Posted on 02/10/2004 10:46:05 AM PST by ksen
Rdb3 makes a great point here. One which I have been thinking about myself.
While we may have suffered from the Discipline of "Thou Shalt Not Hit The Abuse Button" which I myself have encouraged, I'm not sure that FReeper Calvinists really have all that much to complain about when it comes to the Religion Forum.
Just look at our Ranks, the GRPL order of battle....
I mean, really... it's not as though the Catholics and Arminians and Mormons ever succeed in converting Calvinists to their own cause. On the FR Religion Forum, Discipleship is a one-way street: When Calvinists fight, WE WIN.
So what are we really complaining about?
When the battle is joined, the Catholics and Arminians and Mormons never gain any for their cause. Whereas we Reformation Protestants have gained many, and lost none. The numbers of Calvinist Baptists and Calvinist Presbyterians have swelled as a result of Freeper Calvinist apologetics on this very Forum.
It occurs to me that FReeper Calvinists have no cause to complain about the management of the FR Religion Forum. How can we complain, when we are constantly victorious??
The FR Religion Forum has provided many Ex-Catholics, Ex-Arminians, and Ex-Mormons a WAY OUT of the humanistic religions of their forebears, and INTO the fraternal communion of Bible-Believing Baptist and Presbyterian Churches.
Hmm. That sounds good to me. Maybe we should cut Jim Rob and the Moderators some slack.
Maybe we shouldn't argue against Success.
I mean, really... it's not as though the Catholics and Arminians and Mormons ever succeed in converting Calvinists to their own cause. On the FR Religion Forum, Discipleship is a one-way street: When Calvinists fight, WE WIN.
Perhaps that is the reason why some posters appear not to want to stay with the issues, so they flame us, and as soon as we respond , someone hits abuse.
What I do not understand is why they post to Calvinists at all if they think we offend them ?? No one, after all, is mandated to read any threads or respond to any posts . (and that includes us)
Woody asked:P.S. How did your post make it through without any deletion (or readmission)?
You replied:
You got me, I posted that as a joke and Ephesians210 took it the wrong way, sorry. I asked them to remove it.
BigMack
God says concerning your "joke"
Proverbs 26
18Like a madman who throws firebrands, arrows, and death, 19Is the man who deceives his neighbor, And says, "I was only joking!"
20Where there is no wood, the fire goes out; And where there is no talebearer, strife ceases.
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Now, if I were to respond to one of your posts saying, "Your post is one as from a braindead neanderthal. You are a miserable failure. I am deeply saddened"
Would you seriously see that as a "joke"
Well, would you?
We do not want to hurt anyones feeling..so we let them remain in their error.
It has to do I fear with the need to be loved , saying something that sounds negative may make you look bad or cost you a friend ,
I do think carried to an extreme it place self above the gospel .
I agree, what in essence happens is one builds their own kingdom instead of building God's Kingdom.
I stated that the PC gospel isn't the Gospel at all, and that most are too concerned about what their friends, neighbors, family, etc will think of them than they are in standing for the Truth to a study group I have been meeting with to discuss our pastor's sermon series in Acts....they were highly offended.
And it was in the light of discussion of the sermon on Stephen's martyrdom after his magnificient defense of the Gospel and strong rebuke of the Sanhedrin, which got him stoned.
Obviously Stephen did not consider his "kingdom" to be that valuable.
Sadly, the sacrifice of Stephen for the truth, and my comments concerning the PC gospel, etc, went over their heads. And this group considers themselves to be really "great" Christians. I was tempted to read them Jesus's letter to the church of the Laodiceans and ask them if they were hot or cold.
Does the following fit your criteria for being a "personal attack":
Sorry, your post contains only noise and ignored words. You are a miserable failure. I am deeply saddened.
Yes or no?
While we're in a questioning mood, though, did you attempt to register more than two new identities while you were under suspension?
For clarification, does this mean that all I have to do when I flame someone is put a little smiley face at the end and I'm good to go?
Jean
No. For one thing the poster made clear in a later post that it was meant to be a joke (to which I think you replied), and secondly, this thread is in the backroom, where the rules are more leniently enforced.
Again, for clarification, does this mean that all I have to do when I flame someone in the Smokey Backroom is put a little smiley face at the end and then claim at some later point that I was joking and I'm good to go?
BigMack's post that claimed he was joking came exactly 59 minutes and 53 seconds after the initial flame. Is 1 hour the limit to claim it is a joke?
Jean
Nope.
Jean
Every post is judged, insofar as is humanly possible, on its own merits. I'm not about to make a ruling on some future possibility.
IIRC, between the time the post in question here was made, and the time I was made aware of it, the thread had been moved from the Religion Forum to The Smokey Backroom. Further, a lot happened on this thread which made this particular post fairly mild in comparison.
Instead of looking for ways to skate close to the line, why not try to live within the rules?
That "emoticon" can mean many things, such as "smugness" by the poster of that insult, and is open to subjective interpretation. A plain statement of it having been a "joke" would have made it clear, instead of a subjective "emoticon".
- and there was no abuse report or complaint made, I let it go.
That wasn't the question. I did not ask why you let it go.
I'll restate the query:
Does the following fit your criteria for being a "personal attack":
Sorry, your post contains only noise and ignored words. You are a miserable failure. I am deeply saddened.
Yes or no?
I didn't hit the "abuse" button, because I'm not a whiner like some who will go un-named.
Again does the following meet your criteria for being a "personal attack":
Sorry, your post contains only noise and ignored words. You are a miserable failure. I am deeply saddened.
Yes or no?
A simple yes or no answer is all that is required. Either it does or it doesn't.
In contrast, I have seen blatant attacks go unchallenged.
I'm just wondering about what seems to be some inconsistancy.
Earlier this morning, you removed a post from Wrigley and instructed him to "Stop trying to start a flame war.".
I've seen the post and I talked to Wrigley -there was no way that post was remotely "baiting" -nor did Wrigley intend to "start a flame war".
It was a serious question put to Alamo-Girl in an attempt to get her to clarify her position.
Due to the fact that you removed his post and responded to him as you did, other readers who did not have the opportunity to read that post are left with the impression that Wrigley was playing games.
Yet, BigMack's taunting post remained because he included a smiley face and said he was joking an hour later.
I don't get it.
Jean
It doesn't. What it has to do with is the criteria you use as a Moderator, and whether that criteria is dealt with evenhandedly.
Proverbs 11
1 Dishonest scales are an abomination to the LORD, But a just weight is His delight.
I don't get it.
I asked "BigMack" if I came out of the blue, him not having seen me before, and jumped into the middle of a discussion he was having with someone, and said this, "Your post is one as of a braindead neanderthal. You are a miserable failure. I am deeply saddened", would he take that as a "joke"?
No response from BigMack.
It amazes me that the Mod expected me to read into a "smiley face", BigMack's intentions. His words in the insult spoke much clearer than some subjective "emoticon".
No.
If not, then why was my perfectly legitimate post that asked "xzins" not to post to me or else he would be ignored, removed, and a clear insult allowed to stand?
Also, if the "smiley face" does not negate the insult as you have admitted, then why did you previously use the defense that it was allowed to stand because of the "smiley face"? Sorry, but you seem to be contradicting yourself here.
For one thing the poster made clear in a later post that it was meant to be a joke
So, we can insult someone with a smiley face, and come back an hour later and say it was a joke, and it's perfectly, ok? That is what you are saying.
and secondly, this thread is in the backroom, where the rules are more leniently enforced.
Again, if that is truly the case, that the "rules" are "more leniently enforced" in the backroom, then why was my post stating that I didn't desire "xzins" to post to me and if he did he would be ignored deleted, under "more leniently enforced rules" and a clear insult allowed to stand?
It looks to me like a clear cut case of selective enforcement, personal bias, and unever scales.
Proverbs 11
1 Dishonest scales are an abomination to the LORD, But a just weight is His delight.
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