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Decoupling Children and Marriage (Why are more and more American babies being born out of wedlock?)
Christian Post ^ | 6/27/2009 | Charles Colson

Posted on 06/28/2009 8:51:35 AM PDT by SeekAndFind

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To: mamelukesabre
Girls just wanna have fun. And then take your money.

Naw, you just don't want to share!

61 posted on 06/28/2009 12:05:01 PM PDT by MamaDearest
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To: GAB-1955
No child should suffer for the bad choices his parents made. The parents should be made to suffer financially instead - but you can't divorce the child's money from the parent's money.

Not so fast. Another reason why young people live together, but don't marry is, believe it or not, health insurance. In today's economy, the young man's job just doesn't pay enough to cover the premiums. Sometimes he is uninsured.

If the young woman can stay under her parents' insurance for the meantime, that is what she will do. Young people are already suffering financially as it is. The liberal way has made it almost impossible to continue with a traditional lifestyle. They penalize marriage. If they stay unmarried, she and the children can get WIC and Medicaid. He's paying the taxes, but not getting anything.

62 posted on 06/28/2009 12:40:23 PM PDT by pray4liberty (http://www.aroodawakening.tv)
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To: MamaDearest

Why should I share if they’re just gonna leave anyway?


63 posted on 06/28/2009 12:43:31 PM PDT by mamelukesabre (Si Vis Pacem Para Bellum (If you want peace prepare for war))
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To: SeekAndFind
Decoupling Children and Marriage

deconstrucionism knows no bounds.

64 posted on 06/28/2009 4:40:00 PM PDT by the invisib1e hand
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To: wintertime

Level of education plays a very big role. I read somewhere that the out-of-wedlock birth rate for women with a college degree is less than 10%.


65 posted on 06/28/2009 5:11:40 PM PDT by hout8475
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To: SeekAndFind

When these single parents’ children have flown the coop and they have no-one to grow old with, then they will have some regrets.


66 posted on 06/28/2009 5:15:34 PM PDT by visualops (portraits.artlife.us or visit my freeper page)
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To: Blackacre
In such societies, men have no choice but to marry someone they knock up. Traditional societies like that are quite functional when it comes to parenting, marriage and family life.

True, but we both know that's NOT how the liberals are using the the concept. When I was growing up (here is the good ol' USA) the concept was still in full effect as well. If you screwed up at school or in public, your parents knew about it. Other adults were to be respected and had command authority (within reason). But the Liberals/Communists have perverted this idea into promoting illegitimacy and demanding that men collectively take care of children, regardless of who makes them.

67 posted on 06/28/2009 5:28:18 PM PDT by Clock King
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To: Tallguy
I’m thinking the “Me-First” culture that we live in is a historical fluke born of prosperity... prosperity of western civilization in general, and the US in particular. What happens as we begin the big crunch and the coming generations do not enjoy as high a standard of living as we? Do they return to the basics?

I have often hoped that it might be possible to turn around from economic privation. Thinking back on the Roaring Twenties, the women for the first time in Christian history wore scanty clothing, cut off their hair, smoked and wore makeup and processed hair, ran around in cars and went to nightclubs against their parents' wishes, and there was a huge traffic in cocaine and illegal whiskey.

Fast forward to 1929 and the Depression, and then to the 30s, 40s and 50s, which were probably the most conservative decades in a century. Skirts were long again and both men and women wore suits with shoulder pads or tailored clothing in public, with hats, gloves and starched and pressed fabrics, even at the seashore in the evening just to walk the boardwalk. Church attendance and the rate and duration of marriages were at an all-time high in this country. Sexual mores moved into the Norman Rockwell zone, and doing drugs was only for utter scumbags. It took about a decade of prosperity after WWII to start having cracks in the foundation, with the aggressive communist infiltration that had started with FDR's administration starting to become more brazen after WWII. But after the McCarthy hearings the commies and Christian-haters simply moved their nexus of operations away from government to Hollywood and the universities, where they have been more successful at taking over the culture, if not the administration of government -- until January 2009, that is.

I hope we're about hitting bottom now, but it may take another 10 to 20 years after this latest commie Admin -- assuming the Axis of Evil will permit us to survive.

68 posted on 06/28/2009 6:33:36 PM PDT by Albion Wilde ("Shouldn't there be equal time for our Bill of Responsibilities?" -- Justice Clarence Thomas)
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To: mamelukesabre

And that was just after the first date.


69 posted on 06/28/2009 7:47:42 PM PDT by karatemom (I'll take that "pain pill" now, please.)
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To: Clock King

I think PJ O’Rourke said it best- when Hillary says “it takes a villsge to raise a child” she really means that the “village” is the government and the “child” is the rest of us.


70 posted on 06/28/2009 8:28:46 PM PDT by Blackacre
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To: muawiyah

Watch “Idiocracy.”


71 posted on 06/28/2009 9:32:05 PM PDT by ConservativeMind (The UN has never won a war, nor a conflict, but liberals want it to rule all militaries.)
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To: mamelukesabre
Then they are not seeking and finding the “right kind of women.”

They are also not the “right kind of guys,” it would appear.

Good women are out there, but they usually try to marry good guys.

72 posted on 06/28/2009 9:34:10 PM PDT by ConservativeMind (The UN has never won a war, nor a conflict, but liberals want it to rule all militaries.)
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To: hout8475
“out-of-wedlock birth rate for women with a college degree is less than 10%.”

That is the group that seeks the services of an abortionist most frequently and does a little family planing don't you know. Thus preventing the out-of-wedlock birth.

73 posted on 06/28/2009 9:36:07 PM PDT by BellStar (May the Fourth be with you!)
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To: ConservativeMind

We have our own copy of it.


74 posted on 06/29/2009 7:39:30 AM PDT by muawiyah
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To: BellStar
“out-of-wedlock birth rate for women with a college degree is less than 10%.”

That is the group that seeks the services of an abortionist most frequently and does a little family planing don't you know. Thus preventing the out-of-wedlock birth.

Your statement sounded counterintuitive to me, so I looked around for statistics. I couldn't find abortion rates by education level, but found that as income levels went up, abortion rates went down. Income and education levels correlate pretty well, so it seems that more educated women are less likely to get abortions than their less-educated peers.

75 posted on 06/29/2009 1:01:41 PM PDT by Blackacre
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