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Should you feel obligated to love obnoxious family members during the holidays?
American Thinker ^ | 25 Dec, 2015 | Ed Straker

Posted on 12/25/2015 7:24:35 AM PST by MtnClimber

...2) Liberal drone. You may have a relative who is a liberal drone, who worships at the altar of Obama, Hillary, global warming, deindustrialization, and whatever else they have been programmed to think. It can be unpleasant to hear them go on and on about how great Obama is and how evil the Republicans are, and you certainly can't speak out because that will start a major battle. If your relative is a hardened leftist, nothing you can say would make any difference as well. So why should you love that?

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1 posted on 12/25/2015 7:24:35 AM PST by MtnClimber
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To: MtnClimber

I don’t have any relatives like this, but I have a few neighbors who are angry leftists.


2 posted on 12/25/2015 7:25:35 AM PST by MtnClimber (For photos of Colorado scenery and wildlife, click on my screen name for my FR home page.)
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To: GrandJediMasterYoda

FYI ping


3 posted on 12/25/2015 7:28:33 AM PST by smoothsailing
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To: MtnClimber

Tolerance in not love. It is tolerance and nothing more.

But no matter how despicable you may think that person with whom you have a mutual loathing, somebody else may hold that person in high esteem, but they also want to triangulate on this and consider YOU a friend as well.

If only not to alienate this third party, at least keep a civil demeanor in company.

And for heaven’s sake, strictly control the alcohol intake.


4 posted on 12/25/2015 7:28:43 AM PST by alloysteel (Do not argue with trolls. That means they win.)
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To: MtnClimber

I have a BIL who is a socialist but tells everyone he’s a social conservative. It fools NO ONE and much of the family finds him reprehensible. There is a child involved however so we make peace for the sake of the mother, being being there is no communication with the BIL at all. Love? Maybe he can be reclaimed and salvaged, but for now his mark on the mother and child will last long after he is gone.


5 posted on 12/25/2015 7:29:40 AM PST by Caipirabob (Communists... Socialists... Democrats...Traitors... Who can tell the difference?)
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To: MtnClimber

No.


6 posted on 12/25/2015 7:32:22 AM PST by bgill (CDC site, "We still do not know exactly how people are infected with Ebola")
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To: MtnClimber

Only if your in the PC mode other wise you tell them what they are a d*ck.


7 posted on 12/25/2015 7:33:21 AM PST by Vaduz (women and children to be impacted the most.)
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To: MtnClimber

You can’t choose your relatives so it’s a trial at times, but strive to love them anyway and barring that, tolerate them. For the sake of the rest of the family if for no other reason.


8 posted on 12/25/2015 7:33:39 AM PST by RegulatorCountry
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To: MtnClimber

I feel called to love everyone, whether he/she is a relative or not. I always have a good book on my kindle which is also my phone so if it gets really bad (I’m blessed that it rarely does) I can go in the other room with a glass of wine and read. But as I’ve grown older I realize that I can’t change the other person and he/she might be interesting to listen too even if I don’t agree. I find that if I listen and don’t respond, pretty much the conversation calms down, the other person’s energy winds down and life goes on. Merry Christmas all and God’s blessings on you.


9 posted on 12/25/2015 7:33:54 AM PST by Mercat ("[T]he Kingdom of heaven suffers violence, and the violent are taking it by force." Matthew 11)
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To: MtnClimber

Tell them to go to HillaryClinton.net


10 posted on 12/25/2015 7:34:26 AM PST by cp124 (Government is value subtracted.)
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To: MtnClimber

Give them the old two cent tour. Smile and yes them to death. Why spoil your Holiday with bad feelings and tension. You will feel better later. Merry Christmas!


11 posted on 12/25/2015 7:39:54 AM PST by 4yearlurker (Sodom punished for those who practiced an abominable vice as a religious rite-Henry C. Beck)
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To: MtnClimber

Obnoxious would be an improvement for my in-laws. I ceased subjecting myself to them years ago.


12 posted on 12/25/2015 7:40:35 AM PST by JudyinCanada
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To: JudyinCanada

Does it cause problems that you avoid them?


13 posted on 12/25/2015 7:43:58 AM PST by MtnClimber (For photos of Colorado scenery and wildlife, click on my screen name for my FR home page.)
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To: MtnClimber
they should be told in no uncertain terms they are to keep their mouth shut on religion and politics and if they can't, either DO NOT COME, or they will be thrown out after the first leftist word they utter.
14 posted on 12/25/2015 7:46:03 AM PST by Chode (Stand UP and Be Counted, or line up and be numbered - *DTOM* -w- NO Pity for the LAZY - Luke, 22:36)
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To: MtnClimber

Isn’t this what booze is for?


15 posted on 12/25/2015 7:46:23 AM PST by RandallFlagg ("Political correctness is tyranny with manners." -Charlton Heston)
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To: MtnClimber

case in point

Psycho Kid Ruins Thanksgiving

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TUCUsNx1HTs


16 posted on 12/25/2015 7:47:48 AM PST by Chode (Stand UP and Be Counted, or line up and be numbered - *DTOM* -w- NO Pity for the LAZY - Luke, 22:36)
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To: MtnClimber

1 Corinthians 13J.B. Phillips New Testament (PHILLIPS)
Christian love - the highest and best gift

13 1-3 If I speak with the eloquence of men and of angels, but have no love, I become no more than blaring brass or crashing cymbal. If I have the gift of foretelling the future and hold in my mind not only all human knowledge but the very secrets of God, and if I also have that absolute faith which can move mountains, but have no love, I amount to nothing at all. If I dispose of all that I possess, yes, even if I give my own body to be burned, but have no love, I achieve precisely nothing.

4 This love of which I speak is slow to lose patience - it looks for a way of being constructive. It is not possessive: it is neither anxious to impress nor does it cherish inflated ideas of its own importance.

5-6 Love has good manners and does not pursue selfish advantage. It is not touchy. It does not keep account of evil or gloat over the wickedness of other people. On the contrary, it is glad with all good men when truth prevails.

7-8a Love knows no limit to its endurance, no end to its trust, no fading of its hope; it can outlast anything. It is, in fact, the one thing that still stands when all else has fallen.

All gifts except love will be superseded one day

8b-10 For if there are prophecies they will be fulfilled and done with, if there are “tongues” the need for them will disappear, if there is knowledge it will be swallowed up in truth. For our knowledge is always incomplete and our prophecy is always incomplete, and when the complete comes, that is the end of the incomplete.

11 When I was a little child I talked and felt and thought like a little child. Now that I am a man my childish speech and feeling and thought have no further significance for me.

12 At present we are men looking at puzzling reflections in a mirror. The time will come when we shall see reality whole and face to face! At present all I know is a little fraction of the truth, but the time will come when I shall know it as fully as God now knows me!

13 In this life we have three great lasting qualities - faith, hope and love. But the greatest of them is love.


17 posted on 12/25/2015 7:52:18 AM PST by BwanaNdege
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To: MtnClimber
Should you feel obligated to love obnoxious family members during the holidays?

Nah. At my age, it's more important just not to be that person. MERRY CHRISTMAS!

18 posted on 12/25/2015 7:52:33 AM PST by Kenton
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To: Chode

That was painful to watch.


19 posted on 12/25/2015 7:54:46 AM PST by MtnClimber (For photos of Colorado scenery and wildlife, click on my screen name for my FR home page.)
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To: MtnClimber
We are obligated to love everyone, especially family...

Doesn't mean we agree with them or argue...

They start their progressive libtard nonsense just say "I love you too"

20 posted on 12/25/2015 7:54:58 AM PST by Popman (Christ alone: My Cornerstone...)
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