It was that way for my folks. When they divorced we first lived with my mom and my dad had child support taken out through Friend of the Court. I moved back in with my dad, then so did my brother but instead of going through all the hassle of changing things, when the check came to my mom she signed it back over to my dad. They (FOTC) make life far harder than it needs to be.
>>It was that way for my folks. When they divorced we first lived with my mom and my dad had child support taken out through Friend of the Court. I moved back in with my dad, then so did my brother but instead of going through all the hassle of changing things, when the check came to my mom she signed it back over to my dad. They (FOTC) make life far harder than it needs to be.<<
That’s amazing. Similar thing happened to me but when I stopped paying support when the my oldest moved back in with me, she came to my place screaming that she should still be getting the support. I’ll never forget her waving the original court order in my face right in front of her daughter. The court sided with me. In the end I even got my youngest “back” but I had to go to court to get her. The ex’s attorney embarrassed herself in front of the judge while I sat back calmly observing. She had a strong Hillary style. Seriously.