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The Quivering Upper Lip - The British character: from self-restraint to self-indulgence
City Journal ^ | Autumn 2008 | Theodore Dalyrmple

Posted on 10/15/2011 10:04:59 PM PDT by Cronos

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To: ransomnote

Yes, Spielberg’s made a movie out of it. But he’s already complaining that real horses do not have the same intelligence as puppets (War Horse the play uses gigantic puppets). Duh!


21 posted on 10/15/2011 10:58:26 PM PDT by miss marmelstein (Let's have a Cain Mutiny!)
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To: miss marmelstein

From what I have observed as I have been in England from time to time over the past fifty years, what he says is true. Yes, there was always the likes of White Chapel, and to see how England actually was while Edward was kind, but read the life of Charlie Chaplain or Keir Dulie, the socialist. But in general. Halevy had to right. Evangelicalism worked a revolution in English manners and mores, and Prince Albert was an examplar of it.


22 posted on 10/15/2011 11:13:59 PM PDT by RobbyS (Pray with the suffering souls.)
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To: Cronos

At this rate, how long before not molesting your kids is seen as abnormal?


23 posted on 10/15/2011 11:27:50 PM PDT by GeronL (The Right to Life came before the Right to Happiness)
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To: miss marmelstein

No drinking at Hogwarts School unless it is a magic potion... but isn’t that almost always the case with teens and alcohol. A magic potion.


24 posted on 10/15/2011 11:29:12 PM PDT by Blind Eye Jones
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To: Cronos
The same is happening here, and to my mind for the same reasons -- one of which is: From Dr. Spock and his acolytes on, health care and teaching 'professionals' tell us mere parents that chastisement, punishment, and shame is damaging to the child's self esteem. Take a look at the mobs in the OWS crews and tell me when any of them ever felt shame.

Thanks for the thread. Theodore Dalyrmple is a good essayist.

25 posted on 10/15/2011 11:37:30 PM PDT by brityank (The more I learn about the Constitution, the more I realise this Government is UNconstitutional !!)
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To: ransomnote

I’ve actually found the Brits to be quite polite. Maybe not so much in London, but they sure were in Birmingham.


26 posted on 10/15/2011 11:45:13 PM PDT by boop ("Let's just say they'll be satisfied with LESS"... Ming the Merciless)
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To: Lazlo in PA

If she needs to sleep it off, I have room.


27 posted on 10/16/2011 12:23:30 AM PDT by tdscpa
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To: boop

Worked with some Brits a few years ago in Dallas. Wonderful people, I thanked them for supporting us in Iraq. On the last day they were done early and wanted to go on a road trip to see “real Texas”. They wanted to drive to El Paso for the afternoon.

I mentioned that El Paso was 700 miles away. They could leave now and, God willing, get there tomorrow. They struggled to understand the distance between places in Texas, then decided the Alamo was more their cup of tea: only 320 miles.

We drove down to San Antonio at a high rate of speed. We were stopped by a small town police officer in BFE after we rolled through an off-ramp stop sign. I told them “Do NOT try to bribe the police officer”, since Texas peace officers would likely take offense if you thiought they were for sale. Nevertheless, the british instructions were to bribe all provincials. With some effort I got them to keep their wallets in their pants. At one point my British guest began arguing with the officer. I said “Walter, this man is just doing his job.”

The police officer, looked at me for a second, then took me aside and said “Son, I appreciate what you said. You do not seem impaired. You drive. Keep the Limeys quiet. Have a safe trip.”

Thank God for the Texas Rangers.


28 posted on 10/16/2011 1:03:57 AM PDT by LifePath
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To: RobbyS

You’re right about Halevy being right, which means Dalrymple’s chronology is off. The changes began happening in the late 18th c.—Wilberforce’s campaign against slavery, the prison reform movement, founding of missionary societies, etc.

It’s interesting that an earlier poster said his wife told him that reading Jane Austen made him more polite but less sincere. Yeats’ brother told him the same thing, after he’d read Castiglione’s The Courtier. Which suggests the stiff upper lip values go back to the Renaissance, which means they come from Cicero and Stoicism.
The English managed to meld this aristocratic, non-Christian outlook w/ Evangelical/Methodist piety and reforming zeal. That’s quite an achievement.

As in his take on the London riots, Dalrymple manages to ignores the effect of mass immigration—tho’ the corruption of English manners and morals is probably as much a cause as well as a consequence of the invasion.


29 posted on 10/16/2011 2:36:23 AM PDT by varialectio
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To: Cronos

Are they taking craps on police cars in the old country too?


30 posted on 10/16/2011 2:47:52 AM PDT by advance_copy (Stand for life or nothing at all)
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To: LifePath

British people reaching for their wallet first. Now that’s a story I’m going to remember!


31 posted on 10/16/2011 4:56:44 AM PDT by miss marmelstein (Let's have a Cain Mutiny!)
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To: ransomnote

I’ve been reading the Brit newspapers on line from the beginning. They have slowly turned over all their news to stories on America. You sometimes have to hit “British news” to get British news from their online editions. The hard copies are quite different.

If you read the comments section, they generally say that it is because of all the Americans coming to them from Drudge. Some - rightfully, I think - resent the fact that their newspapers are more about us than them.


32 posted on 10/16/2011 5:04:17 AM PDT by miss marmelstein (Let's have a Cain Mutiny!)
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To: miss marmelstein

Why are we surprised at the decline and fall of Brit morals? We have witnessed the near-total secularization of English society, the vanishing of church attendance, and the suffocating political correctness of the flaccid Anglican church.

Victorian England, which had standards of decency, is mocked by the intellectual elite. The nation has come a long way from the Ten Commandments of the Bible (which condemns yob drunkenness and chick sluttiness).

Meanwhile “puritan” America, thanks to liberals and stupid conservatives acting as liberals, is not far behind.


33 posted on 10/16/2011 5:40:28 AM PDT by heye2monn
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To: Cronos
William IV, "Sailor Bill," was ridiculed by the Regency elite for being a domesticated bore. I always liked him. (His older brother, George IV, was the beau ideal run amok.)

I thought this was the most telling line: It was instead an existential, almost religious, modesty, an awareness that he was far from being all-important.

There are people who know they are not the center of the universe, and there are people who think they are. The latter are awful to be around, and absolutely catastrophic in large groups.

34 posted on 10/16/2011 5:41:03 AM PDT by Tax-chick (You could be a monthly donor, too. It's easy!)
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To: heye2monn

I know very little about what you are saying. All I know is that I’ve been going to London for about 40 years now (usually 2 times a year) and this lager loutishness is nothing new. They simply like to drink themselves out of their skulls.


35 posted on 10/16/2011 5:57:06 AM PDT by miss marmelstein (Let's have a Cain Mutiny!)
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To: Tax-chick

I love your phrase: beau ideal run amok. So funny!


36 posted on 10/16/2011 5:58:07 AM PDT by miss marmelstein (Let's have a Cain Mutiny!)
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To: miss marmelstein
I love your phrase ...

Considering the source, a high compliment!

George IV reminds me of Bill Clinton, with a bit more class but worse medical care.

37 posted on 10/16/2011 6:06:30 AM PDT by Tax-chick (You could be a monthly donor, too. It's easy!)
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To: Cronos

Thanks for posting, Chronos. I hadn’t seen this and I do try to read everything by “Dalrymple” (real name: Anthony Daniels) that I can find.

All my DNA is British and I grew up in America thinking “Upstairs, Downstairs.” When I went to live there for a couple of years I found, to my dismay, that “Clockwork Orange” (or even worse) was the norm.

One point that Dalrymple-Daniels fails to note is that in addition to the yob culture that has taken hold, immigration has also changed Britain. As John Cleese (Basil Fawlty) recently pointed out, London is no longer an English city.

A few years ago I got off a wrong “tube” stop in London and I thought I was in Nairobi - not a single person in view whose DNA was remotely connected with the British isles.


38 posted on 10/16/2011 6:25:50 AM PDT by Malesherbes (- Sauve qui peut)
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To: miss marmelstein

Yes, the British are polite.

You of all people know Britain is just not England or London. The Scots, Welsh and Northern Irish are well known for their friendliness. And English friendliness grows the further north you go.

Please try going north of Watford. You might be surprised.


39 posted on 10/16/2011 6:55:10 AM PDT by the scotsman (I)
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To: Tax-chick

Well, poor George was also saddled with an awful wife, wasn’t he?

Didn’t he have to have a shot of whiskey when he first saw the wretched Caroline of Brunswick? These are the stories that keep me coming back to the history of Great Britain. So human, so strange.

Have you ever seen the Royal Pavillion?


40 posted on 10/16/2011 6:55:58 AM PDT by miss marmelstein (Let's have a Cain Mutiny!)
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