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The Totalitarianism of Same-Sex “Marriage” (what has happened in Canada since 2005)
Crisis Magazine ^
| January 27, 2015
| JOE BISSONNETTE
Posted on 01/27/2015 9:54:09 AM PST by NYer
In November of 1996 First Things hosted a symposium titled The Judicial Usurpation of Politics in which contributors discussed the threat to American democracy posed by the Supreme Court instated imposition of abortion on America. Nothing rivals the sheer volume of innocent human beings killed by abortion and yet First Things saw fit to focus not on the babies themselves or the mothers and fathers, but on the threat to democracy and the American experiment posed by the judicial over-reach that legalized abortion.
The legalization of same-sex marriage does not bring with it the innocent blood which cries to heaven, though it is perhaps the single most audacious social engineering initiative in American history. But the way in which it has been imposed in state after state, as courts have seen fit to ignore ballot initiatives, sets the stage for a United States Supreme Court ruling on par with Roe vs. Wade. The Supreme Court has announced it will rule on same-sex marriage in this sittingexactly ten years after Canada legalized same-sex marriage. It is important for Americans to look at what has happened in Canada.
On July 20, 2005, Canada became the fourth country in the world to legalize same-sex marriage. On that day the sun rose as it always does, people went to work, daily Mass was celebrated in Catholic Churches and daily life continued to unfold as it normally does. In the days and months following there was no massive spike in the numbers of same-sex couples getting “married” (it had already been legal in 8 of 10 provinces since 2003), the speculated upon possibility of same-sex marriage tourism from the United States never really materialized and the Canadian flag was not changed from the maple leaf to the LGBT rainbow. But something very significant happened with the legalization of marriage in Canada and it wasnt about the freedom of gay people to marry, and it wasnt really about marriage.
July 20, 2005 marked a very significant step towards totalitarianism in Canada.
Free speech, the rights of parents, the right to preach and practise ones religion and the worn and tattered fibers of normative decency were all deeply damaged. With the legalization of same-sex marriage what had been aberrant only a few years earlier became entrenched as a legal right, and what had been a normal and natural view of sexuality had been reduced to the retrograde thinking of hate crime dinosaurs.
Terrence Prendergast is the Catholic archbishop of Ottawa. Speaking at St. Thomas University in Minnesota in 2012, he outlined the consequences of same-sex marriage in Canada. His list included: restrictions on freedoms, forced sex education, sexually confused children, sexual experimentation among children, muzzling and debilitating the Church, more births out of wedlock, more in-vitro fertilizations, more abortions, more poverty, more misery, more disease, more addictions and higher health care costs.
Calgary bishop Frederick Henry was called before a Human Rights Commission Tribunal in 2005 for writing a letter defining Catholic teaching on same-sex marriage. During his speech, Archbishop Prendergast quoted Bishop Frederick Henry saying: Human rights laws designed as a shield are now being used as a sword. The issue is rarely truth formation, but rather censorship, and applying a particular theology through threats, sanctions and punitive measures. Archbishop Prendergast continued: The Bible is being called hate literature. Clearly, the Church is in the crosshairs. There will be growing pressure for the Church to comply or be shut down.
Collective madness is a term usually applied to the fevered frenzy of the mob, but there is a darker, more systematic and more enduring collective madness achieved by reducing obvious truths to elephants in the room. With the legalization of same-sex marriage we had a legal edict establishing the normative nature of same-sex marriage and thereby ruling out as discriminatory essential arguments about the complementarity of male and female or the procreative purpose of marriage.
Normally, the first thing we notice about a person is their sex, and the first thing we realize when thinking about the sexes is the obvious physical complementarity of male and female, but in the new SSM regime these simple and obvious truths must be appended with a caveat saying that there is no such thing as nature, human sexuality is plastic and there is nothing essentially organic, good and true. This is hugely significant for the psycho-sexual formation of the young and for the happiness and flourishing of individuals and society as a whole, but it is also a decisive step towards the destruction of critical intelligence, the cultivation of abject dependence, and then finally madness and totalitarianism.
Doug Mainwaring works with CanaVox, a project of the Witherspoon Institute. He is a self-described gay man who is abstinent. Mainwaring describes the efforts to redefine marriage as “a form of incremental totalitarianism. According to Mainwaring gays and lesbians have been used as pawns by progressives to bring about this wedge issue that I really feel strongly is meant to usher in incremental totalitarianism.
Stockholm Syndrome was much talked about in the 1970s when the wealthy heiress Patty Hearst was abducted and held for ransom, but was then shown joining in with her captors robbing a bank and brutalizing innocent people. Before being abducted there was no indication that Hearst was psychopathic, there was no suggestion of a latent criminality, rather the villainy of Patty Hearst was caused by the psychological manipulation of her captors.
For Hearst in captivity, her autonomous personhood was denied. Whether and when she could stand, sit, lie down, eat, drink, sleep, speak or be silentcontrol over all these things were denied her. She was denied any agency, rendered helpless, obliterated as a person. Then, once a complete breakdown was achieved, small kindnesses and the restoration of order and therefore the possibility of meaning reconstituted her universe. But Hearsts new universe was created by and ordered around her captor who was now also her saviour.
The legalization of same-sex marriage is not about allowing something; same-sex marriage was already taking place. It was not about recognizing something; spousal and survivor benefits, family tax incentives and any other advantages to marriage were being or could have been granted without calling it marriage. The legalization of same-sex marriage was about prohibiting a definition of heterosexual marriage as normative. It was about the state denying the right to speak one of the most obvious truths about human nature. It was about a conspiracy to enforce collective madness, cultivate psychological dependence and achieve totalitarian control.
Of course it seemed anti-climactic to most, since we seldom see the significance of what is happening as it happens. Further, Canadians as a people pride themselves on their peace-loving agreeability to a fault. The vast majority of Canadians never utter opinions contrary to the spirit of the age, the vast majority of parents passively submit to educational professionals and popular entertainment as the primary educators of their children, a large majority of people no longer take religion seriously, and for those who did, a large majority of the clergy had long ago given up on preaching the more difficult teachings of Christianity.
The march to madness was long and over time there were more and more truths about which we could not speak. In public spaces conservatives had to live increasingly within their own minds, and for anybody, alone in your mind can be a dangerous place. In our Walter Mitty imaginations most of us had swooned in self-adulation at the thought of a glorious last stand that we would make if push ever came to shove. In our minds eye our personal Calvary would be heroic and unflinching. But the sad truth is that most of us die by the inch rather than the sword, and this we knew in our heart of hearts, and so many of us came to despise ourselves and give up. The legalization of same-sex marriage in Canada has decimated the social conservative movement.
The passage of the Civil Marriage Act was the formal registration of our collective divorce from natural law and sanity. It was a breathtaking example of political and cultural revolution. But at another level it was more than that. With the passage of the Civil Marriage Act we surrendering our right to teach our children about manhood and womanhood, husband and wife. Because the truth is, for the homosexual activists, all along its been about the children.
Virtually every homosexual is inordinately preoccupied with his own childhood. Childhood and puberty are the most dynamic periods of psycho-sexual development and all homosexuals puzzle over their sexuality. Unlike animals whose sexuality is purely instinctive, human sexuality is a combination of instinct and socialization. There are many contributors to a childs socialization; family, peers, schools, culture, but all of these are overseen by the state that has the power of laws and punishments.
The sexual revolutionaries who lobbied for the legal recognition of same-sex marriage had already achieved every legal benefit or could have easily achieved every legal benefit enjoyed by heterosexual marriage through equal legal recognition of same-sex civil unions, but that would have fallen short of the prize most coveted, the power to deny heterosexuals any claim to distinctiveness and the right to indoctrinate children accordingly.
A revolution has taken place in Canada. It was a long time coming and all of its fruits have yet to ripen but the revolution has surely happened and the term for the new regime starts with a capital T.
TOPICS: Business/Economy; Constitution/Conservatism; Culture/Society; Politics/Elections
KEYWORDS: canada; gays; glbt; godsinblackdresses; homofascsism; judicialactivism; scotus; ssm; supremecourt
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posted on
01/27/2015 9:54:09 AM PST
by
NYer
To: Tax-chick; GregB; SumProVita; narses; bboop; SevenofNine; Ronaldus Magnus; tiki; Salvation; ...
July 20, 2005 marked a very significant step towards totalitarianism in Canada. Free speech, the rights of parents, the right to preach and practise ones religion and the worn and tattered fibers of normative decency were all deeply damaged. With the legalization of same-sex marriage what had been aberrant only a few years earlier became entrenched as a legal right, and what had been a normal and natural view of sexuality had been reduced to the retrograde thinking of hate crime dinosaurs.
Catholic ping!
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posted on
01/27/2015 9:54:38 AM PST
by
NYer
(Without justice - what else is the State but a great band of robbers? - St. Augustine)
To: NYer
"keep yer stick on the ice".... I am a man.
BUT
I can change.
If I have to.
I guess.
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posted on
01/27/2015 10:00:10 AM PST
by
hosepipe
(" This propaganda has been edited (specifically) to include some fully orbed hyperbole.. ")
To: NYer
Flew in from Vancouver after the new year. There’s an ad for Tide where 2 faggots were the “couple” and airs nationally. Yeah, it’s puke worthy.
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posted on
01/27/2015 10:05:12 AM PST
by
max americana
(fired liberals in our company last election, and I laughed while they cried (true story))
To: NYer
Totalitarianism is the denial of unique and distinctive human differences.
Free societies celebrate those differences. Despots seek to forbid them.
Same Sex Marriage is an assault upon human nature and the concept of the family. Its also an attack on human freedom.
Once we legitimized it, we lost the right to live by our values and celebrate the beautiful and true in human life.
We hardly notice what has happened because after all, we tend to be live and let live people. The enemies of the West have different ideas and they’re not going to stop with taking us all down into the cultural and moral sewer.
Canada stands as a stark warning to us all.
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posted on
01/27/2015 10:11:46 AM PST
by
goldstategop
(In Memory Of A Dearly Beloved Friend Who Lives In My Heart Forever)
To: NYer
I’m so glad I was not born 20 or 30 years after the date I was actually born. This way, I won’t live long enough to really suffer the consequences of the rise of totalitarianism.
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posted on
01/27/2015 10:27:39 AM PST
by
Rich21IE
To: hosepipe
If you mix red green can it change to a form of pink, if it wants to?
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posted on
01/27/2015 10:35:43 AM PST
by
ForYourChildren
(Christian Education [ RomanRoadsMedia.com - a Classical Christian Approach to Homeschool ])
To: NYer
Same sex marriage has increased abortions and drug abuse? That’s stretching a bit far. If opponents of same sex marriage want to make a difference, they need to come up with actual facts and not try to blame everything from abortions to global warming on same sex marriage. Live and let live, they still have to get past St. Peter in the end...
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posted on
01/27/2015 10:40:52 AM PST
by
jasbd1985
To: ForYourChildren
OR..... are Canadians PINKOS?.... <- what a concept..
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posted on
01/27/2015 10:41:12 AM PST
by
hosepipe
(" This propaganda has been edited (specifically) to include some fully orbed hyperbole.. ")
To: jasbd1985
Live and let liveYou are the second poster on this thread to use that phrase. Unfortunately, the homosexuals are not a group of "live and let live" people. They insist that not only must we recognize their relationships, we must approve. Not only approve; but, celebrate who they are and what they do.
If they were willing to "live and let live"; then, the baker who refused to bake a cake celebrating "gay marriage", and who offered names of other bakers who would be willing to bake the cake; that baker would not be involved in a lawsuit at this moment. Tolerance is a one-way street for these bullies.
To: LibertarianLiz
The banal evil of same sex marriage is when a single mother gives up a baby for adoption to a two parent family so the kid has a mother and father and it goes to one with two mothers.
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posted on
01/27/2015 12:05:01 PM PST
by
tbw2
To: jasbd1985
“Live and let live.” Like the former Mozilla exec who lost his job over the “crime” of donating to a referendum supporting traditional marriage.
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posted on
01/27/2015 12:08:33 PM PST
by
FredZarguna
(O, Reason not the need.)
To: NYer
The legalization of same-sex marriage was about prohibiting a definition of heterosexual marriage as normative. It was about the state denying the right to speak one of the most obvious truths about human nature. It was about a conspiracy to enforce collective madness, cultivate psychological dependence and achieve totalitarian control. [W]e seldom see the significance of what is happening as it happens... Canadians as a people pride themselves on their peace-loving agreeability to a fault. The vast majority of Canadians never utter opinions contrary to the spirit of the age, ...passively submit to educational professionals and popular entertainment as the primary educators of their children, ...no longer take religion seriously, and... a large majority of the clergy had long ago given up on preaching the more difficult teachings of Christianity.
The march to madness was long and over time there were more and more truths about which we could not speak. In public spaces conservatives had to live increasingly within their own minds, and for anybody, alone in your mind can be a dangerous place. In our Walter Mitty imaginations most of us had ...thought of a glorious last stand that we would make if push ever came to shove.... our personal Calvary would be heroic and unflinching. But the sad truth is that most of us die by the inch rather than the sword, and this we knew in our heart of hearts, and so many of us came to despise ourselves and give up. The legalization of same-sex marriage in Canada has decimated the social conservative movement.
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posted on
01/27/2015 12:24:51 PM PST
by
Albion Wilde
(It is better to offend a human being than to offend God.)
To: jasbd1985
Same sex marriage has increased abortions and drug abuse? Thats stretching a bit far.
Truly, that passage was not well explained. It's a complicated issue; let me try to round up a few ideas:
1) After same-sex marriage was legalized in the Netherlands, the rate of heterosexual marriage declined markedly. Marriage and particularly natural parenthood had been "officially" redefined, devalued, and desexualized.
2) The pernicious sweep of "no-fault" divorce from the 70s-80s onward "officially" removed moral considerations from marriage and parenthood. This legal fad more than perhaps any other has contributed to the gay lobby's belief that marriage is a "right" without the conventional restrictions that gays do not practice to the same extent that heterosexuals do, such as the expectation of faithfulness to the one person to whom one is married.
3) When divorce between the biological parents of children became more commonplace, accompanied by a rise in petitions for government to allow adoptions by single persons and eventually by gay and lesbian persons, an industry sprang up to "help" all these persons become divorced from biology attorneys, counselors, divorce accountants, therapists, educational consultants, authors many leftists seized these opportunities and, like the Global Warmists, do not want to lose their lucrative hustles.
4) The divorce industry creates "winners" and "losers" in inverse or in perverse relationship to the care of children. If one parent gave up working to care for the children in marriage, the other parent is seen as more financially capable of caring for the children at divorce. If one parent tried to impart traditional marital values such as fidelity or religious observance within the marriage, that parent would run the risk of losing custody at divorce, being characterized as "bigoted", "hateful" or "discriminatory."
5) Awards of child support for anyone but the very wealthy are typicallly substantially less than half of the actual cost of raising the child; yet, with the cost of now running two households, they are onerous also to the one paying the support a lose-lose proposition frightening many from the prospect of marrying at all, or bringing a child into the world if pregnant.
When marriage is legally divorced from the onset of sexual activity and from morality itself, and when marriage and childbearing are legally divorced from fidelity, economic support for caretaking of children and from permanence, society experiences a lowering of expectations and morale, and even a desperation at the perceived lack of opportunity to live in a loving family with children. It is no surprise that substance abuse would accompany these conditions, as it did in the Soviet Union after their abolition of religion; however, I agree with you that the cause-and-effect cannot be perfectly laid at the door of the onset of gay marriage legalization alone.
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posted on
01/27/2015 12:59:57 PM PST
by
Albion Wilde
(It is better to offend a human being than to offend God.)
To: NYer
The Buggernaut strikes again.
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posted on
01/27/2015 1:14:14 PM PST
by
RichInOC
("Stupidity is also a gift from God, but one mustn't misuse it."--Pope St. John Paul II)
To: Albion Wilde
When marriage is legally divorced from the onset of sexual activity and from morality itself, and when marriage and childbearing are legally divorced from fidelity, economic support for caretaking of children and from permanence, society experiences a lowering of expectations and morale, and even a desperation at the perceived lack of opportunity to live in a loving family with children. Legalizing ssm has opened the doors to other forms of deviant unions. It should come as no surprise as it drags us back to a pagan lifestyle. In case you missed it,
Teen plans to marry father, have children
It's all about love!
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posted on
01/27/2015 2:49:56 PM PST
by
NYer
(Without justice - what else is the State but a great band of robbers? - St. Augustine)
To: NYer
Yeah, saw that. Revolting.
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posted on
01/27/2015 3:01:29 PM PST
by
Albion Wilde
(It is better to offend a human being than to offend God.)
To: Albion Wilde
It also breaks down the influence of Christian or conservative parents on their children. The kids are more skeptical of their parents since their conservative or Christian parents hold “illegal” attitudes that have been outlawed by society and not tolerated in their schools. They start to see their parent as being “haters”. I work with church kids and have seen this happen in CA.
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posted on
01/27/2015 4:51:18 PM PST
by
DeweyCA
To: jasbd1985
Homosexual “marriage” is about pure Marxism and the elimination of Truth and Natural Laws and Christian Ethics from the public square and the minds of the future. (Marxism—destroy all Traditions and Wisdom of the Ages for their irrational “utopia” of total slavery)..
Reason (modern science) was only possible with a Christian Worldview-—recognization of Natural Law——all homosexuality is perversion in nature—denial of Laws of Nature and nature’s God (Designer)....it is the removal of Common Sense and identity in human beings and all moral religions——making Lies into truth (which is irrational emotions only).
This removal of Reason and Truth and Faith is Marxism and Fascism-—imposing a worldview on children using indoctrination forcing irrational, identity denial-—removing that essential human characteristic (truth) Male or Female for biological lies.
Marxists have to destroy identity in children-—create an artificial, unnatural world so children are so dumb and ignorant of Laws of Nature they believe “Snow is Black” (Fichte 1810) and Vice is Virtue to collapse civil society for irrational tribal mindsets (serfdom/slavery)-—they can’t understand Natural Laws (which created the Age of Reason and US Constitution and OUR legal system).
For total slavery, Marxists have to destroy the Constitution. Taking Truth and Reason out of our “Justice” (virtue) System, (which homosexual anything does) destroys Rule of Law. It is fascist Rule of Man.
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posted on
01/27/2015 6:03:30 PM PST
by
savagesusie
(Right Reason According to Nature = Just Law)
To: DeweyCA
kids are more skeptical of their parents since their conservative or Christian parents hold illegal attitudes that have been outlawed by society and not tolerated in their schools. They start to see their parent as being haters. I agree. The "self-esteem" movement in schools is another tenet of Marxism aimed at eliminating parental authority, religion and respect for traditional values.
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posted on
01/27/2015 6:14:28 PM PST
by
Albion Wilde
(It is better to offend a human being than to offend God.)
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