be advised, manly men do NOT like feminists...
Posted on 09/20/2016 4:31:41 AM PDT by C19fan
Within minutes of meeting my Bumble date at a bike race, he demanded that I take off my sunglasses so he could see my eyes. I obliged. In the two hours we were together, he proceeded to put his hand firmly on my butt, pretending to usher me through a crowd. He also did not ask before reaching over to rub my shoulders, as though he had a right to touch my body.
As a feminist writer, I understand that these behaviors denote male entitlement and indicate that he might not respect women. And yet, I was turned on. I have always been attracted to dominant men.
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Fifty shades of B.S.!
Ping for your intrest Megan dear.
Your Husband is a manly man. But was also much older than you. How did that effect your decision to get married?
I’ll bet she falls for “manly” Moslems, too.
“manly men” = Simps that will buy her stuff, do chores, and “treat her like a princess” in exchange for sex once in a while.
I learned a long time ago to sever any bonds with people like that a leave post haste. Same with people who relate to others via arguing. Argue with yourself, I'm only interested in solving problems, not debating every single aspect of the misery of a given issue.
That being said, God provided us with wonderful women who are intelligent, thoughtful and very constructive in relationships, making the harradins and harlots of society subjects of ridicule, not viable prospects for relationships. The lefties can have them, let's all just sit back and enjoy the fireworks from a distance.
be advised, manly men do NOT like feminists...
Stopped reading pretty quick. I would have slapped his face for playing grab-@ss. She thinks such abuse is manly?
Another women who spits at men who actually try to listen to her and be nice to her.
The lesson: with some (many?) women, "being nice" doesn't work. They want somebody who is dominant, in order to feel secure.
And yet, I was turned on.
Don’t see much feminism here. More like human nature. If a woman is “interested” in a man it barely matter what he says/does. If a woman is NOT “interested” in a man it doesn’t matter what he says/does.
In her dreams is the only place this took place. She wants readers to get the idea that she is brainy but desirable. Sure.......
She got those two kids she has somehow, didn’t she?
Perhaps, sometimes ‘feminism’ is just a work schtick.
> ... he demanded that I take off my sunglasses so he could see my eyes.
He’s 100% right. I hate women who were sunglasses. You really can’t see their eyes.
And this woman is a professional victim who enjoys her victimhood.
Yeah, no kidding, that was my first thought, too! That's not a manly man, he's just a jerk. I've known plenty of manly men who are NOTHING like that.
His touch is the only thing “firmly” about that butt.
The number one attraction in relationships... this is what creates the chemistry of attraction...
We are attracted toward individuals whose underlying persona is similar to someone with whom we have unresolved conflict.
This is the reason for repeated relationship patterns. It’s also the reason that Harville Hendrix’s Imago Therapy works so well.
When these relationships reach the point of intimacy, each person then feels comfortable enough to project their unresolved conflict onto the new surrogate and they hate them, but don’t know why.
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From the article:
As a feminist writer, I understand that these behaviors denote male entitlement and indicate that he might not respect women. And yet, I was turned on. I have always been attracted to dominant men.
I have intermittently been dating online for over two years, and I have dated all kinds of men: those in white-collar jobs and blue-collar ones; white men; dark men; young men; older men; tall men; short men; men who lie about their relationship status. But what hasn’t wavered, is that, as a “traditionally feminine” woman, I end up being attracted to the men who come off as “traditionally masculine.”
From what I’ve glimpsed in dating these 30- to 45-year-old men, most of them seemed to be just as confused as I am.
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I have worked with women who are attracted toward physically violent men who beat them to the point of hospitalization. The women often say to me, “It’s as though I am addicted to him. He beats me, is put in jail, and I keep taking him back.. Over and over... Why?”
We never talk about their current relationship. We go right to the perceptual programming event in their life that created the wound they seek to heal. When that is resolved, which usually only takes a few minutes, the attraction in their current relationship is gone as they do not need a surrogate to resolve a wound to their soul that is already resolved.
The other factor I found in my research is that many (but not all) women who hold anger toward men were in their mother’s womb when she was angry at their father. It’s an inter-generational trauma passed from mother to child in the womb as a child in their mother’s womb cannot differentiate between their own experiences and those of their mother. (I have found this to be true in many lesbians(but not all)
As Rush pointed out, feminism was created so ugly women can participate in society.
Wait a minute she got felt up and was okay with that ? Some kinda freak yo
An FRFR Gaynor clone who really means she likes men who will do whatever she commands them to do and get them done without excuses which is what real men do. We see right through you. Real men won’t have you.
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