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Posted on 03/30/2006 7:42:22 AM PST by CardCarryingMember.VastRightWC
A local Ft. Collins man was charged with sexual assault and "domestic violence harrassment" after his wife complained to police that on numerous occasions in the past year she awoke at night to find him "having sex or oral sex" even though she had told him this seemed like rape to her. The husband also admitted to taking nude photos of her while she slept.
Go back and read PaulaB's first post. She never make reference to the exact sex act.
Later, kiddo
I still believe God didn't give ya'll enough blood if you can suffer from anoxia every 20 minutes!!!!
Marriage is honourable in all, and the bed undefiled:
Hebrews 13:4 (a)
The marriage bed is undefiled. Puritans, Baptists and others have long interpreted that to mean that what two married people do for fun is OK.
You want to meet the most manipulative woman in the world?
You have to marry a 'nice' girl first.
That inability to stop is the best reason for we fathers to teach our sons to respect the initial "no". For that matter, teaching them (and our daughters) to abstain until marriage prevents many problems (except of the kind that this article brings up.)
Playing this in my mind.
I bet my wife a Lewinsky that I could get a picture of her naked while she sleeps. A few days later I try and find myself staring down the barrel of a 9MM.
Does anyone really think they could be photographed naked in their sleep if they really didn't want to be?
And wake up in the middle of oral sex?
Not saying what this guy apparently did is right, I'm just saying he has never met my wife.
Another Neanderthal with "issues," I see.
Please add me to the list, but in time to go get the popcorn... *g
Are you a 'missionary' only proponent?
Why is she sleeping nude under these circumstances?
My post would indicate just the opposite.
::Funny, I thought that the general consensus among those who quote Scripture in these types of situations believed that oral sex is sodomy, or at least, a perverted and unnatural sex act.
Why no condemnation for the pervert?::
Read Song of Solomon and tell me if oral sex is bad. That is a BEAUTIFUL story and VERY sexual (on almost all fronts). Not hardly bad. God could care less what happens in the bedroom of a married couple as long as it's kept between the couple.
The only thing I have against this guy is the pictures thing. Since I belive self gratification is wrong (deceives the spouse), I presume the pics are not enjoyed between the 2 of them.
A guy can stop in a heartbeat if his kid walks in. Or worse, his mother.
It may be nearly impossible for a man to stop ~wanting to finish~, but this is an emotional, not physical, barrier, from my observations :~D
This is a bizarre story... A guy wanting sex who continues to go about trying to get it in a way that he knows irritates his wife. dumb dumb dumb dumb dumb! And he evidently tries this tactic over and over again with the same results! dumb dumb dumb dumb dumb! And she stays with him! dumb dumb dumb dumb dumb!
This couple deserves each other as much as the couple yesterday where the husband went on strike up on the roof.
This is an important article about legal issues regarding charges of forced sex within a marriage. That is why I am here - to hear people's take on the issue.
I am not hear to learn about Paula B's sex life. So that is why I commented to her as I did. And, yes, Paula B. has an ongoing habit of turning articles into herself being the object of sex. It is fine behavior on a porn site, but it does not belong on FreeRepublic. She has quite a porn following who very much lurking into Paula's boundry problems.
Yes, I am one.
It all starts with a kiss. And then 'French' kissing, then hands on, then mouth on chest, etc. down the slippery slope.
I tell them "Hey, do you realize what you just did with what will probably be some OTHER man's/woman's mate? Do you want someone else doing that with YOUR's?".
Apparently they have so much in common.
Oh, a man CAN stop. No doubt. Believe me, I know.
But, it is never easy.
One time, when my wife and I....... uh, my brother-in-law......banging on the door......wouldn't stop calling us through the mail slot.......uh........ nevermind.
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