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Amber Tamblyn: I’m Done With Not Being Believed
MSN NYtimes ^ | September 16, 2017 | Amber Tamblyn

Posted on 09/17/2017 5:31:46 AM PDT by SMGFan

When I was 21, I went into the office of a producer of the television show I was starring in to discuss a big problem. By this point I had been acting for more than a decade, and the show was very successful and beloved. Still, I was nervous about facing the firing squad of Emmys that sat behind him and saying what I had to say.

A crew member had kept showing up to my apartment after work unannounced, going into my trailer while I wasn’t in it, and staring daggers at me from across the set. I liked him at first. He was very sweet and kind in the beginning. We flirted a bit on set. But I was in a relationship. And liking someone certainly didn’t merit the kind of behavior he was exhibiting, which was making me feel unsafe.

My hands were freezing and I balled my wardrobe skirt up around my fists as I spoke. It was all caught in my throat — my embarrassment that it had gotten to this point. The producer listened. Then he said, “Well, there are two sides to every story.” For women in America who come forward with stories of harassment, abuse and sexual assault, there are not two sides to every story, however noble that principle might seem. Women do not get to have a side. They get to have an interrogation. Too often, they are questioned mercilessly about whether their side is legitimate. Especially if that side happens to accuse a man of stature, then that woman has to consider the scrutiny and repercussions she’ll be subjected to by sharing her side.

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TOPICS: Arts/Photography; Society
KEYWORDS: seriousdrama
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Amber, That's Hollywood! Run by the left. They do not all shun Woody Allen or Roman Polanski

Anita Hill was believed by the left , BJ Clinton accusers dismissed. etc.

So , did you talk to your father? He is well known. Why not?

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Russ_Tamblyn

1 posted on 09/17/2017 5:31:46 AM PDT by SMGFan
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To: SMGFan

So someone may be punished for something without proof?


2 posted on 09/17/2017 5:34:39 AM PDT by Raycpa
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For women in America who come forward with stories of harassment, abuse and sexual assault, there are not two sides to every story

Well. maybe "for women who come forward" there are not two sides, but to those who need to make judgements, there had better be.

3 posted on 09/17/2017 5:36:34 AM PDT by Jim Noble (Single payer is coming. Which kind do you like?)
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To: SMGFan

Try smaller independent films or theater?


4 posted on 09/17/2017 5:36:36 AM PDT by Leep (Less talk more ACTiON!)
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is she talking about james woods ?? hes old as dirt?? that’s just creepy on a new level...


5 posted on 09/17/2017 5:38:39 AM PDT by wyowolf (Be ware when the preachers take over the Republican party...)
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To: SMGFan

6 posted on 09/17/2017 5:38:54 AM PDT by 2ndDivisionVet (You cannot invade the mainland US. There'd be a rifle behind every blade of grass.)
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To: Raycpa

You may want to read this column from Peter Hitchens today that’s on his blog.

http://hitchensblog.mailonsunday.co.uk/


7 posted on 09/17/2017 5:39:16 AM PDT by Nextrush (Freedom is everybody's business: Remember Pastor Niemoller)
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Another liberal troll goes after James Wood. That’s all this is about. The liberals in Hollywood are trying to bring him down.


8 posted on 09/17/2017 5:40:31 AM PDT by ducttape45 (Every Saint has a past, Every Sinner has a Future!)
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To: wyowolf

she claim was it was him 20 years ago.


9 posted on 09/17/2017 5:41:47 AM PDT by SMGFan (Sarah Michelle Gellar is on twitter @SarahMGellar)
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They get to have an interrogation. Too often, they are questioned mercilessly about whether their side is legitimate.

So ...?

Any woman (or man, or "other") making a serious accusation like this should be able to back up the charge. What's merciless about that?

10 posted on 09/17/2017 5:44:04 AM PDT by silent_jonny ("forward to what lies ahead" -- Phil. 3:13)
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She made her bed when she unapologetically supported a sexual predator’s enabling wife for President. Get lost, Amber. We’re done with YOU.


11 posted on 09/17/2017 5:49:29 AM PDT by fieldmarshaldj (Je Suis Pepe)
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She laid out the bait (flirted) and a giy who does not know he is being played with emotionally or that stalink is wrong took the bait.

She better have learjed a lesson there.....just because she enjoys flirting the other half may not know its only a mating dance...with no eventual mating.

Biologically speaking....the drive to maintain the species is strong. Strong enough that some A-hole can end up stalking in this case.


12 posted on 09/17/2017 5:50:56 AM PDT by TheErnFormerlyKnownAsBig (Repeal & replace Obamacare, tax reform, fix infrastructure, fixin military, Israel, kill enemies)
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I feel sorry for young women like this. They are often very unhappy because their lives are built around lies, but they don’t understand it, so they can’t ever make a change for the better.


13 posted on 09/17/2017 5:57:52 AM PDT by Tax-chick ("Lice, cockroaches, and Clintons." ~Sultan Knish)
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She claims he tried to pick her up when she was 16. The story excerpted here is about someone else.


14 posted on 09/17/2017 5:58:07 AM PDT by TheErnFormerlyKnownAsBig (Repeal & replace Obamacare, tax reform, fix infrastructure, fixin military, Israel, kill enemies)
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never heard of her.


15 posted on 09/17/2017 6:00:13 AM PDT by euram
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To: Nextrush

Ioan Gruffudd is aging nicely. Joanne Froggatt is not.


16 posted on 09/17/2017 6:03:15 AM PDT by Tax-chick ("Lice, cockroaches, and Clintons." ~Sultan Knish)
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In the early ‘90’s I was being stalked by a married female employee. She would follow me home, follow me around the office, it was nerve-racking. I went to the dyke who ran HR and she cackled with laughter like this was the funniest thing she had ever heard. She told everybody about it and even joked with and encouraged the woman who was stalking me. When the stalker managed to convince our boss to move me to the desk next to her’s, I quit. This woman later did the same thing to another male employee, a real beta male. She ended up divorced and married to the new stalk-ee.

So, it goes both ways. It wasn’t that people didn’t believe me, it’s that they thought it was hilarious. (Well, most of them men who knew the stalker didn’t. But the rest of the company, who were loudly kept updated by the HR Director, did.)


17 posted on 09/17/2017 6:04:41 AM PDT by Gen.Blather
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For women in America who come forward with stories of harassment, abuse and sexual assault, there are not two sides to every story, however noble that principle might seem.

There is the presumption of innocence until proven guilty.

I know that's a hard pill to swallow to those who are telling the truth, but that's how our system works.

18 posted on 09/17/2017 6:10:36 AM PDT by TwelveOfTwenty (Prayers for our country and President Trump)
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Guess you missed the assclown college prof on Tucker the other night. Big time “fasctifa” type claiming they were protecting the COMMunity by attacking ALLEGED nazis/kkk/white supremacists with physical violence. Proof? They don’t need no steenkin’ proof. As far as amber-———she’s all of 21 and full of life experiences right. Ungrateful snot status.


19 posted on 09/17/2017 6:11:34 AM PDT by rktman (Enlisted in the Navy in '67 to protect folks rights to strip my rights. WTH?!)
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My hands were freezing and I balled my wardrobe skirt up around my fists as I spoke. It was all caught in my throat — my embarrassment that it had gotten to this point. The producer listened. Then he said, “Well, there are two sides to every story.” For women in America who come forward with stories of harassment, abuse and sexual assault, there are not two sides to every story, however noble that principle might seem. Women do not get to have a side. They get to have an interrogation. Too often, they are questioned mercilessly about whether their side is legitimate. Especially if that side happens to accuse a man of stature, then that woman has to consider the scrutiny and repercussions she’ll be subjected to by sharing her side.

while I feel sorry for her, the truth is woman have brought that on themselves by lying about rape and child abuse, incest and husband abuse for profit, fame glory or simply to get their won way in life or court.

You would be hard pressed to not find a Pastor who has had the sad work of talking, not always successfully, a man out of suicide because of false accusation.

This behavior by girls starts at a very young age for step daughters.

One such instance happened a good number of years ago, a priest left the priesthood and married a divorced women with a daughter, all was fine till the girl turned 12, while he still had strong moral principals it was not so with the step daughter, she accused him of forcing her to perform fellatio, he could not take the horrible looks, comments and behavior towards him, even by so many that should have know better, so he killed himself.

that was close to 35 years ago, she later confessed that she had lied, nothing happened to her because the 'authorities' felt she had suffered enough.

And that is why women and girls are not always trusted.

20 posted on 09/17/2017 6:12:30 AM PDT by Bob Celeste
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