Husband arrested for spousal rape of sleeping wife

Fort Collins Coloradoan | 3/29/2006 | Sara Reed

[CardCarryingMember.VastRightWC]

A local Ft. Collins man was charged with sexual assault and "domestic violence harrassment" after his wife complained to police that on numerous occasions in the past year she awoke at night to find him "having sex or oral sex" even though she had told him this seemed like rape to her. The husband also admitted to taking nude photos of her while she slept.

Full story here.

[Toby06]

What did I say or do that was porographic in any way, shape or form?

[Michael.SF.]

Or a drunk

LOL.

Personally, I do not mind be awakened in such a fashion. But maybe that is just me.

[Toby06]

Sorry, I mentioned you and didn't ping you in my post #117.

[Centurion2000]

If we aren't giving it up, you automatically think we don't love you anymore or don't find you attractive. That's the married guys. The single guys just think we're bitches! LOL!

Every guy I know seems to think that way.

[Tijeras_Slim]

Not to mention those who despise FREERIDERS who partake of the pleasures of the flesh without having their minds right concerning the ultimate purpose of such things!


Begone evil ones!

[Galveston Grl]

I bet you did appreciate knowing about and imagining Paula B loving it when her husband wakes her up from a deep sleep with oral sex.... It's fine - on a porn site.

[Calpernia]

And you are probably not an angry drunk ;)

I feel sorry for that guy.

[Michael.SF.]

Paula B always uses the opportunity to make any rape or porn article about what she enjoys with her hubby.

If she "always" does this, and you find it offensive, why do you continue to read her 'porn'?

[windcliff]

ping

[Galveston Grl]

Mind your own business Najida, I was not even addressing you.

[Allegra]

FREERIDERS of the world...UNITE!!

And RIDE FREEEEEE!!

[MadeInAmerica]

::If we aren't giving it up, you automatically think we don't love you anymore or don't find you attractive. That's the married guys. The single guys just think we're bitches! LOL!
Every guy I know seems to think that way.::

I don't know about the single guys portion because I've been married 23 years....but married men view this 90% of the time. They may tell you different...but that is MEN.

This was a problem 2000 years ago and Apostle Paul addressed the issue in 1 Corinthians 7. Secular women, in particular, don't get this in our time.

2000 years ago, it was the MEN that wanted no sex. In fact, Jewish men were fined for "not giving it up".

[Millee]

Paula honey, I'm kind of mad at you right now. Whenever you are making your exhibitism comments worthy of a "porn site" please ping me in the future! And here I thought we were friends.

[samcgwire]

I know. :0

[#1CTYankee]

A guy I worked with had done this numerous times, one time she woke up and was some pi**ed.
Then one month she was late and commented to him that since they hadn't had sex she couldn't be pregnant, guess what happened next.

[Millee]

[Tijeras_Slim]

FREERIDERS of the world...UNITE!!

Let's not have any of that suggestive porn-o language... < /churchlady>

[BritExPatInFla]

Not really. I've just never really gotten off (pun absolutely intended) on having sex with unwilling or unconscious (and especially bought and paid for) partners. But hey, whatever makes you feeeeel good is right for you, eh?

Hey, some of these guys can't get a conscious woman to agree, they have to get what they can. They still think a wife is their 'property' to do with as they want.

[Michael.SF.]

The single guys just think we're bitches!

No, it is not limited to just the single guys.

;)

[Skooz]

There very well could be times when a woman changes her mind. You seem to think that once it starts she has to start what she finished like it's some kind of binding contract. Which, by the way, makes men seem like animals that have no brains or ability to stop. They are not that way at all...except for the one I encountered years ago, in California ironically enough.

I said yes. Then I said no...over and over and over. But to no avail. Too bad for me, huh?

That is a far more complicated proposition than most women realize. Mostly for biological reasons.

Without question, when a woman says "stop," and means it, then all activity should cease, out of respect for her wishes.

But, once the blood rushes from the head to the nether regions, men are no longer rational beings. Regardless of how many Phil Donahue and Oprah clones say the opposite, no woman can fully understand the power of the male sexual drive. Men are wired to allow it to become all-consuming, forsaking food, water, reason.....whatever. Once a man starts, it is usually dreadfully difficult, if not nearly impossible, for him to just suddenly stop.

That may not make much sense to a woman, for whom sexual activity is tied more to emotions and intellect than the animalistic passion which drives men's sexuality. But, understanding that fact may increase some understanding.