Free Republic
Browse · Search
General/Chat
Topics · Post Article

Skip to comments.

Dear Parents-to-Be: Stop Celebrating Your Baby's Gender
Cosmopolitan ^ | July 9, 2017 | Diane Stopyra

Posted on 07/11/2017 1:54:41 PM PDT by Trump20162020

For starters, gender-reveal parties don't actually reveal gender—they reveal anatomy. Gender is a wholly different thing, inextricably tied to the social constructs around it. (Fun fact: Blue used to be the color most associated with little girls, due to its association with the Virgin Mary. But Hitler—yes, Hitler—feminized the color pink by forcing gays to wear triangles in that shade during World War II.) A gender reveal conflates the two.

Projecting gender perceptions onto a fetus becomes especially thorny when you take into consideration that, globally, one in every 1000 to 1500 children is born with a visible form of Difference of Sex Development (DSD), which means being neither entirely male nor female, since the chromosomal/genital makeup falls somewhere in between—an enlarged clitoris capable of erections, for instance. (Broader definitions of DSD put this number closer to 1 in 100 children.) Then there are the millions of kids assigned a sex at birth with which they don't align: 150,000 American teenagers identify as transgender. In a ritual that celebrates only a binary way of thinking about identity, we're leaving a cross-section of the population out, adding to a culture of trans and intersex shame. And for what? Confetti poppers?

(Excerpt) Read more at cosmopolitan.com ...


TOPICS: Society; Weird Stuff
KEYWORDS: mentalillness
Navigation: use the links below to view more comments.
first 1-2021-4041-52 next last

1 posted on 07/11/2017 1:54:41 PM PDT by Trump20162020
[ Post Reply | Private Reply | View Replies]

To: Trump20162020

Yeah, I look to Cosmo for advice on parenting...not.


2 posted on 07/11/2017 1:55:46 PM PDT by Army Air Corps (Four Fried Chickens and a Coke)
[ Post Reply | Private Reply | To 1 | View Replies]

To: Trump20162020

A basic science lithmus test should be “how many human sexes are there.”

Anyone who thinks there are anything but two fails the scientific knowledge test, and their thoughts on “climate change” are wholly irrelevant.


3 posted on 07/11/2017 1:57:04 PM PDT by E. Pluribus Unum (Some people consider government to be a necessary evil, others their personal Ponzi scheme.)
[ Post Reply | Private Reply | To 1 | View Replies]

To: Trump20162020
150,000 American teenagers identify as transgender.

Out of millions of teenagers. And how many are doing this because it is trendy? Any way you slice it, we are looking at a tiny minority of people.
4 posted on 07/11/2017 1:57:35 PM PDT by Army Air Corps (Four Fried Chickens and a Coke)
[ Post Reply | Private Reply | To 1 | View Replies]

To: Trump20162020
"Fun fact: Blue used to be the color most associated with little girls, due to its association with the Virgin Mary. But Hitler—yes, Hitler—feminized the color pink by forcing gays to wear triangles in that shade during World War II."

Hoo-watt?

5 posted on 07/11/2017 1:57:46 PM PDT by BenLurkin (The above is not a statement of fact. It is either satire or opinion. Or both.)
[ Post Reply | Private Reply | To 1 | View Replies]

To: Trump20162020

Destroying gender roles is a step on the path to destroying the “patriarchy” or, as you call it, the United States.

“Male and female He made them.”


6 posted on 07/11/2017 1:59:43 PM PDT by TigerClaws
[ Post Reply | Private Reply | To 1 | View Replies]

To: BenLurkin

I know blue used to be considered a baby girl’s color, but never heard that Hitler line before.


7 posted on 07/11/2017 1:59:53 PM PDT by Trump20162020
[ Post Reply | Private Reply | To 5 | View Replies]

To: Trump20162020

Dear Cosmopolitan,

F- y-.

Sincerely,

Happy expecting parents everywhere


8 posted on 07/11/2017 2:00:15 PM PDT by servo1969
[ Post Reply | Private Reply | To 1 | View Replies]

To: Trump20162020

I suspect this author is getting her “fun fact” from someplace dark and smelly.


9 posted on 07/11/2017 2:01:21 PM PDT by BenLurkin (The above is not a statement of fact. It is either satire or opinion. Or both.)
[ Post Reply | Private Reply | To 7 | View Replies]

To: Trump20162020

As though the weirdos at Cosmo will ever have anything to reveal except their deviant attitudes toward marriage and family.


10 posted on 07/11/2017 2:02:58 PM PDT by txrefugee
[ Post Reply | Private Reply | To 1 | View Replies]

To: Trump20162020

Never go out with a woman who subscribes to that mag.


11 posted on 07/11/2017 2:03:03 PM PDT by I want the USA back (Acting constantly in contradiction with one's human nature is de facto evidence of insanity.)
[ Post Reply | Private Reply | To 1 | View Replies]

To: Trump20162020; BenLurkin

I did not realize that Hitler and Nazis were such trend setters.


12 posted on 07/11/2017 2:04:37 PM PDT by BBell (calm down and eat your sandwiches)
[ Post Reply | Private Reply | To 1 | View Replies]

To: Trump20162020

I always celebrate after finding out the sex of my baby! After the ultrasound, we go to the store and pick out a cute little boy outfit or girl outfit. It’s exciting.


13 posted on 07/11/2017 2:05:27 PM PDT by Trillian
[ Post Reply | Private Reply | To 1 | View Replies]

To: Trump20162020

Why don’t you just be happy and excited for your expecting friends instead of being a stuck up bitch about it?

How about instead of injecting your obnoxious feminist politics in to everything, you try acting like a human being for once?


14 posted on 07/11/2017 2:07:08 PM PDT by Tzimisce
[ Post Reply | Private Reply | To 1 | View Replies]

To: BenLurkin
History is as you like it, or so Leftists believe.

Ask Smithsonian: When Did Girls Start Wearing Pink?

In any case, I don't think Hitler was influencing fashion choices prior to WWI.

15 posted on 07/11/2017 2:09:24 PM PDT by rightwingcrazy (rightwingcrazy)
[ Post Reply | Private Reply | To 5 | View Replies]

To: BBell
Fun Fact: Adolph Hitler was the first drag queen...


16 posted on 07/11/2017 2:10:55 PM PDT by BenLurkin (The above is not a statement of fact. It is either satire or opinion. Or both.)
[ Post Reply | Private Reply | To 12 | View Replies]

To: Trump20162020

Advice from Cosmo? Like getting advice on keeping sheep safe from a wolf. Hogwash.


17 posted on 07/11/2017 2:14:26 PM PDT by Fungi (Mucor roxii is not a rock band.)
[ Post Reply | Private Reply | To 1 | View Replies]

To: Trump20162020

This gender neutral nonsense is the latest fad. And technically, “gender” is the wrong word, it refers to language.
In reality there are two sexes, and surgery cannot change one’s DNA or chromosomes.
We are either male or female, regardless of how we dress, or the pronouns we use.
The retired head of Psychiatry for Johns Hopkins Hospital and Medical School says “transgender” is a mental illness. Who would know better?


18 posted on 07/11/2017 2:18:47 PM PDT by Wiser now (Socialism does not eliminate poverty, it guarantees it.)
[ Post Reply | Private Reply | To 1 | View Replies]

To: Trump20162020; rockrr
But Hitler—yes, Hitler—feminized the color pink by forcing gays to wear triangles in that shade during World War II.

Parents dressed their girls in pink because of the color's association with gays and Hitler?

Craziest comment of the week (including DL's nonsense).

Pink for girls and blue for boys is indeed a recent (post-WWII) phenomenon, but it's more likely to have come to the US from France, where it was traditional.

19 posted on 07/11/2017 2:19:58 PM PDT by x
[ Post Reply | Private Reply | To 1 | View Replies]

To: Trump20162020

Gender pertains to use of a noun.

Sex pertains to the thingy between one’s legs.


20 posted on 07/11/2017 2:21:17 PM PDT by Chauncey Gardiner
[ Post Reply | Private Reply | To 1 | View Replies]


Navigation: use the links below to view more comments.
first 1-2021-4041-52 next last

Disclaimer: Opinions posted on Free Republic are those of the individual posters and do not necessarily represent the opinion of Free Republic or its management. All materials posted herein are protected by copyright law and the exemption for fair use of copyrighted works.

Free Republic
Browse · Search
General/Chat
Topics · Post Article

FreeRepublic, LLC, PO BOX 9771, FRESNO, CA 93794
FreeRepublic.com is powered by software copyright 2000-2008 John Robinson