::Funny, I thought that the general consensus among those who quote Scripture in these types of situations believed that oral sex is sodomy, or at least, a perverted and unnatural sex act.
Why no condemnation for the pervert?::
Read Song of Solomon and tell me if oral sex is bad. That is a BEAUTIFUL story and VERY sexual (on almost all fronts). Not hardly bad. God could care less what happens in the bedroom of a married couple as long as it's kept between the couple.
The only thing I have against this guy is the pictures thing. Since I belive self gratification is wrong (deceives the spouse), I presume the pics are not enjoyed between the 2 of them.
You're a pretty wise MIA!