Besides she doesn’t want you to solve her issues, she just wants to talk about them.
“she doesn’t want you to solve her issues, she just wants to talk about them.”
This...is the most baffling truism of marriage.
Her: “I neeeeeed you to understaaaaand what I’m feeeeeling about this problem.”
Him: “If we _solved_ the problem, there wouldn’t BE a problem.”
That’s what all women do they call it venting
I call whining and being a pain in the ass rejecting solutions offered in good spirit:
Irritating
You try to help and it gives them an excuse to make you the focus
It tales training to avoid the trap
If you ignore the kvetching then it’s “you don’t care”