I’m a feminist who’s attracted to ‘manly men’

Washington Post ^ | September 13, 2016 | Shannon Lell

[tired&retired]

Or, spending a weekend with her is less enjoyable than just an evening.

After dealing with my ex, I’m in favor of long engagements to really get to know a person.. it’s tough to be averse to divorce and be shackled to a wild maîtresse femme.

[ConservativeWarrior]

I wouldn’t have any problem resisting the “urge” to touch that chick.

Yikes.

And a bike race? Um, ok....

[wardaddy]

I would never feel up the butt of a woman I just met unless she placed my hand there

That’s crazy

However I lived in Manhattan in the 80s right after the bra burning era which I loved with sweater puppies bouncing all around in plainly view.....man

But the mid 80s were fembot anger and stridency rising and I had plenty fancy college femmies lament to me that even though i disgusted them philosophically they still felt safe with me and wanted me to ravage them and pull their hair and all that tall dark Stranger erotic romance novel crap some women pine for

Girls are complicated confusing critters

They often act in direct defiance of their urges......why?

Fear....women are fearful....they are smaller and weaker...like a little slightly built man.....but with lady parts

God I’ll never understand them really.....it’ll be my rosebud

[wardaddy]

Better be more than once in a while....

[wardaddy]

I’m figuring Afrocentric broad beam white girl?

Blacked....as they say

[Tax-chick]

I agree. Her face is perfectly nice, her hair isn’t bad, and she’s kind of plump ... but so are lots of lovely, sweet women. It’s just her style and attitude that’s wrong.

(Well, she may be covered with tattoos, too, but the picture doesn’t show.)

[catnipman]

“I learned a long time ago to sever any bonds with people like that a leave post haste. Same with people who relate to others via arguing. Argue with yourself, I’m only interested in solving problems, not debating every single aspect of the misery of a given issue.”

Right on. And this applies to ALL people I interact with now, male and female. I totally avoid all arguers who argue for the sake of arguing, which is most arguers, actually.

And for reasons I don’t understand, many arguers think that arguing is equivalent to exchanging ideas or differences of opinion in a rational fashion or is the equivalent of brainstorming.

[wardaddy]

Lolpimp

My wife hates it when I say poke......scolds me

I’m like but honey it’s a famous Gus McRaec line to Laurie

Duvall to Diane Lane

I mean come on!

I’m crude per my former wild ass 20 years ago wife

[wardaddy]

Bullshit

Sex is about a helluva lot more than babies

That’s crazy comment

The Bible is really profound on this

It’s the ultimate bond between husband and wife

The intimacy is other worldly between two living creatures with a soul

A woman is allowing you literally to invade deep inside her body where hopefully you both connect in your eyes your heart your mind

It defines the difference between men and women

We’ve allowed Satan to damage the concept but for committed couples it’s still there

That’s how I see it anyhow

We are not dogs

[fella]

Making a baby is a life changing event with many complications and responsibilities.

[PapaBear3625]

I have worked with women who are attracted toward physically violent men who beat them to the point of hospitalization. The women often say to me, “It’s as though I am addicted to him. He beats me, is put in jail, and I keep taking him back.. Over and over... Why?”

Erin Pizzey founded the first battered women's shelter in the UK in 1971. Over the years, she encountered many women like the one you described, who can't seem to leave their attackers, and wrote a book about it, Prone to Violence ( Part of it available here as a PDF ). She noticed that some women are addicted to the "adrenaline rush" of being with violent men, and will deliberately see how close to the edge they can push them.

Her observations made her unpopular with many feminists.

[wardaddy]

Yeah
I got FIVE kids

I got that but sex between man and wyfe is about a whole lot more than procreation

[Albion Wilde]

Does Facebook have a special gender for her?

[MeganC]

“Making a baby is a life changing event with many complications and responsibilities.”

Absolutely! One of the most profound moments of my life was my first time with my husband and realizing as things were happening that my life was never going to be the same. It was a choice that was not going to be undone and the knowledge that a baby was a possibility (my first pregnancy was twins!) scared the heck out of me! I went into the whole thing with pathetically naive ideas and fantasies and discovered a very sobering reality.

I’m just blessed that the man I chose was more mature than I was and even though I think I made some bad decisions at the time he was the right person to be with because he was there for me when my bad and impulsive and desperate decisions became two blessedly beautiful little girls!

[tired&retired]

Thank you PaPaBear3625 for sharing the pdf file. I downloaded it and will read it in detail. This is a subject very dear to me.

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My comment above:

The number one attraction in relationships... this is what creates the chemistry of attraction...

We are attracted toward individuals whose underlying persona is similar to someone with whom we have unresolved conflict.

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Attraction is what creates the synchronistic events that provide us the opportunity to heal the wounds in our soul.

Generally we are not angry for the reason we think we are as we are projecting our past unresolved issues or complexes onto the person we are with as a surrogate. Problem is, in the perfect dance of relationships, our partners are doing the same thing with us!!!

I have a very unique ability in that I can read the stored memories of people since conception in detail, without them ever saying one word. I feel stored memories of past events physically in a field that surrounds the physical body.

Conception memories are stored about 15 ft from the physical body. As I walk toward a person, their entire life is there, in reverse sequence with the current memories close to the physical body.

If a person closes their eyes and thinks of their current conflict relationship, I walk toward them, beginning about 15 ft from them and when my hand hits the memory that vibrates at the same frequency as the one they are thinking about, it pushes them over, often right off their feet.
(It has to do with amygdala stimulation of subconscious emotional memories that creates a response similar to a vestibular malfunction.)

If you have ever heard a person say that “My life flashed before my eyes.” That is what happens to many at death as their conscious awareness is no longer limited to the physical body and it expands in reverse sequence through the same memories that I read. I feel them as physical objects.

Since a person has many similar relationships in their life, it is important that I locate the very first one as that is the perceptual programming event that establishes the pattern of behavior though their life. I merely remove the negative emotion attached to that perceptual programming event memory in their field and presto, all similar events that created trauma in a person’s life are instantly gone, forever.

I read stored memories similar to the way x-rays read bones.

I’ve found this ability also works if a person thinks of their current medical illness. I walk back and find the memory that either created or predisposed the person to the illness. It’s a simple process and only takes a few minutes.

If I were to work with the woman who wrote this article, it would set her free of her emotional shackles to live a healthy life and help stabilize her children’s lives. It’s what I do every day. The results are instant, profound and life changing.

I’m just scratching the surface with this explanation. It’s really not me doing it, but is done through me, mostly in prayer. I don’t sell or promote religion, but have had many atheists leave my office no longer an atheist.

[Tax-chick]

I was utterly clueless, in spite of college degrees and stuff, when I had my first baby at 24. Fortunately it was only one! “Well, it’s not a cat,” I thought, so I treated her like a tiny, toothless adult, with mixed results.

Years later, the others would say, “Why does Anoreth get to ... !?!” and I would say, “Because she got all the mistakes. Deal with it!” “Why didn’t I get all the mistakes?” asked a sister who wanted to dye her hair magenta.

(Anoreth looked great with magenta hair. She’s extremely cool.)

[Anoreth]

What on earth are you smoking?

[Georgia Girl 2]

I hate to tell this chick that she just picks losers to date. Manly men can still be respectful. I’m married to one.