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Why I’m exiling myself to Berlin
jewishjournal.com ^ | May The 4th Be With You, 2016 | Orit Arfa

Posted on 05/05/2016 12:09:43 AM PDT by Berlin_Freeper

When I tell people I'm moving to Berlin for the summer, I usually get one of two reactions:

1. Berlin! Such a cool city. I'm jealous! 2. Why? I would never step foot in Germany.

Berlin made headlines among Israelis when the "Milky controversy" broke out in 2014. An Israeli Berliner bragged how cheap the cost of living is in Berlin compared to Israel, if grocery receipts are the judge. According to the chocolate pudding index (the Israeli brand being “Milky), the difference is 300 percent.

My calculations are not necessarily financial, although I don’t think I could afford living in any other Western European city (and how can anyone afford living in London?). It also doesn't hurt that I was shocked to look at my produce bill recently to find that I had paid $10 for a kilo of grapes at my local produce shop. Plus, I can't stand the Tel Aviv heat and humidity.

When I first visited Berlin in April 2014 on a "heritage tour" with my father, who was born in a Jewish DP camp in Hannover to Polish Auschwitz survivors, I admit that Germany spooked me out. But the country was part of my history, and what its people did to my grandparents 70 years ago has shaped who I am. This was the “historical” visit with the free walking tours of Holocaust memorials, WWII monuments, and, of course, Checkpoint Charlie.

I returned to Berlin for my "creative" visit a year later to work on my album with talented producers based in Berlin. No museums for me this time (just a Jewish cemetery I happened to pass by). I enjoyed nightlife and restaurants, experiencing Berlin as a vibrant city filled with people who were similar to me: creative, intellectual, curious.

My "journalistic" trip to Berlin came this past January when I went to cover the Muslim refugee crisis for The Jerusalem Post, not long after reports of sexual harassment by migrants in Cologne had turned public opinion against Merkel’s refugee immigration policy. It was then I realized Berlin is a journalist's paradise.

Germany is at a crossroads: How will the country adjust to this mass migration? Will it allow shariah law to creep into governance? Will it take on a more anti-Israel policy? Will the people return to their nationalist roots, and how will that affect attitudes towards both Jews and Muslims?

Just as I have grown up on tales of the extreme victimhood of my people (on my mother’s side, I’m a third generation survivor of the Farhud, the expulsion of Jews from Baghdad), Germans have grown up on tales of the extreme aggression of its people. We are inverses of two extremes, which means both of us have major post-trauma. To that end, I'll fit in more in Germany than other European countries.

I think there are voices in my generation who don't want to live in constant reaction to something that we personally didn’t do or experience – in their case, murder; in my case, being murdered. I'm sure many modern Germans would like to think they would have never been Nazis, while I'd love to think I would have fought back, or at least left to Palestine for a chance at freedom and self-reliance.

Our nations' respective policies are also deeply affected by our past, and we sometimes act reactively rather than objectively rational and ethical. Some Germans feel the need to overcompensate for their despicable past with indiscriminate immigration policies. Some Jews feel a need to overcompensate for their tragic past by making the Jewish state an idol that would suppress Jewish and Arab individual rights alike for what appears to be the Jewish State's security.

The concept of “Never Again” should be self-evident. The Holocaust should have never happened. We should have never lost 6,000,000 of our own. The Germans were evil for being such aggressors, but I also think Jews were, to some degree, unbelievably weak for being such easy victims, for rarely putting up a serious, calculated, organized fight for their right to their property and their lives, until it was too late.

With Nazis (thankfully) dying out, and Holocaust survivors hopefully enjoying the remaining years of their lives in joy, I believe we are entering a post-Holocaust era, in which the third generation will study, learn from, and never forget the slaughter, but in which the Holocaust won't disproportionately dictate who we are, what we should be, and how we should act.

For we should act not merely from fear of repeating the past, but from rational ethics guiding our confidence that we could create a just, happy, and free future.

I believe, to that end, Jews should live in Germany. It is the apt correction that will serve as a touchtone of Germany’s standing as a liberal democracy. Any country that protects a Jews’ right to worship and live freely is one that will thrive. And if ever again a Jew is threatened just for being a Jew, I would hope that Jews would live true to its tradition of civil disobedience and fight back, scream out, shout.

But I know I would never truly feel comfortable in Germany, never truly strong, never truly free, if I didn’t have my beloved, beautiful Israel to come back to.


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I am a fan. Maybe Orit will do something that can be attended. :)

Jews Can't Stop

1 posted on 05/05/2016 12:09:43 AM PDT by Berlin_Freeper
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To: Berlin_Freeper
Stay in Berlin but don't come a crying’ when the skin heads or Muslims kick the feces out of you. A Jew of Germanic origins who misses the good old days for a cheaper “Milky” can eat all the pudding she wants...
2 posted on 05/05/2016 12:20:02 AM PDT by Netz
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To: Netz

We’ll put you in the “feces” number two category:

2. Why? I would never step foot in Germany.


3 posted on 05/05/2016 12:24:21 AM PDT by Berlin_Freeper
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To: Netz

This naive yutz is willfully blind to the Mohammedan scourge.


4 posted on 05/05/2016 12:31:19 AM PDT by Mr. Mojo
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To: Berlin_Freeper
Too many muslims and I can't carry a sidearm. No way I'd ever live in Berlin, or anywhere in Europe.
5 posted on 05/05/2016 12:38:52 AM PDT by AlaskaErik (I served and protected my country for 31 years. Progressives spent that time trying to destroy it.)
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To: Berlin_Freeper
I have been to Germany having grown up in a “remembrance” Jewish household.

The issue is not visiting the country.

The issue is praising the “new” Germany with lofty adulation as an economic Garden of Eden while debasing Israel. The hot and humid weather there? Really?

Israel has many problems but to MOVE to Germany from there means you are a Jew without an anchor and wish to probably assimilate just as your forefathers there TRIED to do but were met with death. Islam is on the rise there and so is Antisemitisim. So, Jew girl, take your chances but don't yelp when the come to kick your sorry rear end.

6 posted on 05/05/2016 12:43:16 AM PDT by Netz
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To: Netz
Will it allow shariah law to creep into governance?

Shariah law will be the end of Germany. The German leader is already a silly fool. I hope the German people are smarter than the leader.

7 posted on 05/05/2016 12:56:12 AM PDT by Rapscallion (You are correct. It IS a conspiracy, not a bad dream.)
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To: Berlin_Freeper

The stupid is epic.


8 posted on 05/05/2016 1:00:54 AM PDT by fieldmarshaldj (Resist We Much)
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To: Berlin_Freeper
I'm jealous! 2. Why? I would

I don’t think I could

When I first visited Berlin

I returned to Berlin for my "creative"

My "journalistic" trip to Berlin came this past January when I went

I have grown up on tales of the extreme victimhood of my

I think there are voices in my generation

I'd love to think I would have fought back

But I know I would never truly

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9 posted on 05/05/2016 1:00:55 AM PDT by Byron_the_Aussie (It's them or us.)
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To: Rapscallion

The day they get smart is the day thy decorate the Capital city’s tallest lampost with a bright and shiny Merkel ornament.


10 posted on 05/05/2016 1:07:46 AM PDT by MIA_eccl1212 (10 rounds 10 meters 10 seconds 10 centimetres)
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To: MIA_eccl1212

Merkel: The greatest traitor to Germany since Hitler.


11 posted on 05/05/2016 1:41:45 AM PDT by fieldmarshaldj (Resist We Much)
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To: Byron_the_Aussie

The story is “first person.” “First person” does not equate to narcissism.


12 posted on 05/05/2016 1:44:59 AM PDT by ConservativeMind ("Humane" = "Don't pen up pets or eat meat, but allow infanticide, abortion, and euthanasia.")
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To: Berlin_Freeper

IF I ever go back, I think I’d stay close to the area around Wiesbaden or one of the other more well-to-do cities with a U.S. military presence nearby.


13 posted on 05/05/2016 2:27:37 AM PDT by equaviator (There's nothing like the universe to bring you down to earth.)
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To: Berlin_Freeper

The author is insane.

Europe never wanted us to live there. Time and time again they prove this.

Always remember Munich and what those @#$ Germans did after Black September killed the Jewish athletes. Germany always lets the terrorists go because they are afraid they’ll be targeted.


14 posted on 05/05/2016 3:09:01 AM PDT by Read Write Repeat
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To: Berlin_Freeper

Why I’m exiling myself to Berlin>>>>>>>>>>>

Why? Let me guess.

It’s better than Cologne, the Islamofascist Rape Kapital of Germany.


15 posted on 05/05/2016 3:54:54 AM PDT by Candor7 ( Obama fascism article:(http://www.americanthinker.com/2009/05/barack_obama_the_quintessentia_1.html)
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To: Berlin_Freeper

“And if ever again a Jew is threatened just for being a Jew, I would hope that Jews would live true to its tradition of civil disobedience and fight back, scream out, shout.”

Yes, gee, ‘cause the “tradition of civil disobedience and fight[ing] back, scream[ing] out, [and] shout[ing]” have always worked so well against anti-semiticism.

She’s a lovely woman, but she’s something of an idiot liberal at heart.


16 posted on 05/05/2016 5:47:07 AM PDT by vladimir998 (Apparently I'm still living in your head rent free. At least now it isn't empty.)
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To: Netz

It’s all about the pudding.

Quick, somebody get that person a gay cowboy!


17 posted on 05/05/2016 6:25:07 AM PDT by T-Bone Texan (Don't be a lone wolf. Form up small leaderlesss cells ASAP !)
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To: fieldmarshaldj

Hitler was Germany’s Hitler.

Merkel is Germany’s Lenin.


18 posted on 05/05/2016 6:26:28 AM PDT by T-Bone Texan (Don't be a lone wolf. Form up small leaderlesss cells ASAP !)
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To: Berlin_Freeper

Hitler did the same thing.


19 posted on 05/05/2016 6:27:33 AM PDT by central_va (I won't be reconstructed and I do not give a damn.)
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To: fieldmarshaldj

Yes. Ignorant or naive. Either way if she lasts a year without being raped it will be a story for her to write home about. If her head is still attached after 3 years it will be a near miracle.


20 posted on 05/05/2016 6:35:53 AM PDT by uncitizen (PST! Patriots Support Trump - Join Today)
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