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How did the '60's kids end up so messed up?
2/13/09 | sldghmr300

Posted on 02/13/2009 11:00:52 AM PST by sldghmr300

Why did the 60's Generation get it so wrong in so many areas of life?


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Growing up in the 50's brought a definitely skewed vision of life for the kids who's futures were molded at the hands of their parents generation (the Greatest Generation) and the world events that shaped the actions/reactions of the institutions touching each and every child. The move from a local/state/US-centric view of life to a new world view and the growth of an entire generation of young people dominated by a generation of very conservative parents and grandparents (who grew up during the depression) created a generation of rebels, as most children reject the teaching of their parents, that went too far in that rebellion. How did it happen? Since I am not a child psychiatrist/psychologist, I can't offer guarantees of accuracy, but see if you don't ask the same questions I did when I reviewed these observations. When we were kids, during the school day, once a month or more, we had nuclear drills. Where I went, we had to, on command from a loud siren, stop, drop, get under our wood and metal desks, on our knees in a weird type of fetal position and cover the back of our heads with our hands so the radiation from the atom bomb would not burn through our hands and damage our brains. The Russians put nukes 90 miles from our shores, satellites above us and missiles in submarines. Well, I wonder where those children's phobias found an outlet. Perhaps the peace movement/nuclear freeze movement... We had bomb shelters around town and had to know where it was, how to get there, and what was there to eat and drink and how many beds. If our parents weren't in the military, most of our neighbors were or had been. The other neighbors were the older, childless couples who lived through the depression. Both groups were VERY strict on the one hand and like every parent, wanted their children to have more than they did. Our parents gave us latitude, but demanded strict adherence to rules. We could leave the house in the summer time, no watch, no phones, no cell phones, no parents, play all day without our parents able to see or hear us and make it home by 6 for dinner. Everyone of those neighbors watched out for us and when we stepped out of line, we caught hell (corporal punishment) from the neighbors and no one thought twice about it. What mental trauma over the years was wrought from the discipline of the parents and the neighbors? Perhaps, a generation of nor rules, liberal philosophy and personal self interest? I'd say that generation developed neurosis and fear that fed a lifetime of undiscipline, selfishness and a severe lack of responsiblity.
1 posted on 02/13/2009 11:00:53 AM PST by sldghmr300
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To: sldghmr300

An old-timer here at work is convinced that the Beatles ‘started all this sh**’.


2 posted on 02/13/2009 11:01:59 AM PST by lesko
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To: sldghmr300

Paragraphs are your friend. The 60s caused damage that has never been fully repaired.


3 posted on 02/13/2009 11:04:03 AM PST by darkangel82 (I don't have a superiority complex, I'm just better than you.)
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To: lesko

Dr. Spock played his role.


4 posted on 02/13/2009 11:04:15 AM PST by IGOTMINE (1911s FOREVER!)
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To: lesko

They never really had to work or watch their parents have to work hard just to make ends meet like their parents did.


5 posted on 02/13/2009 11:04:33 AM PST by txnativegop (God Bless America! (NRA-Endowment) What do U do with unreasonable people?)
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To: lesko

*sigh* sad to say the boomers were handed the world on a silver platter and when we look around today we see the smoldering remnants of what the greatest generation and their parents (the depression era folks) worked so hard to build.


6 posted on 02/13/2009 11:05:03 AM PST by Troll_House_Cookies (Ironically, Chancellor Obama's first re-education camp will be in Alaska.)
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To: lesko

All you need is love...


7 posted on 02/13/2009 11:05:17 AM PST by WVKayaker ("There are no facts, only interpretations." -Nietze)
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To: lesko

I find it had to believe myself that the “Greatest Generation” spawned some of the biggest, whiniest, loser, cowards on the face of the earth. Was it the Beatles? Who know? They were even corrupted by Bob Dylan.


8 posted on 02/13/2009 11:05:20 AM PST by LottieDah (If only those who speak so eloquently on the rights of animals would do so on behalf the unborn)
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To: darkangel82

The damage of the sixties was started long before the sixties. It just came to a head because the damagers had taken over the schools and the media the decade before.


9 posted on 02/13/2009 11:05:37 AM PST by 1010RD (First Do No Harm)
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To: sldghmr300

The much heralded “greatest generation” wasn’t so good at raising kids?


10 posted on 02/13/2009 11:05:47 AM PST by durasell
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To: lesko

That’s as good a theory as any.

I, personally, have decided to blame Elvis.


11 posted on 02/13/2009 11:05:53 AM PST by WayneS (Respect the 2nd Amendment; Repeal the 16th)
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To: IGOTMINE

We may have a WINNER!!!!


12 posted on 02/13/2009 11:06:17 AM PST by WayneS (Respect the 2nd Amendment; Repeal the 16th)
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To: sldghmr300

The 60s kids smoked all the paragraph marks? None left?


13 posted on 02/13/2009 11:06:26 AM PST by Doctor Raoul (Somewhere In Kenya, A Village Is Missing It's Idiot)
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To: sldghmr300

Discernment is called for - now more than ever. Read the signs.


14 posted on 02/13/2009 11:06:41 AM PST by anniegetyourgun
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To: durasell

That is an interesting observation.


15 posted on 02/13/2009 11:07:08 AM PST by WayneS (Respect the 2nd Amendment; Repeal the 16th)
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To: sldghmr300

They became convinced they could remain children forever.

As they got older, they refused to admit that is just a dream ALL children have, and that ALL children in the past have arrived at the doorway to maturity, and going through that doorway is as important to one’s emotional maturity as emerging from the womb is for the whole person.

They held on to their childish things—the things they read, and watched and listened to were not given up for deeper things, tougher things. When challenges appeared, they saw them as obstacles to be avoided...and so they did avoid them, and did not gain the insight and knowledge that leads to wisdom.

Instead they thought “We can just keep refusing to grow up, and the world will have to just deal with that.”

They were wrong.


16 posted on 02/13/2009 11:07:11 AM PST by Darkwolf377 (Pro-Life Capitalist American Atheist and Free-Speech Junkie)
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To: sldghmr300
In the '60's At US universities, "The Classics" from ancient Greece, Rome etc. were replaced with Nietze, Freud, and Leary.

Oh yeah... there were alot of drugs used by them too.

17 posted on 02/13/2009 11:08:05 AM PST by JPJones
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To: Doctor Raoul

Hey, man, wanna buy a 1/4 “O” of Carriage Returns? Cheap?


18 posted on 02/13/2009 11:08:13 AM PST by WayneS (Respect the 2nd Amendment; Repeal the 16th)
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To: sldghmr300

Robert Kline’s, 70’s recording ‘Child of the 50’s’ album is pretty good at describing life during that decade. I remember the air raid drills and hiding under the desk until the all clear signal was given. What a blast./p>


19 posted on 02/13/2009 11:08:21 AM PST by duckman (Jesus I trust in You. Mary take over)
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To: txnativegop

Everything was too easy.


20 posted on 02/13/2009 11:08:28 AM PST by Dr. Bogus Pachysandra ( Ya can't pick up a turd by the clean end!)
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To: Darkwolf377

Or maybe they just took the brown acid when they shouldn’t have. Stupid is as stupid does.


21 posted on 02/13/2009 11:09:02 AM PST by darkangel82 (I don't have a superiority complex, I'm just better than you.)
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To: Dr. Bogus Pachysandra

Now we’re paying for it too . . .


22 posted on 02/13/2009 11:09:23 AM PST by txnativegop (God Bless America! (NRA-Endowment) What do U do with unreasonable people?)
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To: LottieDah

Any generation that would arrogate to itself the title Greatest Generation is dealing with some serious emotional issues. Brokaw was either pandering or simply wrong to name them that.

Every generation has its greatness. The “Greatest” gave us FDR, massive deficits, payroll taxes, loss of natural rights and an alphabet soup of government agencies we’ve never escaped. They also did many wonderful things. Greatness is not limited to a generation.

I teach youth ages 14-18 and there are many great among them. Clearly, the Founding Fathers were great as well.


23 posted on 02/13/2009 11:09:35 AM PST by 1010RD (First Do No Harm)
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To: lesko

The 60’s generation was screwed up by the commies of the 40’s generation, who were screwed up by the 20’s commies, who were screwed up by studying 19th century German intellectualism.


24 posted on 02/13/2009 11:09:38 AM PST by Retired Greyhound
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To: lesko
IMO, it was an unhappy confluence between:

1. Our inherent human narcissism,

2. A tendency for parents and elders to feed that narcissim, and

3. A society with enough wealth and leisure time for the consequences of such narcissism to be hidden.

I think the second item -- permissiveness by parents and elders -- has its roots in the serial traumatic experiences of the Depression, and the subsequent World War.

25 posted on 02/13/2009 11:09:39 AM PST by r9etb
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To: sldghmr300

I think they were indulged, patronized, and humored too much by their parents, the members of the so-called ‘Greatest Generation.’

I have no affection for the ‘Greatest Generation,’ either. They are a selfish breed, also, most notably with their benefits. They have their legs wrapped around every government handout that comes their way, and hump it with glee and passion.

Pity the fool that dares tell them ‘no!’


26 posted on 02/13/2009 11:09:55 AM PST by Ted Grant
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To: lesko

better listen up to that oldtimer—ya might just get the straight scoop—yeah the beatles, rock-n-roll, drugs, by then the public schools indoctrination was showing fruits of it doings; still later, not that much later, more of the same and more offspring from hippies and dopers; and with hollyweird and the controlled media in full swing...get the picture....or maybe not—some (maybe even most) are too close to it!


27 posted on 02/13/2009 11:10:21 AM PST by gunnyg
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To: WVKayaker

Of course I will be called paranoid and seeing commies under our beds fluoridating our water, but how do I thing we got here? ;
http://www.uhuh.com/nwo/communism/comgoals.htm


28 posted on 02/13/2009 11:10:22 AM PST by Wildbill22
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To: JPJones

see comment #24. You and I had basically the same opinion.


29 posted on 02/13/2009 11:11:03 AM PST by Retired Greyhound
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To: sldghmr300

First generation raised entirely on television.


30 posted on 02/13/2009 11:11:06 AM PST by rhombus
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To: sldghmr300

Not all us 60’s kids are to blame.


31 posted on 02/13/2009 11:11:21 AM PST by sticker
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To: sldghmr300
I'm a leading edge boomer. I know exactly what happened.

Drugs

The Pill

Viet Nam as a focal point for generational conflict

An orchestrated loosening of morality in media (TV, film, music, print).

The post-war diaspora out of compacted religious/ethnic neighborhoods that supported a conformity of ethic to a multi-ethnic, multi-religious suburban sprawl where every boundary was stretched to the break-point.

32 posted on 02/13/2009 11:11:23 AM PST by wtc911 ("How you gonna get back down that hill?")
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To: Wildbill22
Of course I will be called paranoid and seeing commies under our beds fluoridating our water, but how do I thing we got here?

You and me both, Mandrake...

33 posted on 02/13/2009 11:11:54 AM PST by Tijeras_Slim
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To: sldghmr300
The currents of moral libertarianism were in well in place in the 1920s. The Depression and WWII simply slowed down the train. The war generation forgot to teach their children the hard lessons of life and decided to indulge their every whim (thanks Dr. Spock). The intellectual and cultural elites had long been alienated from American traditional values. Starting the the 1950s these elites combined with the crypto-Marxists of the Frankfort school to create the philosophical justification for the antinomianism that characterized many of the Boomer generation.
34 posted on 02/13/2009 11:11:54 AM PST by ZeitgeistSurfer (In which direction do I bow down to praise the One?)
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To: durasell

I suppose they thought the example they set through their service would serve as inspiration enough for their kids, and that they would naturally follow.

Or maybe they were so worn out by WW2 that they just weren’t up for it.


35 posted on 02/13/2009 11:12:10 AM PST by VanDeKoik (Just another day for you and me in Obama paradise...)
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To: lesko

He’s right!!!!!!!!!!!!


36 posted on 02/13/2009 11:12:14 AM PST by rocksblues (Sarah and Joe, Real Americans!)
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To: lesko
An old-timer here at work is convinced that the Beatles ‘started all this sh**’.

Elvis started it with all that rock and roll stuff. Marlon Brando too. Also James Dean. Looks like it started in the '50's and came to a head in the '60's.

As a baby boomer from the tail end I hope to be the last baby boomer alive so I can feel what it's like to live in a boomer-free world.
37 posted on 02/13/2009 11:12:25 AM PST by weef
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To: sldghmr300
They couldn't live up to what their WWII parents did so they set out to prove them wrong.

Say what you will about our young generation now but they're joining the military out of high school knowing they'll be thrown into a very tough war.

Maybe our current young generation is determined to prove the 60’s generation wrong? I hope so.

38 posted on 02/13/2009 11:12:37 AM PST by ryan71 (TERM LIMITS!!!!)
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To: Darkwolf377

You are right. Peter Pan syndrome rules now. You cannot look anywhere in music, television, or movies and find mature men or women.

The dads are dolts and the moms are Marge Simpsons. Women have it the worst. They are sexualized in the extreme, they have to earn money, Dutch treat for dates, and put up with the boorish behavior of the modern ape-like male.


39 posted on 02/13/2009 11:13:15 AM PST by 1010RD (First Do No Harm)
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To: sldghmr300; IGOTMINE

It wasn’t us. We learned it from the preceding generation, and most of us learned it in public school. I grew up in NYC in the 1950s and 60s, and I was subjected to a full-scale leftist indoctrination by public school teachers, some of whom had even been in the war and had gone through school on their GI Bill when they came back.

This stuff goes way further back than the 1960s, and it probably would have flowered with the “Greatest Generation” had it not been for WWII. As it was, leftist theory - ranging from government control of the economy to free sex with anything and everything - took over the educational system.

I remember that anyone who didn’t agree with this was mocked and treated as a pariah - by the teachers, who were at a minimum, 15 years older than we were. In other words, 15 years being a generation, part of the “Greatest Generation.”

They’re doing just fine. We, their children, paid for their Social Security and we will be lucky if we collect anything. The first Baby Boomer (born 1946) will begin to collect full Social Security in 2012 (because they’ve upped the age for full SS), and succeeding years won’t be able to collect until even later.

So don’t blame the Baby Boom generation. We did what we were told to do.


40 posted on 02/13/2009 11:13:44 AM PST by livius
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To: Retired Greyhound
Great minds....

The sad thing is these boomers as a whole actually consider themselves "smart" .."well educated"..etc.

When the opposite is more closer to the truth.

41 posted on 02/13/2009 11:13:50 AM PST by JPJones
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To: lesko
from another old-timer - listen to the music of any particular era and you get a flavor of just what is going on at that time - the prevailing culture. The old-timer at work has a valid point.

A music appreciation class many years ago made the point I stated above. One of the periods of time studied was the days of slavery and afterwords in the US. The music of the slaves spoke of hard word but not of cruelty. I don't know how valid the teaching was, but found the concept very interesting.

42 posted on 02/13/2009 11:14:03 AM PST by elpadre (nation)
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To: sldghmr300

The Great War (WWI) started the modern cycle of ennui and depravity. Although the seeds were sown before the war. I blame ragtime and The Wizard of Oz.


43 posted on 02/13/2009 11:14:28 AM PST by Rinnwald (Vigilance, not paranoia)
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To: livius
So don’t blame the Baby Boom generation. We did what we were told to do.

Typical.

44 posted on 02/13/2009 11:14:39 AM PST by JPJones
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To: txnativegop; sldghmr300
"They never really had to work or watch their parents have to work hard just to make ends meet like their parents did."

I am a product of the 60's. My parents toiled very hard and they climbed the social/economic ladder right there in front of us kids and we grew into hard-working individuals that have raised kids who are hard-working members of society.

I have many friends who are products of the 60's that have worked their way into very productive, upper-middle class members of society.

Like much of everything else in life, it depends on the character of your family and the part of the country from which you came. Lumping everyone from the 60's into a group of ne'er-do-wells is not very accurate and doesn't show a great deal of thought, IMHO.

45 posted on 02/13/2009 11:15:01 AM PST by JustaDumbBlonde (America: Home of the Free Because of the Brave)
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To: ryan71

“Say what you will about our young generation now but they’re joining the military out of high school knowing they’ll be thrown into a very tough war.”
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possibly they think it’s all just an extension of their experience and orientation with video war games/pc games—and with multi-thousand $$$$$ bonuses, boot camp w/no cussing, etc. must sound like business as usual to them.


46 posted on 02/13/2009 11:15:29 AM PST by gunnyg
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To: darkangel82

Paragraphs are my friend, but sometimes the computer is not. LOL


47 posted on 02/13/2009 11:15:58 AM PST by sldghmr300 (Values...)
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To: sldghmr300

It’s Friday the 13th. I don’t believe in superstition, since it is bad luck. But, apparently it is the day the return key no longer works.
Also, the fear came before the music of the 60’s, the music was the echo of the fear. Like “Eve of Destruction”, maybe.
Elvis was a creation of other peoples demons...


48 posted on 02/13/2009 11:15:58 AM PST by sldghmr300 (Values...)
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To: sldghmr300

lol


49 posted on 02/13/2009 11:16:23 AM PST by darkangel82 (I don't have a superiority complex, I'm just better than you.)
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To: durasell; WayneS

We saw our parents living their lives according to strict social rules (which most didn’t even question, much less dare to challenge) and they ended up bored at best and often quite miserable. Didn’t inspire us to live our lives by the same rules. The pendulum certainly did swing too far, but it urgently needed to swing.


50 posted on 02/13/2009 11:16:35 AM PST by GovernmentShrinker
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