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Girls get extra school help while boys get Ritalin
USA Today/Yahoo ^ | 8/29/03 | USA Today - Staff

Posted on 08/29/2003 3:09:56 PM PDT by Pro-Bush

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To: WOSG
It is as important if not more so for men to attain College degrees, more so than ever before as non-College work for men has declined in average pay, declined in size of total employment in recent decades.

Agreed.

And it is likely more important for men than women, as men face fewer not more opportunities and prospects than women without such degrees.

I'm not certain that that has been established, that "men face fewer prospects thas women without degrees." We would need to see that women's non-degreed opportunities are more numerous than men's and that these same opportunities are closed off to men (the marriage option for increasing one's econmic standing being the exception, as you pointed out.)

The well-publicized 'advantages' to men in pay virtually disappear when you account for previous experience, actual work performed (how much you work), and difficulty and unpleasantness of the task.

For example: A construction worker working hard 8 hour shifts and facing job risks that give you the highest death rate among job classifications makes more than a secretary doing non-physically demanding work in a more pleasant work environment. The shocker is why this would surprise.

[ None the less, it is/was still a more renumerative job which was close off to women until recently].

But the other shocker is there are only so many 'blue-collar' type jobs and they certainly are not a panacea for men looking at careers, and that trends continue to favor more of the "service" type jobs and less of those "traditional male" jobs in mining, manufacturing etc. that can keep a family without doing college-level work.

NO question about that.

The gap between wages for college and non-college graduates is a yawning gap, and it is dangerous and foolish to suggest anyone capable of getting through college should forego it lightly.

Agreed. My remark, which set off all this brouhaha, was that men could go into trades and make a good income. This was meant to be both serious and a little tongue-in-cheek, which to my regret, was not received that way. It is imperative that, if college is not the route pursued, training to some skill level is. We've both heard the stories of the well off plumber, electricians and contractors. The other skilled vocation that is going begging is for trained mechanics. These guys can clear $100,000 and are in short supply.

EVERYONE needs a skill, whether the analytic skills obtained in college or other training.

ON a thread about the "feminization" of schools and their unfriendly atmosphere for boys, the prejudice against skilled training for men is perplexing. These skills were long associated with "manly" work. They are a good match for some of the young men for whom school, in general, is a trial. This is NOT to say that there is not a problem in schools as they now exist. But you would surely admit that much of the ritalin drugging was advocated, supplied and prescribed by MEN who have played a role in this disgrace. And where were the men on school boards, school administration and in the classtooms ? We need more of their advocacy to counter that of this 'feminist" viewpoint.

The hostility evidenced on this site is disturbing as it goes beyond civil debate. If the cost of becoming educated is to distort one's character to that extent, I don't think it is worth the trade off. As you pointed out in your earlier post, higher education can be the experience of being denigrated for who you are. For one's own mental health, it would be better to flee the asylum than be taken down.

I was just trying to point out some of the options to becoming insane.

201 posted on 08/31/2003 11:01:41 PM PDT by happygrl
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To: annyokie
More recess time would solve that Ritalin issue. Of course you can't play dodge-ball in gym anymore and running around the playground is considered dangerous.

We used to play a great game in jr. high phys ed. that I'm sure isn't allowed anymore. It was called "medicine ball." Four guys crouched at each corner of a huge wrestling mat with a big heavy medicine ball placed in the center. When the instuctor blew the whistle we'd crawl as fast as we could to the ball and attempted to wrestle it to our corner. The fights that naturally ensued were epic, and outrageously fun.

202 posted on 08/31/2003 11:04:41 PM PDT by Mr. Mojo
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To: Dr. Eckleburg; annyokie
For someone with "Dr" in you moniker, you are the most hystrical poster that I've encountered on this forum. Far from giving evidence of a scientific bent, you are emotional, make assumptions with no knowledge, discount evidence, and have a bad temperment.

Anyone can claim to be who they aren't, to "know personally" famous people, to even claim to read books as you have. Nothing in your posts indicate any knowledge of Betty Friedan or Germaine Greer either.

You are a fraud.

If you do have children, I feel sorry for them, based on your temperment and rudeness alone.

203 posted on 08/31/2003 11:16:21 PM PDT by happygrl
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To: happygrl
Read your posts to see who the "hysteric" is. You're the one calling people "lesbians" whom you know zero about.

Your type is all too obvious. You pontificate without any knowledge; you instruct with no experience.

You tell young men to become plumbers while you applaud girls getting into college with lower grades. Then you go off on tangents and defend your careless remarks by criticizing others.

Normally I wouldn't pay you the time of day. But your attitude is SO indicative of what young men are up against these days.

Stop whining and get a life of your own instead of telling others what's good for them.

Kindly don't ping me again.

204 posted on 08/31/2003 11:34:58 PM PDT by Dr. Eckleburg (There are very few shades of gray.)
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To: Dr. Eckleburg
you applaud girls getting into college with lower grades

Please provide one instance where I applauded girls for getting into college with lower grades.

Please provide one instance where I advocated discrimination.

205 posted on 08/31/2003 11:42:08 PM PDT by happygrl
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To: Paul C. Jesup
No I equate living off taxpayers, as the million or more men who live in prison do, as something that men do to "make a living."
206 posted on 09/01/2003 4:00:08 AM PDT by happygrl
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To: luckystarmom
I took offense to that remark.

I hope you remember this comment next time you need a plumber.

What a load of elitism on this thread.

207 posted on 09/01/2003 4:07:47 AM PDT by happygrl
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To: happygrl
What you don't get is that the women are doing it by chose and can still vote and the man are not in prison by chose and cannot vote.

Your arguement is getting more twisted by the minute. I get the feeling that you want all men to locked up in prison.

208 posted on 09/01/2003 5:12:36 AM PDT by Paul C. Jesup
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To: happygrl
What you don't get is that the women are doing it by chose and can still vote and the man are not in prison by chose and cannot vote.

Your arguement is getting more twisted by the minute. I get the feeling that you want all men to be locked up in prison.

209 posted on 09/01/2003 5:13:03 AM PDT by Paul C. Jesup
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To: Pro-Bush
At last June's graduation at Franklin High School just outside of Milwaukee, three of the four students who tied for valedictorian were girls. Among the National Honor Society members, 76% were girls. And girls comprised 85% of the students on Franklin's 4.0 honor roll. The superintendent of schools for this upper-middle-class suburb, Gerald Freitag, investigated those numbers after the parents of a boy filed a complaint. He found that the skewed performances by gender at Franklin pretty much mirror the imbalances across the state and the nation.

Bump

210 posted on 09/01/2003 5:18:46 AM PDT by A. Pole
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To: RnMomof7
The teacher said they "like" students to come to the teacher for mediation" .

Did she mean "mediation" or "medication"?

211 posted on 09/01/2003 5:23:47 AM PDT by A. Pole
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To: A. Pole
Did she mean "mediation" or "medication"?

:>)

212 posted on 09/01/2003 10:11:35 AM PDT by RnMomof7
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To: RnMomof7
Bump for a woman who KNOWS what she's talking about.
213 posted on 09/01/2003 10:36:27 AM PDT by Dr. Eckleburg (There are very few shades of gray.)
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To: Paul C. Jesup
the man are not in prison by chose and cannot vote.

What are you on ?

These men's actions, by their own CHOICE has put them in prison.

214 posted on 09/01/2003 1:18:02 PM PDT by happygrl
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To: happygrl
What are you on ?

I asked you first, twice before.

These men's actions, by their own CHOICE has put them in prison.

That is pure BS and YOU KNOW IT. What those who are sent to prison under false accusations. Like being falsely accused of rape or murder, it happens more often than not.

215 posted on 09/01/2003 6:27:39 PM PDT by Paul C. Jesup
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To: WOSG
Everything you say of course confirms the reality that school is designed for the average not the exceptional. This thread started though by pointing out how schools cant even handle the "normal" male pattern behavior. If they call boyish pranks "ADD disorder", and cannot handle 1/2 of the student population that is male well, there is little hope than such a system indoctrinated into egalitarian anti-elitist pedagogy would help much the 3-sigma high-end students. They put the genius outlyers in the "special" category, and often do *less* for them than they do for the "special" retards at the other end of the bell curve.

Well, I can't argue with that. I have been an extremely vocal supporter of abolishing the public school systems for some time. If you study their history they have no right to exist, and their actual performance gives me no reason to support their existence. As it is, they only serve to perpetuate the state rather than to optimize the state. And their current treatment of males-as-pathologies is horrendous.

PS: So what is your field of expertise and your career?

I am a mix of engineer, entrepreneur, and executive. My field of true expertise and authority is algorithmic information theory, though I have a uni background in chemistry, chemical engineering, and computational chemistry. My venture interests are in many fields though. I currently am timeslicing between a two year old global networking/telecom venture that has done very well since it was put together (the company uses an exceptionally optimal network/software architecture which I helped design -- nothing else like it in existence, and so effective that it was profitably bootstrapped without external venture capital), a closed hedge fund that exploits some of the IP I've developed, and some unexpectedly profitable real estate ventures that I do because I enjoy it. I'm working on putting together another company that will commercialize the results of an eight year research effort that provably solved a longstanding "hard" theoretical problem of the 20th century (I'll have a really hard time topping this particular achievement). So I do a lot of things, and considering my age, I've done a hell of a lot so far. No matter what I'm doing, I have bigger ideas on the shelf that I am trying to pipeline into execution. Its the kind of thing I live for.

And somehow, I manage to find time for the brilliant lady (now publishing executive), who I've known since I was a young nobody trying to make my way in the world. I have to give her a lot of credit actually; we've known each other since we were both gutter rats and she has been enormously helpful, even though we both made our success independently due to odd circumstances of our background.

So I started with little more than my brain, but I've maximized my limited resources to the hilt, been bold when it counted, and done a lot in a relatively short time. Its the American thing to do. :-)

See? Ask a question, get too much information...

216 posted on 09/02/2003 1:07:00 AM PDT by tortoise (All these moments lost in time, like tears in the rain.)
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To: happygrl
For someone with "Dr" in you moniker, you are the most hystrical poster that I've encountered on this forum. Far from giving evidence of a scientific bent, you are emotional, make assumptions with no knowledge, discount evidence, and have a bad temperment.

gee, sounds like quite a few of the profs I've run across ... you ever hear of Prof Noam Chomsky?

217 posted on 09/02/2003 9:43:50 AM PDT by WOSG (Lower Taxes means economic growth)
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To: tortoise
Thanks for a fascinating description of your interests; I sent a freep mail to you on it, I'd like to follow up and exchange ideas.

218 posted on 09/02/2003 11:30:06 AM PDT by WOSG (Lower Taxes means economic growth)
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To: Pro-Bush
Where are the male teachers?

Related story on FR:

http://www.freerepublic.com/focus/f-news/971465/posts
219 posted on 09/02/2003 5:24:57 PM PDT by Lorianne
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To: mtbopfuyn
It is kind of interesting that boys SAT scores are higher, and yet the grades are lower. Sounds like discriminatory grading to me.
220 posted on 09/02/2003 5:35:40 PM PDT by meyer
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