While he was having sex with other men, he was exposing her to all those lovely diseases.
How kind.
That should have been a hint.
If the roles were reversed, she'd be thrown in jail.
“However, I’d met Aaron at 26 after having had only two non-serious lovers. A counselor told me that my lack of prior sexual experience left me with no baseline with which to make a comparison. A more experienced woman may have found Aaron’s lack of desire suspicious.”
Oh, I see, the solution here would have been more fornication.
LOL!
Well, homosexuality is a sexual preference.
Someone gets curious.
Someone starts to believe that curiosity is really “them”.
Someone fulfills the curiosity.
Someone believes that this is now their genetically designated “lifestyle”.
WHY DOES THIS HAPPEN?
The guy was looking at gay porn and probably saying, “Why is this turning me on?” Instead of surmising, “Well, maybe because I’m looking at f***ed up porn,” his answer was “I’M GAY!”
Not me. I have no sympathy for boon belt wearers peddling a book.
She was shacking up with some guy for a decade. There was no betrayal involved because there was no commitment in the first place.
I kinda sympathize with the author.
My good (or so I thought) Mormon Returned Missionary fiancee decided that he was gay 6 weeks before the temple wedding after meeting my father (also gay) and his boyfriend.
It was devastating, being lied to, being used that way, (disease wasn’t an issue because we were not having sex) but I still felt violated.
I joke that I joined the most conservative ‘church’ I could find, moved 1000 miles and found some one just like dear old dad.
sad thing was, he didn’t tell his parents for years afterward because his mother kept calling me and my mother and asking me to come back to Utah and marry him. Apparently all he said was that *I* broke up with him, he didn’t say why.
And growing up in Palm Springs (high gay pop) your assessment of them is dead on.
This idiot is probably the only person to have a life-changing moment from that show.
The woman who married him loved his “metrosexual” manners. “Metros” are just a half-step from being gay, anyway.
She is an unfortunate lady who didn’t appear to marry a godly enough man. What is that household doing watching the tear-inducing, soul-nourishing show, “Sex in the City,” anyway?
Ironically, the very next post on News/Activism after this one is about a 65 year old gay man who has just been murdered by a young model in his 20s, I think in NY.
Placemark for pingout.
Here is a link to another FR story about a horrible gay murder in New York City.
http://www.freerepublic.com/focus/f-news/2653659/posts
She did waste 10 years on him. She has to find out why she wanted to drag it out so long. His less than total availability served her in some way. But then, the whole shack up scene was wrong.
My guess is that she has poor boundaries, and she'd find a healthy male threatening. I wonder what the new guy is like, and if he's really into her, or is he passive in some way.
I saw a show once, maybe Oprah, where the homosexual ex husband came on with his ex wife. They had been married and had kids, and one day he told her he couldn't live a lie, etc. They were “friends,” though it looked like the wife's heart was still ripped out, and as he told his part of the story, the audience was all “Oh, the poor gay; of course he can't live a lie!” IOW, like the expression on The Bachelor, he had to “follow his heart.”
Every person in the studio was emotionally enabling that f’n b@st@rd, as the ex wife did her best to be loving, and unconditionally accepting, which seemed more reminiscent of a mother's ways. She was doing her best in a bad situation, but I hope she learned a lot since then.
Homosexuals do what they feel like and leave a lot of human wreckage, but they want it to be okay with everyone.
She never says if she’s straight. The fact that she wouldn’t marry the guy for 10 years makes me think that there’s also a bit of a Lezbo side to her.
From the post: “As an episode of “Sex and the City” droned in the background” - this tells me all I need to know about her and him!
Mel
Couldn’t she ‘smell’ the other guy. Yuckkkk!!!!
There is no problem. She will get AIDS and then die. Her problems are over, she just doesn’t realize it yet
I guess I don’t understand how one could not tell? IMHO these women must have to over look a lot of obivous signs to be fooled this badly. Perhpas the desire to be married cancels out their abiity to think straight?
A couple of years ago in Florida, we met a vacationing British woman (65 yrs), her daughter and grandson who were on a trip to get over the elder woman’s husband of many year having recently told her he was gay and divorcing her to go live with his boyfriend.
Well, you see, about Grandpa . . .