As Claire says: "The great thing about a gun is that merely the sight of a gun in the hands of a person who seems ready and able to use it ends most encounters."
I have a couple of friends who say they could not pull the trigger on another human being even if their life was in danger. To these people I have advised to get a non-functioning gun to carry. If it does not deter him, at least he will not leave with a viable weapon to kill others.
Pacifists are morally bankrupt.
(See https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Aikido, https://www.aikidofaq.com/introduction.html, and https://www.aikidofaq.com/.)
Lethal to the attacker is okay. You have the right to self defense.
Why would live with a man who would willingly see you die so a rapist or killer might live?
Get a large dog, preferably one from a shelter with a history of an abusive previous male owner, keep it by your side at all times...
If you are a pacifist, there is no legitimate defense.
In a grid down, SHTF situation. Lady you can kiss Hubby’s azz buh bye. He’s not going to make it and he will take you with him.
BEAR REPELLENT in a spray can. KEEP IT WAY OUT OF REACH OF
CHILDREN!! - Those little “pepper spray” cans are too wimpy
and have to be aimed too much. BEAR SPRAY cuts a wide swath
with little aiming.
HIGH-BEAM FLASHLIGHT!! REAL HIGH-BEAM!!!! Aim Directly in
intruder’s eyes! KEEP AWAY FROM KIDS!!
I’m a woman. I carry a small but sturdy knife in my purse.
IF I have to, I will make a dive at the legs of a shooter,
cut through his fatigues and cut his legs where it will
make him cry. He won’t be expecting Twinkie to do this; but
I will. I carry a bandolero strap handbag to keep my hands
free so fingers can aim straight through terrorist’s eye-
hole outfits and hurt them. I expect kids to leave my
pocketbook alone.
When all else fails, MY GREAT-GREAT GRANDFATHER’S OLD
SMITH & WESSON REVOLVER. I imagine it knows how to kill
outlaws already with little help from me.