I work with a guy who got back together with his ex. He has CS taken out of his check every week. They want to stop it but she would have to take him back to court. It would cost them over a hundred dollars to have him served with papers so they could set up a court date to get the judge to stop the money from being taken out of his check.
Society is going to wake up some day and realize how badly the non-custodial parents are treated in this nation. Here’s to hoping it doesn’t take too many more decades.
I think if they did a little research, they could do this on their own with a few fees to have the affadavit of service notarized. You do not have to pay for official service if the other party is willing to be served.
It was that way for my folks. When they divorced we first lived with my mom and my dad had child support taken out through Friend of the Court. I moved back in with my dad, then so did my brother but instead of going through all the hassle of changing things, when the check came to my mom she signed it back over to my dad. They (FOTC) make life far harder than it needs to be.