborted and how many mothers suffered unmentionable agony. Even as recently as 2011 when I last visited China, my friend told me that one of her colleague was eight months pregnant with her second child and was caught by the family-planning enforcers.They dragged her to the local hospital and aborted her child. It was a boy. She took one look at the lifeless fetus and went crazy.

On October 28th, 2015, the Chinese government finally abandoned the one-child policy by telling the Chinese people, "now you can have two kids." The Chinese government didn't make this change out of any benevolence towards its people, but out of cold calculation of statistics: China's working age population is shrinking and there is a huge gender imbalance. All are directly caused by the 35-year old one-child policy. A shrinking work force will further slow down China's economy. A huge gender imbalance and a slowing economy will lead to social unrest. So the Chinese government had to make a policy change. But many demographers have already said, the change had come too little too late.

I suppose two is better than one. This announcement is a giant step for a totalitarian regime, but small progress for Chinese people. No government should have the moral authority to decide on behalf of its people how many children they are allowed to have. For the Americans who embrace socialism and advocate more government intervention in their lives, it is worth remembering "those who forget the past are condemned to repeat it."


TOPICS: Culture/Society; Editorial
KEYWORDS: china; forcedabortion; socialism; totalitarianism

1 posted on 11/07/2015 10:52:05 AM PST by Kaslin
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To: Kaslin

God Bless this woman and God Bless her mother, and especially her grandmother. May she R.I. P.


2 posted on 11/07/2015 10:57:58 AM PST by afraidfortherepublic
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To: afraidfortherepublic; Morgana

Ping


3 posted on 11/07/2015 10:58:59 AM PST by afraidfortherepublic
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To: afraidfortherepublic

Amen.


4 posted on 11/07/2015 11:04:35 AM PST by American Faith Today
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To: Kaslin
Her grandmother left her an amazing legacy. What a blessing!

Then, there's this:

She couldn't be more ordinary, and yet, she had an extraordinary grasp of common sense.

Many times I've observed this in my own family, many of whom are people who live off the land. Their way of life fosters knowledge frequently absent in more "modern" lifestyles.

5 posted on 11/07/2015 11:06:48 AM PST by FourPeas ("Maladjusted and wigging out is no way to go through life, son." -hg)
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To: Kaslin
One of my co-workers, a woman originally from Szechuan province told me of these horror stories.

A young woman in my co-worker's village became pregnant with her second child. Since she was a government employee, so an example had to be made of her. Government agents came to the village searching for her. She tried to hide, but they found her, held her down, injected with a substance and she aborted the baby some days later. The government agents then took her away, never to be seen in that village again.
6 posted on 11/07/2015 11:10:59 AM PST by farming pharmer
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To: Kaslin
We adopted 3 infants. One in ‘63 one in’66 and one in ‘ 72. If they had been born a few years later God only knows if they would have survived.
7 posted on 11/07/2015 11:24:05 AM PST by Ditter (God Bless Texas!)
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To: Kaslin

I visited China in 1983 just as they were implementing the 1 child policy.

The Chinese were most eager to talk to American tourists. One of them asked me about the one child policy (in a whisper). I pulled a picture of my 4 kids out of my pocket and he admired it. I told him that I was an only child and really regretted not having brothers, or sisters, but it was a result of the privations of the depression. However, after WWII the US birth rate really soared. I assured him it would probably change down the road.

Even in 1983, there were exceptions to the one child policy for farmers — just as farmers could have an extra business on the side. At that time, the farmers were rich, while the educated classes (accountants, teachers, etc.) were poor and locked into low salaried positions and lived in crowded apartment blocks in the city.

In 2015 in Wisconsin we are quite well acquainted with a Chinese couple who work at a Chinese restaurant here in town. She just gave birth to her 3rd child — a boy. She already has 2 girls, about 8 years apart. One born in China and one born here. Even though she goes back to Shanghai every couple of years to visit her family, I wonder if she realizes that she would never have been allowed to keep #3 in China?


8 posted on 11/07/2015 11:33:14 AM PST by afraidfortherepublic
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To: FourPeas
...people who live off the land

It isn't easy to make a living from a farm and takes a great deal of knowledge and hard work to make it successful -- lessons a person who draws a salary and benefits often never learn. Our current professors in their Ivy covered ivory towers like to scorn George Washington and Thomas Jefferson. Visit Mt. Vernon, or Monticello, sometime and look at all they had to know to keep their plantations successful and to feed all of the people who were dependent upon them.

9 posted on 11/07/2015 11:38:07 AM PST by afraidfortherepublic
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To: afraidfortherepublic

China has changed, quite drastically. Materialism rules. Abortion will still be the norm, regardless of families allowed to have two, because now people feel they can’t afford a second child, a second child will ruin a woman’s figure, ] if they foetus isn’t perfect in every way, its not ‘worth it’ - or any number of such excuses I have heard.


10 posted on 11/07/2015 11:54:48 AM PST by PGR88
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To: afraidfortherepublic

I have. I did.


11 posted on 11/07/2015 12:25:11 PM PST by FourPeas ("Maladjusted and wigging out is no way to go through life, son." -hg)
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To: afraidfortherepublic

I once overheard a college professor say that the hardest part of his job was “emptying the kids minds of the foolishness they had been taught by their parents”.
Those were his exact words.

I quickly figured out why higher education led to a lack of common sense and problem solving.
Those with degrees in the hard sciences seem to work out better.
The ones with the useless “liberal arts” degrees tend to be worthless.
There are exceptions to each observation, but not many.


12 posted on 11/07/2015 12:29:54 PM PST by oldvirginian (American by birth, Southern by the grace of a loving God and Virginian because Jesus loves me.)
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To: Kaslin

I hope one day the communists are dragged out into the street and shot like the pigs they are.


13 posted on 11/07/2015 3:18:33 PM PST by Impy (They pull a knife, you pull a gun. That's the CHICAGO WAY, and that's how you beat the rats!)
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