One reason I have been in Japan for 27 years lol !
I read a book one time that posited that children, as a group, don't really grow past the 'me, me, me' stage until age 24 to 28. That's when they pay attention to a wider worldview and their contribution to it, rather then wondering 'what have you done for me lately?' The long forgotten author of this book was basing his opinion on attitudes that he observed in Western youngsters.
Asian parents, Tiger Mom or not, do not have the patience to put up with that attitude past the age of 6 or so. Kids have to contribute or someone does without. People who learn this early in life are team players without so much emphasis on the me, me, me part.
It's my thought and experience that these folks are very easy to get along with without the 'high maintenance' overtones that Western folks (Guys and girls alike) bring to the table.
The fact that so many of them are incredibly beautiful is very sweet icing on the cake.
No wonder my date night went south.
Short version...
How to Marry a Third-World Woman And Live Happily Every After—Somewhere Else (Vulgarity warning)
http://www.fredoneverything.net/MarryAbroad.shtml
Matrimony Abroad
http://www.fredoneverything.net/ThirdWorld3.shtml
Ha—I figure men with such a fixation are like poor “Jaron Blaye”, who despite being vaguely black is rather modestly endowed.
When men go scuba diving in tuxedoes, it’s only fair that women wander about in bikinis and high heels.
If the masses of American men ever discover the truth me thinks there will be a mass migration to the Far East.
Nothing......And FWIW, I've never seen an obese middle aged Asian woman walking around the supermarket in spandex tights, dragging a screaming baby with her......
"feminist girlfriend at last blows a fuse [saying] 'Why is that chick running around in a bikini and high heels on a volcano?' "
That dude needs help. Everyone knows that if you want to get lucky with a feminist gal, you order "Mama Mia" on Netflix. Feminists might be easy to get into the sack but their outrage filters have low thresholds and are unpredictable.
heh.
Asian women make the best sounds during sex.
I read the original novel, in 1967. I had ‘yellow fever’, and fed it quite well, while serving my country in SouthEast Asia for three years. By the time I was re-assigned stateside, I was well cured. Between my examinations of Siamese, Laotian, Cambodian, and Malay cultures, and their each ‘old-school’ ways of life, I am still unsure which, “won the debate”.
If someone were to ask me, “Would I do that, again?”, I must include those other moments of induced self-preservation, under ‘the rocket’s red glare’, the booms of exploding ornance, and that annoying toy-rifle spring sproinging next to my ear. And all balanced with working in warehouse yards in monsoon rains, open cab truck trips through gorgeous countrysides, and quiet moments, best left as that.
So, my answer would, and must be, ‘I have the gift of life and age to be able to answer that question’ with a smile!
If you want some to see real sexism today watch the uncensored version of the song Blurred Lines by Robin Thicke.
You sat down on date-night to watch a testosterone movie?
Confucius say:
- fool man climb tree to get cherries; wise man spread limbs.
Good thing the girlfriend wasn't reading the book, or really, any of the books in the series. Way more, um, stuff, happens in them regarding women, that in any of the movies.
A lot of the appeal is physical. Men are innately programmed to seek youth and fertility in women, and the Asian woman, with large eyes, round face, and tiny nose, looks like the face of a teenage Caucasian female. That is the Asian bone structure so she will look like a teenager long after the Caucasian ages. A Caucasian woman can be just as sweet, supportive, adoring, wise, kind, sexually giving, and fit, and perhaps even more curvaceous, but the Asian woman will win every time.
Note the glints of steel in the Asian woman’s eye, though. They can be very damn tough, and in the right situation they can be as hard and vicious as any white trailer-trash.
There are, of course, significant racial and national specifications within her advice about which Asian women are actually qualified (hint: avoid Vietnam...) :)
You should never watch ANY Bond films with feminists, especially the Sean Connory classics. Or perhaps with any woman. Bond films are guy films, to be watched with your buddies.
Bond disturbs women at a fundamental level. He is an Alpha Male that every woman wants. All the women want to sleep with him. But the series drives home one important point, which women are uncomfortable confronting: when the adventure is over, the Alpha Male moves on. Every woman, no matter how beautiful and sexy, can be replaced at the next destination.
Compare and contrast "chick flicks" which always end with the girl getting the guy, with the presumption that the relationship will be eternal.
Oh, to be ten again!